Author: Patricia

Hi! I'm a Mom to two great kids, well adults, but you know, our kids are always our babies 🥰🥰 I’m also “Nana” to a beautiful baby girl, as well as to my Grandpup, Peace. She's a Belgian Malinois who is full of "piss and vinegar" if you know what I mean, LOL but she grew on me and she's a sweet girl with A LOT of personality. My Love and I have been together since 2007. I met him through my late husband. I was married for 9.5 years when my husband died suddenly and unexpectedly. We were together for a total of 11.5 years. We loved each other for the rest of HIS life. #GoneButNEVERForgotten I also started writing this blog, because HIS story needs to be told. His story of experiencing Parental Alienation and the Damage it did to him and his kids. It didn't just happen to him and his kids, but as anyone knows, PA has a trickle down effect. His older kids have nothing to do with our children, because of what their mother has told them about me. It's very sad. I will also provide links to articles I've read about PA and all that goes with it, in hopes of helping others.
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Unaccompanied Minor Fee

“Hi J-

Enclosed is a $10 bank check that pays for our half of the “unaccompanied Minor fee” you paid for.

We had gotten this prior to Keith speaking to you last night, and also decided the kids really don’t need it for the return trip home.

We hope this doesn’t upset you too much, but if it does, we apologize.

We had a great time with the kids and look forward to getting them during the summer.

Sincerely, Patricia”

*Bank check dated 4-11-97

Letter sent today, 4-12-97

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Kids Left :*-(

It’s always hard when the kids leave. Keith takes it hard, his daughter takes it hard, his son is harder to read, my daughter takes it hard, I’m sad.

Their mom called at 7:30pm. I answered.

P- Hello?

J- Hi

P- Hi

J- This is J

P (like I didn’t know) yeah….

J- did the kids make it to the airport?

P- uh huh

J- Ok, I was double checking

P- ok

J- Thanks

P- uh huh, bye

J- bye

*Click

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Oh, She Thinks She’s Funny

The kids are leaving tomorrow. Keith had the kids call their mom at 730pm, and she had to speak to him as well to get the flight information and other stuff.

J had told Keith to just remind the kids that they are going to come back for the whole month in July, and that it wasn’t too far off.

Keith said, right, and that they need to get the tickets soon. Then J pops off with, “Whenever your wife want to make the arrangements” and giggles.

Why me? Keith and I look up information for OUR own edification. Besides, I’m not supposed to be involved, I thought. LOL…

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Well, Thanks For That….

So we went to the Children’s Museum in La Habra. Ended up having to take SS to the ER as he wasn’t feeling good.

I had called the ex to tell her, and when she called back, at 8:40 pm, during the conversation, she had told me that she hoped my daughter doesn’t catch what my SS has. She had also dropped this little gem…” Don’t be surprised if Keith is not there at the birth of your child, he disappeared when SD was born.”

I mean, how RUDE is that? WTF? She’s either jealous or catty or just both. It shouldn’t surprise me, and doesn’t really, I guess I’m just surprised at the depths of nastiness she will go.

Just when I think she can’t go any lower….

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Round Trip Airfare

“Hi J-

Here are the Round Trip tickets we purchased yesterday for the kids.

Thank you for your time and conversation throughout the day yesterday, as they say, “It was a pleasure doing business with you!”

Keith, Sarah, and myself are so excited about seeing the kids! Time can’t go by fast enough!! I just looked at the calendar it’s 3 weeks from today!! SO close and yet so far!!

Anyway, Keith is just about out the door to go to work, so I’d better quit writing! Thanks again- Patricia

P.S. Could you please call when you get them just to make sure they got there fine. Thanks!! P-“

($338 total and Keith took them to work to mail off)

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Tickets-Phone Call

A few minutes ago, at 6:14pm, I called J and left a msg on their answering machine. I told her we got them and will express mail them tomorrow. I told her Keith wanted to also speak to the kids, if should have the kids call back.

Kept it short and simple.

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Letter from L

Keith got a letter from L today. She said she “stared soccer today” that it was fun and she wished he was there to see her. She ask him how work was, if it was ok, school for her was fine and she “don’t have much to say now.” She did say she “forgot, say hi to evey one.”

Sweet note.

It is too bad he can’t be there to see her. Wonder if her mom would record her playing and send something. Probably not.

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Say WHAT?

So the ex wrote another letter to Keith dated 2/23/1997, post marked 2/26/1997. He got it today. More bs, more lies about visitation, more petty crap, but ONE thing she did mention was some phone calls ” the weekend before Thanksgiving” between us.

She wrote, “After several phone calls on this day with both you and Patricia it ended up with Patricia calling me to tell me to make arrangements (for visitation) and how you made her mad because you always wait until the last minute for these things. And better yet was the telephone call from her stating that she was pregnant and you had just threatened to kick her butt and she was lucky she was pregnant so you couldn’t hit her. She was very upset and she stated you were very mad too. In fact she said she would be packing her things to move out the next day.” SAY WHAT? LOL….I can say that NEVER happened. What a wild imagination this woman has.

I believe that what a person accuses another of doing, they are doing themselves.