Month: November 2003

J wrote Keith this afternoon at 1:12pm.

The Subject line is: Privacy Rights

She sent it to Keith, twice and to the “other person” she “doesn’t know”.

She writes:

” You have no right to contact my physicians, dentist, orthodontist, or vision providers for any reason.

They have all been advised of your impersonation of me and of the volitale situation. All my accounts have been password protected to further prevent you from calling my doctors.

You are not the patient, not the customer and have no responsibility to those caretakes I choose.

My doctors can and will be changed to other doctors if this should continue. I won’t have to bill your insurance and you will never know who I choose. I don’t care about you taking care of me.

My relationship with my health providers is private, and should you try to gain access to my accounts or records the providers will be sued and so will you.

You have no right to contact my doctors, regarding my billing relationship. No right to change information on my accounts or with my doctors.

Mind your own damn business and take care of yourself. I will make what ever changes I feel necessary for the benefit of myself and L as I choose.

My choice of healthcare is not your business, my choice of pharmacy is not your business. My choice of payments to my healthcare provider is none of your business.

When exactly was the last time I asked you to pay for medical. Take a run around the corner and see if you can catch your own tail.

I take care of L daily, I take her to the doctors, I will continue to do so without asking her for something in return. I-me- not you.

I have removed all information you have given to my personal physicians, and have password protected all my accounts.”

this evening at 9:01pm, J sent this email to someone she doesn’t even know.

She wrote: “You can plainly see that Mr. D has gone wild with anger and hatred towards me. I have no plans of hiring an attorney or going through the court system again.

I do plan on doing what is best for my daughter, regardless of his rules, procedure or otherwise opinion.

Too bad he has so much hatred that he cannot see what is best for our daughter. There are not hidden agendas here, no secret plans to sabotage him, no behind the back maneuvers.

Just plain and simple convenience and low cost medical insurance for our daughter.

Gee, his e-mail should tell you that he just plain hates me. He needs to find peace and you should help him, I have found peace. Peace in my heart that I am telling the truth and standing up for what matters, our daughter. Both my children have seen me stand up for them, and have seen with their own eyes and heard with their own ears what he does and says or better yet does not say.

He can’t see past money to see what our daughter needs, he got too caught up with his new family and forgot about his previous one.

Oh well, change is good and I will make the necessary changes to benefit our daughter, With or Without his consent.

I personally don’t have the time like him and his wife do to become self absorbed in all the meddling they have done with airlines, doctors, dentists, court systems, my old friends, my son’s job, orthodontist, oral surgeons, insurance companies and the internet without my permission.

Last I heard it was a federal offense to investigate with the airlines information that was not entitled to them at all. Just one example of the years of harassment into my personal life, for their enjoyment.

I am done with this conversation, you need to help Mr. D before he has a heart attack and leaves all his children fatherless. Even then I would have to hassle to get Social Security benefits due to his current wife. Whatever their problem is has caused me many years of grief, and cost him the relationship with both N and L. Too bad that he can’t see the importance of the relationship and not the paperwork.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, Christmas and Happy New Year. May God Bless you so that you can help Mr. D forgive. I have forgiven and moved on to a very peaceful place where he can’t hurt me anymore. I will protect our children from that same hurt and will continue to be there for them. J”