Is There A Handbook?

I often wonder if there is a handbook that HCBM’s all follow. When I saw this woman on TikTok this morning, it reminded me of something Keith’s ex wrote him in April 1995 about a box we (he and I) sent to his kids.

This is what his ex wife wrote:

From the Ex- April 1995

This is the TikTok I saw this morning- this BM (Bio Mom) was angry that the girlfriend/stepmom bought a dress for her stepdaughters elementary (or middle school) school graduation. Well, let me post the ranting one first… it seems she shares 50/50 custody, and she pays support.

Now the video that reminded me of what the ex in my situation wrote about…

Is there a handbook they follow?

Just curious…

P~