Summer Visitation 2001

SO, Keith got the kids on July 21st. They were supposed to stay for 5 weeks, from the 21st of July until August 25th.

His son stayed until the 25th. His daughter though….She left on 8/15 PISSED off.

Keith and I has asked her prior to the 15th, if she was going to to go the fair in her home town. She said she didn’t know. Keith asked her frequently what her plan was. She couldn’t give him a straight answer.

She was in our room, on our computer and as Keith was talking to her, he had seen something she wrote one of her friends. She told whomever she was messaging something to the effect that she “didn’t know what was wrong with my father.” The fact that Keith addressed her about it, she got pissed and accused him of reading her email.

According to what we knew, the Fair started on 8/14 and ends on the 18th, so she has a few days to go still.

We had to pay 50.00 to change her flight.

N-knees

(email sent to Stepson, cc’d Keith at 3:19pm)

“N, I forgot to add you to the list when I sent this e-mail to your mom about the appt.

Sorry

P~

“Never go a day without laughing” “

August 17, 2001

The Ex didn’t like my email. She emailed Keith. “There is no reason why Patricia needs to be e-mailing me. You are the parent of (son) and (daughter) and if they need medical attention it should be you who takes care of it not your wife.”

GEEZUS….

Does She Really Care Then?

Checked email. I see that J emailed back in response to my email to her regarding her son and the pain he was feeling, doctor visit, etc.

She emailed at 5:51 am. She wrote, ” Do not e-mail me again.”

WOW…color me NOT shocked.

N- same pain

Sent J an email at 12:39pm, CC’d Keith and my self.

” HI J-

N had been complaining of his ***** hurting (even as recent as last night while driving to the airport) real bad and he asked on Monday to be taken to the doctors.

I took him today, the doctor took xrays, and said, “(blah blah blah blah)”, he showed N and I the xrays and gave him some anti inflammatory medicine and recommended P/T.

I asked if he could recommend someone in WA, but he didn’t know of anyone. Patricia”

Modeling

(email sent to stepdaughter at 11:36 am)

“try John Robert Powers

There are several in CA and one in Seattle

Click on if you can, or copy/paste this address into your browser.

http://www.jrpowers.net

have fun and good luck!

P~

never go a day without laughing”

Kids Are Here

Ex called at 1:07 pm. Someone was with her, as the voicemail answered the phone, I heard her saying, “yeah, I knew she wouldn’t accept it.”

PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE Phone Call

It’s been a day for phone calls, each hanging up on each other. Him because he doesn’t want to deal with the trouble she’s trying to cause a few days before visitation, and SHE because she doesn’t like what he has to say. WHEW…

The ex is not happy that Keith gave her a C+ rating as a parent, back in April 2000. Hey, SHE called and asked his opinion on her parenting, so he gave her a C+, OK rating. Apparently she wasn’t happy about it and had been stewing on it all this time.

ANYWAY, during this conversation today, she started hassling Keith about the kids not wanting to be dropped off at the house if HE was not home.

She called me a “fat bitch” several times, accused me of listening in on their conversation, (no, but it was being recorded) and told him that her kids are very good kids, they are very respectful, very well mannered, they have a lot of respect for people and how she doesn’t want them to treat anyone disrespectfully, including anyone that he introduces them to. HMMMM, really? Interesting.

Further on in the conversation, after threatening him YET AGAIN with taking him to court, she tells him, “I don’t want you around, I don’t want to have to deal with you at all.” Ya don’t say…..

Maybe she got into an argument with her ex husband or boyfriend, who knows, because she was definitely ON ONE. During a moment of clarity, she told Keith, “ and I know you got short changed on this whole deal. I know you did, I know I screwed up, I know that they should spend more time with you and I all I can do right now is try and fix it from right now. That’s all I can do. Should have spent more time with you, should have had more time with you, should have been around you more, should have everything. Ok, well, I realize that now, I realize that that was a decision made at a time when probably wasn’t a good decision and now I think we should have done something differently.”

SAY WHAT?

She goes on to tell Keith how he “doesn’t know them.” Keith said “Well, there’s only one way to get to know them is to be around them, right?” She said he’s right, she agreed, they need to spend more time with him, and she’s trying to work it out. Sounds like she’s (pretending) to think she’s going to move back to CA.

Personally, her words are all B.S. The kids are due here on July 21st, and this is what usually happens prior to visitation.