Your beau breaks up with you after 17 yrs. You tell his family and ask them to please watch out for him, as he isn’t in the BEST of health.
A week later, he says he made a mistake and doesn’t want to break up. Wants to get back together, pretty words, pretty words about how he needs to change and work on himself, to “be and do better.” You get back together.
Relationship is no better, hardly any to zero communication unless you text and or call him. He doesn’t want to or feel up to doing anything or go anywhere with you,
A month later, there’s a huge blow out. He leaves his house. Doesn’t say anything to you about anything. You discover on social media he’s a retirement party for his sister.
All you want is a little communication. Instead, he rips you a new one, via text, telling you some horrible things, how because you told his family he broke up with you, him telling you about the party/BBQ and you going with him was taken out of his hands. He tells you that “you always want mother fuckers to feel sorry for you and woe is me…” HUH? He spews a lot more crap.
WHAT? A REAL MAN would tell his family that he made a mistake and you’ve gotten back together and you’re going with him to family functions, just as you have for 17 years.
He sends “have a good day text” nearly every day last week. It’s a good start. He answers the phone when you call. Another good start.
Last night he tells you he’s going to help his sister bring her outside table that seats 8 to her apartment. Ok cool. Not thinking anything of it, but suddenly remember, it’s Labor Day weekend. BBQ. So while he’s honest about one thing, he did bring the table to her house, or wherever, you’re sure he’s there for the food too, again not being totally forthcoming with you and not telling his family that you guys got back together and not asking you to go with him.
I guess it’s just OUR dirty little secret.
#hurt #disappointed
~This Is My World~ 