Month: January 2004

Seems I’ve pissed someone off…. can you guess who? LOL

I got a letter today from Coleen. She was NOT happy. Apparently, she read the letter I wrote Anthony.

Her letter is dated 1-7-04, it’s postmarked 1-8-04 and I received it today, Jan. 9th. Good LORD this woman….

Her letter reads as follows: “Patty, I am writting this letter so that we can get a few things straight.

Number 1: Your facts are a little screwed up for instance Tony’s insurance if its so duel dont use it. And if he’s not paying for it who in the hell is. We pay over $700.00 a month for medical insurance so you better screw that head of yours on a bit tighter. 2: We have our own daughter to support, if the $600.00 a month you get off my husband is not enough you get off your fat ass and get a job. You have a lot of nerve bitch. Take us to court and I hope that judge tells you the same thing the last one did. Number 3: Here’s a picture of a cute kid.” And she enclosed a picture of a little blonde haired toddler. No clue who she is, but here is my response to Anthony regarding this letter.

Dated today, Jan 9th, “Dear Anthony “Tony” (rest of legal name),

I am writing this letter so that YOU can get a few things straight.

YOU and I, Anthony, had a child together, NOT Colleen and I, so my “legal business” is with YOU, not Colleen. YOU are court ordered to carry medical insurance on Sarah (legal name). IF I were to quit using one of the two insurances that Sarah is presently covered under, I would quit using my husbands plan.

YOU do NOT pay $700 a month in medical insurance. A letter from your employer dated in 1998 with confirmation as early as today, BOTH state that your employer pays 100% of the premium. There is no cost to you for health insurance that you carry on Sarah or yourself. Remember, when you tried to make this same claim in 2002. NO ONE believed you. Remember the DA’s officer we met with at the Court house called your employer to verify your information, and at that time as well, your employer said there is no cost to you. The Judge didn’t believe you either.

YOU do NOT pay $600.00 a month in child support for Sarah. I have attached a document, a copy of the most recent court order, stating that you are ordered to pay $466.00 a month. Where that extra $134.00 you have someone ELSE believing you are paying in support, is, I have no idea, nor do I care because I KNOW I you don’t pay $600.00 in support.

Congratulations on the baby, IF she is even yours. All Children are cute and all little girls are Princesses. The new child support order I got was filed 9-30-02, “15 months ago”, what a coincidence huh? I know that you tried to claim a hardship for a child that wasn’t yours to support. This should be interesting…

If you do not pay the balance of $284.15 off, on or before Feb. 8th, 2004 like I stated in my letter of Jan 2 2004 to you, then I will take the necessary steps to rectify this problematic situation, legally. Patricia (full name)”

Sent Anthony a letter dated January 2, 2004. I mailed it on Jan 6th and he got it, today, Jan. 7th. In it, I wrote:

” Dear Anthony,

Attached is a copy of the expenses I have paid since 1995. As of December 31, 2003, you are still owing the amount of $284.15, which is the remaining balance due after your $110.01 payment in 1998.

There is absolutely NO reason why this balance cannot be and has not been paid off for 8 years. The child support you pay goes towards Sarah’s monthly living expenses, ie: food, clothing, and shelter. To carry her on your medical insurance (at no cost to you) and to pay one half of her medical expenses as court ordered is on TOP of the child support you are ordered to pay. You KNOW this to be true, by your agreement, in 1998, to pay these outstanding medical expenses at $20-$25.00 a month until there were paid in full. You failed to keep your end of the agreement, when you told that is what you pay child support for and refused to pay any more towards this balance.

As you can see, due to the fact that Sarah has dual insurance, the out of pocket medical expenses are cut drastically, especially where dental is concerned. My husband does not have to carry Sarah on his insurance, and since I am not working, nor am I court ordered to carry insurance on her, these expenses can be much more annually. My husband carries Sarah on his insurance as extra protection for HER, something I am very appreciative of. HE and I have paid all these expenses, $788.32, ($394.16 of it is your half) minus the $110.01 you have contributed.

I have already sent you all the copies of the eob’s and receipts of expenses you owe. I will not send them again.

I am giving you until Feb. 8th, 2004, approx 36 days, to become current on these medical expenses. If you have failed to bring current these outstanding medical expenses from 1995 to present, I will bring this issue before a judge and request a wage garnishment for medical expenses, as well as to be reimbursed for court costs and filling fees.

Any questions? You can write me at the address above, or leave a voice mail at (my phone number) OR, if you have access to email, you can email me at (my email address).

Happy New Year. (My legal name)”

Wrote Anthony that he now owes $394.16, that my husband and I have paid $788.32. I let him know I was giving him until 2/8, approx 36 days to get current and if he fails to, I will bring this issue before a Judge and request a wage garnishment for medical expenses as well as court costs and filing fees.

I told him if he had any questions, he can write me at my home address, leave a voice mail, or email me.

I wrote this on 1/2, took it to the PO on 1/6 and he got it today.

Keith wrote his ex and his daughter at 3:58pm. He addressed the email to his ex, stating, “(her name), I have no idea what lies you have been telling (daughter), but I don’t know ANYTHING about this. If I owe you money, then maybe you should start sending me copies of bills and copies of EOB’s so that I know what and that I owe instead of whining to (daughter) about how I won’t pay for something, when I don’t know anything about it. Court Orders say I have to pay half of uncovered medical, and I can’t pay for things that I know nothing about. “

When Keith wrote his ex back at 08:46am, after reading her bs of an email January 5th, he flat out told her, ” (Her name), don’t count on knowing if and when I am ever seriously ill or dead. It would be none of YOUR business, (her name).’ He went on to tell her she really needs to do something about her mental health, that she seems unhealthy, delusional an a habitual liar. Her excessive emails, letters and phone calls gave him this impression, plus her telling ME in the late 90’s what diagnosis she was given.

People forget what they write. Liars can’t keep track of their lies…look at this. Keith’s ex wrote this email in January 2004. Notice how she blames me for their problems and saying between 8/89 and 7/95, all was well between them? LOL WATCH….

She says, “your letter was a good argument against mine. We can’t even write each other without fighting.” This was before I even met him. There never should have been issues between him and the kids from the get go. Any issues SHE had with Keith and or myself, should have been kept between the ADULTS. She NEVER should have brought the kids into it. Not EVERYTHING needed to be discussed with the kids.

On top of this little fact, she went on to say that “Neither of them or myself want to get emails generated by your wife…Your spine has been sucked out with a straw through your ass by the persons you live with. I bet you can’t shit without her inspecting it for some form of transmission to the outside world….Both (son and daughter) have seen with their own eyes how you treat Sarah and Thomas. The episode of (son) telling Sarah that she is not his sister still rings true in both their heads and memories…lets not forget the time that (daughter) made Pat mad with the email that Fat got into without (daughters) permission or the phones calls that have been listened to. Then so mature of Pat to ignore. I mean flat out ignore not talk to (daughter) while she is there at your home. Can you imagine how stupid let alone immature that is? Have you tried that with Sarah? When she makes you made do you ignore her and do you yell at her? I hardly think so and that is what both (son and daughter ) have seen and felt…. You have plenty of money and what an excuse to give (daughter) for no gift. You have cell phones, answering machines, computers, cars plus internet service, etc. etc. etc. Change your lifestyle and have your wife get a job to keep her out of our business. Then you would not feel the pinch of money….You know if you have just been civil and kept your wife out of our business you would still be paying 200.00 a month for support….”

This lady is so vile and vulgar.

Stepdaughter emailed her a Dad. This email, along with many others, really shows how truly evil his ex is, in my opinion.

His daughter is still on the “Keith” kick, so that’s how she addresses him in this email. She continues on….
1st apragraph response: I wouldn’t be so mad if you didn’t say all the those harsh things about me my brother and my mother. Yes its ok that my mom says this stuff because most of the time I agree with her. Because you guys argue about the stupidest stuff like $1.00 on insurance that you can’t pay or think that my mother is cheating you just to get money….which she isn’t…so I just don’t understand why you can’t just agree with her to pay or whatever the case is, its stupid stuff like this that just annoy me…!

2nd paragraph response: How can I forgive you when you say all these things like “if you weren’t pregnant with (son) I would have NEVER married you” or “I think that (daughter) was pregnant and she had a abortion or a miscarriage” I can speak for myself. I am a young aduly trying to live my life on my own. So if you think my mother is speaking for me she isn’t but yet, in some way yes…because I don’t want to get all upset and get hurt by the things you have said about me, my brother and my mother. If you actually knew who I was maybe you wouldn’t think that I can’t speak for myself.

3rd paragraph response: First….yes I did get thank you from an e-mail but not by phone which I was expecting. Second I sent the gift to THOMAS you know my half brother…I didn’t send the gift to SARAH (which I don’t need to) it was marked for Thomas and not anyone else. So I don’t know why Sarah got into it. Well you know what I ignored PAT as well and you aren’t saying anything about that so yes. I ignored PAT & SARAH to bad they aren’t my family. I got gift to my FATHER and MY HALF BROTHER and not anyone else. WELL Keith I didn’t present from you so what does that say…yes I got the thank you card but I don’t know why it was signed and addressed by sarah’s handwriting she is not my half brother or my father so don’t have her send anything to me by that way again.

4th paragraph response: Yes I will have a great life…and yes I will enjoy it whether you are in it or not. YES I LOVE YOU TOO BUT RIGHT NOW I DON”T HAVE TO LIKE YOU” Andie Anderson”

Keith sent his response at 7:49pm:

(daughters name), What’s with this Keith business? Hate me that much that you can’t refer to me as Dad? If you hate me that much that you can’t refer to me as dad and you tell me not to email you or text message you, and you don’t want to talk to me anymore and that (her stepdad- her mom’s now ex husband) was/is more of a father to you, what’s up with this email? 1st paragraph response: If the truth is harsh, then so be it. If “stupid stuff like this” just annoys you, then maybe you should tell YOUR MOTHER to quit talking to you about it. Since you obviously don’t know what goes on with the insurance, and you take your mothers word as gospel, and you agree with everything she says, then you are ignorant to the facts and only know one half of the whole thing.

2nd paragraph response: You and (her brother) are the BEST things that came from my marriage to your mom. I thank GOD you and (her brother). It’s true, though, I would not have married her if she wasn’t already pregnant. If you are a “young adult trying to live your life on your own” then you need to learn to deal with some “harsh” facts of life. Interesting how your mom says, and you agree with her from what you said, that I am the cause of (Keith’s oldest daughter) getting pregnant as a teenager because I wasn’t around and yet when I mention that I think that is what may have happened to you, because I can’t get any answers from either you or your “beautiful” mother, you get offended. Why? It could very well have been you, and what happened to you last year. If I actually knew who you were? Interesting, but kind of hard to do, when nothing is ever new with you, and you are never doing anything, and you haven’t been to visit and when you do , it is ALWAYS interrupted by phone calls or emails from your mother, and anytime I DO know something about what is going on with you, I get accused of invading your privacy. Make up your mind (her name). If you are a “young adult” trying to live your life on your own, then you need to start speaking for yourself.

3rd paragraph response: First, glad you my email thanking you for the present. I didn’t get ANY one presents yet for Christmas. I couldn’t afford to. A harsh reality. I never got a list of what you wanted even though I asked over and over. If you want to send one now, that would be great. I was expecting to see you for summer visitation in 2002 after we agreed on everything. I wasn’t expecting to only see you for a week at Christmas 2002. I was expecting to see you the summer of 2003 after everything was agreed tp. I was expecting to see you for at least a WEEK at christmas 2003, and I wasn’t expecting to be lied to by you about your plans. I wasn’t expecting to NOT see you at all in 2003. So you see (her name), I was really disappointed by you too. A harsh reality in life is that there are disappointments. What I have NEVER EVER done was deny you are my daughter, and I have NEVER EVER, replaced you as my daughter with anyone else, but I KNOW that that is one thing your mother has drilled into your head, because you even screamed THAT at me before. Since you said there is no starting over, it is YOUR decision to not come visit at al in 2004. Me, you and Thomas all lose out, that is the harsh reality and the consequence of your decision. Call or visit anytime.

Second, why are you so enraged about Sarah? she has never done ANYTHING to you, except consider you a sister. She got into the gift you sent Thomas because SHE is HIS sister too, and lives here. A harsh reality for you? she knows you ignored her. She doesn’t care. She liked the movie too and thought it would be NICE to let you know, by saying thank you too. Pat got her own calendar, she never expected anything from you, and was always pleasantly surprised when you did think of her. I know for a FACT she always thanked you. You seem to take pride in and be happy and gloating you ignored Pat and Sarah. The reality is, it didn’t bother either of them. If you can’t handle someone being nice, simply because they can or WANT TO BE, then I don’t know what to tell you. I cannot believe you are mad that Sarah addressed the envelope. SHE did it because Thomas had trouble. How PETTY, getting all in an uproar because SHE wrote on the envelope. Your mom pulled this SAME stunt a long time ago too. PETTY.

4th paragraph response: Glad you will have a great life, (her name). That’s my wish for you, to be happy and satisfied the way your life ends up. You are the one that has decided I wasn’t worth being in your life, so I can only wish you LOVE and happiness. Remember this (her name)? “LEAVE ME ALONE DAD!!!! LEAVE ME ALONE…I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU ANYMORE..STOP TEXT MESSAGING ME AND E_MAILING ME!!!…JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!” (her name) (Her name) lets start 2004 fresh” Keith…”What are you thinking” (her name) Dad.

If she’s going to come at him with her false accusations, he has a right to be the “frank and honest” his ex always says SHE is with her kids.

So, it seems the ex is lying to the kids about what Keith will and won’t pay on insurance claims. His daughter, who will be 17 this year, emails him at 12:15pm and says, “…because you guys argue about the stupidest stuff like $1.00 on insurance that you can’t pay…”

Huh?