It really made me sad to read this, first thing this morning. I loved his music, I had been listening to country music on my Pandora playlist over the weekend and he was a big part of it.
WTH?!
Just WOW⌠Anthony has been gone since late July, the beneficiaries STILL have not received a copy of the will, even after asking for one in November 2023. Seems a lot of game playing, wanting to protect his girlfriend and requesting the kids show âcompassionâ towards her because Anthony died, she doesnât have money, works a little bit, etcâŚ.
Am I pissed off? Yes, for the kids. I know this family protects their own and will do whatever they can to protect their brother/uncle. He had them bamboozled. His sister very recently told me âAnthony made many mistakes but the bottom line is, he has turned over a new leaf and lead the rest 20 years or so in a good and honarable life which is what counts. He did not make good choices in womenâŚâ
She should stop bad mouthing the women Anthony chose (his ex wife #1, me and his ex wife#2) and get schooled on the real FACTS of her/their brother/uncle.
He turned over a new LEAF and lead a good and honorable life? Really? I know and his children know differently.
DAMMIT, had I not agreed to accept a payoff amount in child support, that LIEN would probably STILL be in the house and the POWER I could have had.
The executor of the trust says heâs not been involved in awhile due to health reasons. He doesnât know who is, but it âmight beâ one of Anthonyâs sister, YET, his name is still on the recent property tax bill someone else (an uncle by marriage) sent the kids.
I wish they would stop playing games and give the kids what they are supposed to recieve so they can do what they need to do.
The girlfriend has at least one adult child
Of her own she can go live with or ask for help from. HER well being is NOT the kids responsibility or problem. Itâs HER familyâs issue.
MOSTLY
What do you complain about the most?
What I complain about the most is people only at work for a PAYCHECK and donât care about their job.
It frustrates me to no end knowing that this âwork ethicâ that some people have is accepted by the powers that be.
It actually irritates the FUCK out of me.
Another thing I (silently) complain about is when people donât take responsibility for their actions, or lack of actions, and then wonder why they arenât getting what they think they deserve, should be getting or legally entitled to get.
#FRUSTRATED
WOW
Earlier this afternoon, actually at 16:52, I sent my daughter’s aunt a text message. I wrote, “Hi S, this is Patty. Hope you are well. I’ve been wondering, did Anthony ever divorce Coleen? Last I spoke to her, she told me she didn’t believe they were divorced because she was never served divorce papers and she said she had sent him her address. Just wondering. “
His sister replied at 22:04- “I really don’t know and don’t care. Anthony made many mistakes but the bottom like is, he turned over a new leaf and lead the rest 20 years or so in a good and honarable life which is what counts. He did not make good choices in women. Coleen was an evil woman.”
I responded at 22:23 ” Just wondered how it would affect any inheritance related to the kids, since she would be “next of kin” if they weren’t divorced. Ok, thanks for your time, Take care. “
I wasn’t expecting a response, it was late and this Aunt is about about 84 yrs old, but 5 minutes later she sent a text, “You guys would have to get a lawyer to figure it all out. Anthony told me that a lawyer friend of his helped him to be able to divorce Coleen. I don’t know anymore details that what Anthony told me. My mom’s living trust wanted that house to go to Anthony’s 3 kids. That’s set in stone. ”
That was the last communication I had with her.
Hi there!
I know itâs a little early, here in the LA Metro basin but I wanted to share this and say that I wish you (continued) love, health, happiness and peace in this new year of 2024!!
Be Blessed, Stay Blessed, Be Mindful, Stay Focused and Always Grateful.
~This Is My World~ 