Another Update

Sarah is doing fine- couldn’t afford tutoring but making her read to me, and working in reading books she had worked on in class.

Enjoying her summer, my stepkids are here and my husband has to work, so Sarah will play with them, her brother Thomas or her friends. She’s learned to ride a two wheeler bike now. She rides side saddle, she like to ride that way and give me gray hair.

She’s lost two front teeth, she looks and talks different. I’ll take pics and send them to him. She tries to whistle and that is funny!

She’s enjoying the pool where we live. I call her my little chocolate drop because she is sooo dark. Must be the Portuguese in her. She tells me she’s not a chocolate drop.

It’s’ her 6th birthday tomorrow. We haven’t told her our plans yet, except to say we have a surprise. She says, “Is it the other tomorrow, Mom?”

I wish the relationship between him and her was there because I would invite him, but oh well, it’s his decision.

We are going roller skating today, I think. Sarah told me I needed to buy her new skates, so we’ll see.

Hope all is well with him and his family. How are his sisters and their kids and family? Hope everyone is fine.

Take care and God Bless him.

July 30, 1999

The ex told Keith that the only problem she has is “you and your wife interfering in my personal business and causing me problems with my husband and that is the only reference I have given you MEANING STAY THE HECK OUT OF MY BUSINESS”

Page 2 of this email, Keith had told her, “Nice try…the fact is on Feb. 2nd I called for the kids at 454pm and they returned my call on this day. On Feb. 19th I called the kids at 610pm to tell them about my brother passing away on the 18th. (Daughter) called me back at 630pm and again at 634pm because she got disconnected. Not only this, but I remember being told that you were in San Diego celebrating your anniversary! We just happened to find out quite by accident that you weren’t even in (her city) at that time! Thank you for making me sit here and think because it is becoming clearer and clearer…the message we got was that you did not want to speak to me or my wife so you could tell the kids about my brother and that you said I had to, and the reason was because you weren’t even there! WOW!!!! so again…I NEVER spoke to you the whole month of Feb!! she wrote, “My mistake on the month could have been January or March I will check my details and the truth of the matter is probably during the telephone call on the 2nd. Why must you do this? Don’t you have a life? These are your kids not a commodity to argue over and disagree about. They are stuck in the middle here And you did yell at me at say that the papers weren’t meant to have me call each time they had to go to the doctor. You are just lying as usual to make yourself look good or better yet not to admit it to all of us that you really don’t care about such trivial details except your wife makes you”

As usual, she gets caught in a lie, and as usual, she tries to spin it. Isn’t that a narcissistic trait? Funny that she wants me to butt out but mentions me ALL the time.

July 29, 1999

In a response, Keith told her to leave me out of her harassing correspondence to him. In this current email, the ex retorted: “CHECK YOUR E-MAILS SENT LATELY SEE WHAT YOUR WIFE HAS SENT ME IN THE LAST TWO MONTHS….”

I’ll look up what I’ve sent her and post it later.

Keith told her that she “needs to abide by the court orders, that they were made and agreed to for (their) protection and benefit.” She responded with “You should check with your wife and her e-mails on this one, she thinks or you think differently from the e-mails I received on Friday July 23 1999.”

I’ll have to check into that…will post about that later.

July 29, 1999

The ex STILL complaining and blaming. in an email this evening, she emailed Keith with bs, including this: “you caused so many problems ever since that summer you let your wife but in on matters that did not concern her and that she knew nothing about…Keep your focus on your own problems which is the lack of money and a wife with no job, two more kids to support when you were having difficulty supporting the two you already had, stability in your life and your own unhappiness towards what the world has dealt you.” HUH? LOL

I do work, it’s summer so I am on Summer break 😉 Why is she so concerned about me and my kids? How hypocritical is she? She told me to “Butt out” how many years ago? Yet she can’t stop writing about me. Who’s who’s hobby? LOL

July 29, 1999

I just can’t imagine waking up so mad all the time. The ex emailed at 0651am this morning, talking about how her life is the kids life and they are involved in her marriage too.

Of course, she brought me up, shocking. She wrote, “the taping of telephone calls isn’t enough to keep you and your wife busy…” and accused us of reading the kids mail and emails. She said, “I never realized how you are both so jealous.”


AGAIN, she brings up my kids.

SHE sound jealous. SHE is the one that moved the kids 1200 miles away and they don’t get to spend time with Keith.