Another Divorce

Well, well, well….internet surfing brought some crazy information up. Oldest stepdaughter is getting a (possibly second) divorce, filing in Jan 2023.

Back in Feb. 2006, days short of 3 months that my husband, her Dad passed away, she came out of nowhere to attack me via MySpace. and this one .

She didn’t want to communicate with me several months before, but after her dad died, she wants to slide into my DM’s? Wasn’t she happily married to the first guy? I mean, on March 26-05, I wished her a long lasting marriage, what is she bugging me for? I mean, I knew that as of 6-13-05, the October wedding had been postponed, but it was 8 months later. Who knows…

ANYWAY, she married the second guy, on 8/27/11. They had twins about 4 years later, and now, 12 years after they said I DO… she’s filed for divorce from him. That’s going to cost him a pretty penny. He’s in real estate. Need I say more? Poor guy, I feel badly for him because he lost his mom about a year ago or so now as well. GEEZ. He’s got to be hurting. 2 whammies.

I’ve written this guy before via FB. The first time was 2/2015, sending him a my son, his wife’s half brother, along with a note saying how surprised I was when reading my FB newsfeed, he and his wife appeared under “People you May know.” I told him it was a beautiful picture of the two of them and while I don’t know him, I’d known his wife for a 12 year period at one time, way back when. I told him I was glad she was happy. I also told him the pic is of my 17 year old son, his wife’s half brother, and how he wonders about his older siblings, that I hoped everyone was doing well, nice to “see” him and to take care. I got no response.

In Nov of 2015, I send him a message congratulating him and his wife on the birth of their twins, on behalf of myself, my son, and my son and his half sister’s cousin. No response from him.

Last night, I send a message to him saying sorry to read of his impending divorce, that I wish him nothing but the best through it all. I hoped that there would never be any issues of him seeing his twins and that he is always allowed to see them when he wants and to take care. He responded back with the weirdest of message. He wrote, “May God forgive you for all your hurts! I see you’re very heartbroken. May God fill your hear with love. I know you mean well, but the family wants nothing to do with you. Please understand I have to block you now.”

Say what? The Family? I wasn’t writing the family. I just happen to know how that family works. I don’t have hurts and I was heartbroken when my husband, his soon to be ex wife’s dad died, nearly 18 years ago. I’ve learned that Life goes on. We continue on with our lives, with a new normal, living without him. He will have to learn the same lesson, losing two women he loved much.

The guy, on the other hand. MUST be going through it. His mom passing away, now dealing with this divorce, I can’t even imagine. I hope my former oldest stepdaughter does right by him. I remember reading about how she wouldn’t let her oldest child’s father see him. So, so sad.

I still wish her current soon to be ex husband the best as he goes through this madness. Hopefully it doesn’t cost him too too much.




This reminded me of Keith- his kids hadn’t seen him for years, yet when he died, at least one boo hoo’d the entire Memorial Service. The one that told him to basically fuck off, that she didn’t want him in her life, the one that told him to quit calling, quit emailing, etc. the other 3 kids (all 4 were 18+ in age) were stoic. Did they (all) attend just to make sure he was really dead?



Takes Me Back…

The year was 1995, when Keith could only and barely afford a paralegal- after a horrible start to an otherwise kinda/sorta decent summer visitation with his kids, his ex took him back to court out of spite. She refused to discuss visitation with him. She was only interested in an increase in child support, and blamed me for her u reasonable actions:

Crazy Morning

So, I’m on Spring break this week. I woke up this morning, knowing I had to go get a TB test done for work before Monday, the 17th. Did that. Then, since I keep getting reminders, I figured I’d go do my labs and get RX refills, and buy a few things that I need, that are probably cheaper at the pharmacy. Did that, HOWEVER…

While I was waiting for my RX, I saw a name on the RX pick up screen that looked very familiar to me. It was the exact last name, first initial of one of my coworkers. I didn’t see him anywhere, so I texted him the pic and asked if he was here. Then my name popped up, right next to his and I took another screen shot and sent it to him saying, “even on break, you can’t escape me!” LOL

As I was talking with the Pharm tech, I was telling her about my co workers name. She asked me where I worked, and I told her. She said, “I have a friend who works there, in Special Ed.” I said “OH, so do I! What’s your friends name?” She said, “Lisa… she waited a few seconds and said the last name and I was FLOORED! I said, “YES! I’m in her class!”

To add to the craziness.. the Pharm tech’s name is Patty. Who do you know that is “Patty” or Pat, or Patricia? ME! Also, my former stepdaughters name is Lisa too, and I had a dream with her and her family in it recently.

Soooo crazy! So how is your day going?


Spring Break 2023

Today is my first day of Spring break. Spent the morning with my daughter and her pup, well, 3 year old pup, at the dog park. We were the only ones there, it was nice.

Afterwards, we brought Pup home and my daughter and I went to Walmart, as I needed a couple gardening things.

I paid bills, got gas in my car, and now will bring in the trash cans, go through papers to file, trash or shred, and continue this road all through the week.

It will be a good week. Hope you all are good and either had a great Spring break and will have a great Spring break.



Keeping her eye on the ball 🥰👍🏻

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