Petty

It’s Saturday, same bs, different day from this lady. She emailed Keith this morning at 1025am, not happy about his last email to her from last night.

In this email, she tells him that he “enjoys this and it shows. You have nothing better to do than to set me straight. Funny, the pictures were deleted and I did block any and all incoming e-mail that has pat (last name) name in it. Why would you even send me the pictures anyway. You have no life, no hobbies and it shows.”

HUH? LOL, a really cute picture of Keith and his daughter was sent to her, her mother and her daughter on 12/29/02. She told me she always wanted another picture of Keith, and said Thanks. She didn’t HAVE to respond to it, since it came from me. 😉

Such Lies

CRACKS me up how she lies, or maybe she forgets. We are in 2003. There are MANY letters and emails and phone calls between her and I by this time, yet, she seems to NOT recall that, I guess.

This morning, at 0749, she responded to Keith’s e-mail address that her contact with him is “regarding our children (son) and (daughter). I do not and will not speak to anyone in your family other than you regarding them. My dealings are not with Pat and I block and will continue to block any and all messages from her and with her name in the e-mail address. I do not have to accept or deal with her for any reason. I don’t have to like her or talk to her for any reason. I have to deal with you because of the kids but as soon as (daughter) is 18 any and all communication will cease. I made a mistake several years ago and have done my time. “

Um, I guess she forgot that several years ago, she was told by MYSELF and her then 2nd husband to NOT talk to me. She couldn’t help herself, she still did. Over the years, she would get pissed off that I answered the phone, she would get pissed off that I didn’t answer the phone, even when I wasn’t home to do so, LOL.

How petty and immature of her.

At 1329, Keith responded back to her. He laughed. He thought her email was funny. He told her, and I’m not sure why he wrote in all caps, but he said, “HA!HA! THANKS FOR THE LAUGH. SO IN OTHER WORDS YOU WILL RESPOND TO EMAILS WITH HER NAME IN IT WHEN THEY CONTAIN A PICTURE OF ME AND (DAUGHTER), BUT YOU DELTE THE REAL IMPORTANT THINGS LIKE INSURANCE INFORMATION? INFORMATION YOU ARE ASKING FROM AND HASSLING ME FOR? OK, GLAD WE GOT THAT STRAIGHT. THANKS FOR CLARIFYING.”

At 2012, she responded back that she had deleted the pictures he sent and blocked the email address at that time. WHATEVER.

Keith wrote her at 2100, forwarding an email from December 30, 2002, where she wrote me and said , “I have always wanted another picture of Richard. Thanks” saying, “sure looks that way.”

He is just so through with her. He would REALLY like to just deal with his kids, but she doesn’t allow that.

He isn’t allowed to text his daughter or call her cell, he doesn’t have his son’s cell phone number, and both kids rarely, if ever, answer his emails anymore.

She cannot let that grip she has on those kids, loose. What is she afraid of?

His, Mine and Ours

That’s the kind of email addresses we have. Keith has his, I have mine and when needed, we have “OURS.” OUR email contained Keith and my name and last name.

An email with the subject matter, “Member Pays Information” was sent on 1/22/03 at 1305. It was sent TO HER only, and cc’d to Keith.

The ex responded to it at 1921 letting Keith know that she “will not accept any e-mail from Pat (my last name). Please resend. I have blocked this e-mail address from being received.” This was not only sent to the OUR e-mail address, but she added CC’s to her mother and her mothers husband as well as their son.

I don’t know if she realized she had already responded to the email or not, but 26 minutes later, at 1947, she responded again, “deleted. please forward by mail if you no longer have just your e-mail” and this email was sent to just OUR email address. Maybe she realized what she did and was trying to cover her ass, who knows.

Keith checked email around 2000, and saw that she had responded. He e-mailed back at 2109 to her and her cc’s saying, “That is your problem, not mine. I will not resend anything.” At 2114 he responded again to her second email saying, “Too bad for you. I will not forward anything until I have all the information. If you cannot be grown up enough and get past your issues, then that is not my problem.”

More Insurance Information

Sent stepson an email telling him to be on the lookout for information I was sending to him about office visit costs for the insurance. The information I was sending him should be there within 2-3 days.

Even though he’s 19, Keith is still covering him. Stepson never responded to my email from the 13th.

Insurance Change

So since the beginning of the year, I had been emailing my stepson, who is now 19 and living with his grandmother in San Diego county. It seems he was having trouble with the insurance. We had switched to one insurance that was more convenient for us and him since he is in CA now.

Today, I sent him an email at 2:48pm telling him that I would be sending out information to him tomorrow, but I wanted confirmation as to whether he still needed the information because his mom told Keith that SHE has sent him the enrollment form he needed.

A New Year

One would think she would get tired of constantly griping about BS. In this latest email, from today at 1316, she’s complaining about the insurance, YET AGAIN, stating that there is “no reasonable way” for their daughter to seek medical attention in their state from a Kaiser facility, threatening to contact her attorney “about this absurd medical issue.” Um, there IS a reasonable way for their daughter to seek medical attention, the EX just has to use the insurance properly, and have the bills processed properly, to start. It’s just that simple. Contact her attorney? LMAO, go for it. She tells Keith in this email, “I will get orders to change the coverage if you don’t remedy this situation immediately. CRAZY, LOL.

Their son is over 18, and she is STILL talking to Keith about the medical coverage for their son. First of all, Keith is under no court ordered obligation to continuing to carry his son on his insurance. Secondly, there is no reason for HER to be talking to Keith about his medical coverage for their son. What is wrong with their son’s voice? Does he not have one? Of course not, she has spoken FOR HIM all his life. I often found it funny how she picks and chooses when she allows the kids to speak for themselves and when she doesn’t. When the kids are telling him off, and yelling at him and emailing Keith rude and disrespectful email, she’s ok with it, but for Keith to actually talk to his kids, especially their son, about his insurance coverage, NOPE, can’t DO THAT. At any rate.

She tells him again in all caps, “Do NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES CALL MY MOTHER OR ANY OTHER MEMBER OF MY FAMILY AT THEIR HOMES. IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN I WILL GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST YOUR WIFE AND YOU. You have no reason to this at all.

She told Keith that if he needed to contact his son, call his cell phone, write him a letter or e-mail and to “NOT INVOLVE MY MOTHER OR MY FAMILY,” and the same directive went towards their daughter too, you know, call her cell phone, write her a letter or e-mail and “DO NOT CALL ME FAMILY.” GOOD LORD. WHOTF does this woman think she is?

She ended this email saying, “Questions on this contact my attorney.”

Questions? Keith is not the one that is having issues with anything, LOL. OH, and by the way, this email from her was CC’d to their son AND, get this, HER MOTHER AND her mother’s husband.

Imagine that.