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A Little Late, But Here Goes It…

On July 8th, I got home from work around 1pm. I changed, and walked outside to go walk next door to my fiancé’s house. Before you ask, yes, he really lives next door. LOL. ANYWAY…. I’m walking behind my car when I hear this yelling and not really sure where it’s coming from until I came from behind the car and see that it’s my neighbor’s daughter. THEY live across the way from my fiancé’.

This girl is 15 years old. Her mother has no control over her. She does what she wants when she wants with whomever she wants. Case in point. On July 13th, a young girl whom I have never seen before, walks out of the neighbors house. My fiancé and I had just gotten home from his PT appointment and we were talking in the car. This young girl is clearly hiding something in her jacket and she seems to be recording my fiance and I. When I asked my neighbor who the girl was, she had no clue. She said she had no idea that anyone was in her house, as she was staying in her own room with the door closed. Seems her mother wants DCFS and the system to raise her, but DCFS is trying to close their case. Back to July 8th.

So the 15 year old is having a fit, yelling, screaming, cussing at me, flipping me off, telling me to kiss her ass, that she’s going to beat my ass, calling me names, you know they usual, “fat ass, fat ass bitch”, the usual names I get called, by adults (my late husband’s ex and his daughters), an adult male, (the ex wife’s second ex husband) and 15 year old’s. CRAZY. It’s not the first time the girl threatens to beat my ass, but hopefully, it will be the last. Ironically, while I don’t think she has been served with the R/O Order to appear in court, it’s been extremely quiet over at that house. Did I mention that this girl had been arrested for assault and had been on probation, that I believe just ended a few months ago? OH yeah, and as I did a name search for her, I saw that another one of her “victim’s” so to speak, had filed for a R/O against her as well, but the case was dropped because the 15 year was not able to be served. Apparently, according to her mother, she was in a placement home, and the other person didn’t have the address to where she was so she couldn’t have her served. I have no doubt, the mother was of no help either.

What this 15 year old did as well was mention my late husband. Laughed that he was dead, he’s in the ground, she was going to piss on his grave.

Mind you, all I did was walk out of my HOUSE, minding my own business.

How pathetic that this girls mother is so afraid of her that she doesn’t even bother with her except to take her to go get food, or buy her eye lashes, etc, just to make it look like she’s “trying.”

The Sheriff’s Process Server has until 7/29 to serve this girl. We go to court in early August.

I have a video, because when she started threatening to beat my ass, I started recording her. Also, another neighbor sent me videos she was able to get off her cameras from her house.

Just Unbelievable.

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Hope and Pray….

What a day, I’m exhausted and have a headache.

After work today, I went to file a R/O against a 15 year old, who has no rules at home and who’s been given too much power by the system.

I didn’t get the R/O filed by 3pm, so it will be filed today, but I have to pick up the paper work tomorrow.

I know I still have to write what’s been going on and I will, it’s just been a crazy time since 7/8/21.

Say a prayer I get this R/O. 🙏🏼 I’d greatly appreciate it.

TTFN,

P~

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That’s Right

It’s in the HEART. This is so powerful.

When my daughter was 1, she used to call my then boyfriend, “Daddy”. I would correct her and say “No, that’s Keith.” One day, he told me, “don’t correct her. Let her call me that. I’m the one that’s here for her and we will never go anywhere where we can’t her.”

He lived by that. She and I and my son, were so lucky to have had him as their Daddy and my Husband. Our life was #Beautiful. 💙💜

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THIS

Exactly

People need to let others do as they do if it’s been working for them. People need to stop trying to make other people THEM, if you know what I mean. #LiveandLetLive

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Happy Saturday!

What a week! This week we worked Tuesday through Friday, because we were off Monday. During summer, we only work 4 days, usually Mon-Thurs. so that change, made for a long week, but we DID it, and here it is Saturday.

It’s been a busy Saturday for me. I had to get up early to take my son to work. He started at 7am. I was really looking forward to sleeping in this morning, and like my son said, “you can go back to sleep when you get home” Yeah, NOT. It’s all good though. I was busy.

I first stopped off at Starbucks and bought an iced Matcha Green Tea Latte. OMG, it’s SOOO good! That gave me the energy I needed this morning 🙂

I watered my plants outside, always so relaxing and ZEN for me, then I planted some chili seeds in a long planter, hopefully they grown. Apparently, the long planter had some ants on it, and they decided they loved me. These are tiny little things, but some crawled on my shirt and started biting me. I had to take a shower and wash my clothes! I washed them in hot water. OMG, now I have several welts on me that will itch every now and then. It is that time of the year though, Summer, heat and the ants are out. If they are outside, cool, that’s their domain, just stay out of my house, LOL….or suffer the consequences 😉

I boiled some chicken, made some quinoa, cut up an apple, and mixed it all with a little dog food, put a couple splashes of chicken broth (from the boiled chicken) and my grand pup Peace, loves it! I think she has food allergy, so I’m trying to give her more chicken and quinoa (or rice when my daughter buys some) and a small amount of her dog food. It’s grain free, so I’m thinking it’s the duck, but I’m not sure. By the way, quinoa is a seed, in case you thought otherwise.

Peace has been playing all morning, catch with me, or trying to catch flies, then she walked herself to her crate and went in, LOL.I like when she does that. Now she’s asleep. It must be the small amount of tryptophan in the chicken, perhaps.

Also went through the mail, receipts, etc. got all that stuff taken care of, now to file it away.

I have a couple more stories to tell ya, but I’ll write them in separate posts. I just wanted to come on this today and wish you all a happy Saturday, and here is a pic of my grandpup, Peace. She is a year and 4 months. She’s a sweetheart thought she can drive me crazy as well 🙂

Stay well, stay safe, and see ya in a few….

P~

This morning-Wishing her Hooman was home ❤
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Weird

This week has been a little weird at work. Last week a student went home sick. This week same student went home sick, flu like symptoms both days. Another student was having nasal congestion, and today, towards the end of the day, suddenly the a/c in the class felt like Queen Elsa was visiting, it was freezing, and even I was freezing cold, which was weird, then my stomach was upset, but I was holding on.

By the time I got home about 1pm, I had no energy and I was sick!

WTH?! Whatever the bug was came in and went quickly, I feel better now, just exhausted, but there is no rest for the weary and I’m about to leave for an appointment.

Just crazy!

Hope you all are having a good day!!

TTFN,

P~