Month: January 2003

Dated January 30, 2003, I wrote:

“Anthony and Coleen,

Here is the information Anthony, that you need for the Audit at your job site.

I hope this information gets to you in enough time for the audit. I noticed that between the dates of the Memorandum and the postmark on the envelope is a lapse of 14 days.

If there are any changes or problems, PLEASE let me know, ASAP!

Thank you and God Bless…

Patty”

I also sent a letter to Anthony’s Risk Management Dept at his job:

” To Whom It May Concern:

Enclosed are copies of the information required for your audit, a copy of our daughter’s birth certificate, as well as copies of Custody papers, and the Court order to carry health insurance. I thought I would cover all angles simply because of the time frame. I only know that this audit will take place sometime “next week,” so I can only hope this gets to you in time. I noticed the date on the memorandum is dated Jan. 15, 2003. Mrs. R (Ant’s wife) wrote her request on Jan. 24th, but didn’t mail it until Jan. 29th, and I got it today. 15 days is a longtime span when it comes to important information like this.

Should you have any further questions or need any further information, please do not hesitate to call me, Thank you. Patricia (full legal name) “

Mailed both letters today, Jan. 31, 2003

Post marked 1-29-03, letter dated 1-24-03- she writes, “Patty, We need a copy of Sara’s birth certificate A.S.A.P. to continue her health benefits. Here is a copy of our notice in case you want to verify it. Thank you Coleen.”

I received this letter today.

The Memorandum was dated January 15, 2003. The Audit was taking place the first week of February. Wonder why it took so long to get it to me… No I don’t, LOL.

Documents required for the Audit for Dependents on Health Plans, for Dependent Children says, “birth certificate, adoption papers, custody documents.” They DID have a copy of the custody papers, but SHE returned it to me. Go figure.

I took care of it, of course. Nice try though….

(email I wrote to my step daughter at 10:15am)

“Dad says Thomas remind him a lot of Uncle Johnny.

Thomas got the “Mystery Box” yesterday, so today, he is putting the race car he got for Christmas in it and the kids have to guess what it is. Who ever guesses, gets to take they mystery box home tonight, and bring it back tomorrow.

He is just waiting and waiting to become the Superstar again. They are almost to T, but not yet.

He had speech yesterday, and got a glow in the dark ruler that he thinks is sooo cool. He loves it.

hasta luego, P~”

(Stepdaughter responded at 4:18pm)

“Hey .. thats too funny!! WAY TO GO THOMAS!!! i WONDER where he gets that lol Good job Thomas you are so Awesome .. Gotta LOVE that Boy.. Love L”

(email send to stepkids at 9:30am)

Hola! Just a quick little story…

We went to my sisters house yesterday for Superbowl, and just after we left last night, we turned the corner, and our friends daughter that was with us, (her name is Kristalynn, she is 6 and Thomas is in love! :-)) starts saying, “Thomas has to throw up! Thomas has to throw up!” so I turned to look at him, (dad was driving) and sure ‘nuf, Thomas had his hands over his mouth trying to hold back until he gets out of the car. (I figured he had eaten too much chicken or something just upset his tummy) We are just around the corner from Michele’s house, so dad pulls over, I jump out of the car, Sarah opens the side door, she jumps out, and I am practically pulling Kristalynn out the car trying to get Thomas out of the car. I am telling you…ORDEAL!

Anyway, I get Thomas out, and tell him to just get sick on the sidewalk right where we are and I turn around. I didn’t really want to look. So he does his thing, wretching noise and all, and then he looks at me and starts LAUGHING! That little POOP was JOKING! He wasn’t sick at all and he and Kristalynn planned this little ordeal TOGETHER! LOL! Sarah and I looked at each other and started cracking up! Dad was like, “What happened? he was KIDDING!?” LOL!

Oh my gosh that was sooo funny! I can’t believe the twerp played us like that! LOL!

This is one for the memory books! 🙂 CRAZY KID!! His new phrase that he likes to say now is “Gracious Me!” LOL!

P~”

It’s Saturday, same bs, different day from this lady. She emailed Keith this morning at 1025am, not happy about his last email to her from last night.

In this email, she tells him that he “enjoys this and it shows. You have nothing better to do than to set me straight. Funny, the pictures were deleted and I did block any and all incoming e-mail that has pat (last name) name in it. Why would you even send me the pictures anyway. You have no life, no hobbies and it shows.”

HUH? LOL, a really cute picture of Keith and his daughter was sent to her, her mother and her daughter on 12/29/02. She told me she always wanted another picture of Keith, and said Thanks. She didn’t HAVE to respond to it, since it came from me. 😉

CRACKS me up how she lies, or maybe she forgets. We are in 2003. There are MANY letters and emails and phone calls between her and I by this time, yet, she seems to NOT recall that, I guess.

This morning, at 0749, she responded to Keith’s e-mail address that her contact with him is “regarding our children (son) and (daughter). I do not and will not speak to anyone in your family other than you regarding them. My dealings are not with Pat and I block and will continue to block any and all messages from her and with her name in the e-mail address. I do not have to accept or deal with her for any reason. I don’t have to like her or talk to her for any reason. I have to deal with you because of the kids but as soon as (daughter) is 18 any and all communication will cease. I made a mistake several years ago and have done my time. “

Um, I guess she forgot that several years ago, she was told by MYSELF and her then 2nd husband to NOT talk to me. She couldn’t help herself, she still did. Over the years, she would get pissed off that I answered the phone, she would get pissed off that I didn’t answer the phone, even when I wasn’t home to do so, LOL.

How petty and immature of her.

At 1329, Keith responded back to her. He laughed. He thought her email was funny. He told her, and I’m not sure why he wrote in all caps, but he said, “HA!HA! THANKS FOR THE LAUGH. SO IN OTHER WORDS YOU WILL RESPOND TO EMAILS WITH HER NAME IN IT WHEN THEY CONTAIN A PICTURE OF ME AND (DAUGHTER), BUT YOU DELTE THE REAL IMPORTANT THINGS LIKE INSURANCE INFORMATION? INFORMATION YOU ARE ASKING FROM AND HASSLING ME FOR? OK, GLAD WE GOT THAT STRAIGHT. THANKS FOR CLARIFYING.”

At 2012, she responded back that she had deleted the pictures he sent and blocked the email address at that time. WHATEVER.

Keith wrote her at 2100, forwarding an email from December 30, 2002, where she wrote me and said , “I have always wanted another picture of Richard. Thanks” saying, “sure looks that way.”

He is just so through with her. He would REALLY like to just deal with his kids, but she doesn’t allow that.

He isn’t allowed to text his daughter or call her cell, he doesn’t have his son’s cell phone number, and both kids rarely, if ever, answer his emails anymore.

She cannot let that grip she has on those kids, loose. What is she afraid of?

That’s the kind of email addresses we have. Keith has his, I have mine and when needed, we have “OURS.” OUR email contained Keith and my name and last name.

An email with the subject matter, “Member Pays Information” was sent on 1/22/03 at 1305. It was sent TO HER only, and cc’d to Keith.

The ex responded to it at 1921 letting Keith know that she “will not accept any e-mail from Pat (my last name). Please resend. I have blocked this e-mail address from being received.” This was not only sent to the OUR e-mail address, but she added CC’s to her mother and her mothers husband as well as their son.

I don’t know if she realized she had already responded to the email or not, but 26 minutes later, at 1947, she responded again, “deleted. please forward by mail if you no longer have just your e-mail” and this email was sent to just OUR email address. Maybe she realized what she did and was trying to cover her ass, who knows.

Keith checked email around 2000, and saw that she had responded. He e-mailed back at 2109 to her and her cc’s saying, “That is your problem, not mine. I will not resend anything.” At 2114 he responded again to her second email saying, “Too bad for you. I will not forward anything until I have all the information. If you cannot be grown up enough and get past your issues, then that is not my problem.”

(emailed to stepson at 2:01pm)

Hi Mr. N,

I am sending you some information. I forgot you can’t print and was just about to attach it to this email. In fact, I just deleted the letter I had just written concerning this information. It is just the cost of office visits, etc. I was able to get it from Dad’s work.

N E Ways, just wanted you to be on the lookout for it. You should get it in the next 2-3 days.

Hasta Luego,

P~”

Sent stepson an email telling him to be on the lookout for information I was sending to him about office visit costs for the insurance. The information I was sending him should be there within 2-3 days.

Even though he’s 19, Keith is still covering him. Stepson never responded to my email from the 13th.