~This Is My World~

Same Attorney from June 2009, filed a Notice of Motion again. AGAIN, requesting that Child Support drop to ZERO from $283 that was ordered in June 2008. Paper says “A material change in circumstances, justifies a modification.”

We went to Court 8/30/10. Anthony didn’t show up.

I tweeted a response to my former stepson. I wrote:

“S0 N D, you did your drive by post on FB to me, then you cowardly blocked me. There has been no contact with you since sometime between 2000 and 2001. Against my husbands wishes, your mother was notified by me of his passing, because I didn’t know know how to get a hold of you and your sister, since you both refused to have any contact with him for many years. After your sister telling my husband, “Why don’t you F*ck off” it really took all that I had not to even let you know, because I KNEW you didn’t care.

My husband and I had a son, who happens to be your half brother. He still wonders about you and your sister, but after your drive by post yesterday on FB and your sister blocking him on FB, when he friend requested her, he now sees what your dad experienced for may years, the shun, disrespect, and loathe. He wanted to email himself, but I told him to never mind, that you are going to do/say what you want, when you want and be a coward and block.

SO, do not ever think that you can just do or say what you want when you want about me, my son, because as I have stated before, I have NO PROBLEM, putting your bullshit and nonsense on BLAST….

hope 2010 brings you happiness and growth and wisdom. “

On FB, I noticed that Thomas’s half brother and their cousin were friends. I thought how nice it would be if Thomas could be friends with his siblings and other family on Keith’s side, and wrote on the cousins wall that Thomas had friend requested his half sister , but she instead blocked him, probably thinking it was me and that it was stupid.

My stepson responded with, “I wonder why she would think that??? Maybe…just maybe because of ignorant stuff like this.” Then he blocked me, LOL. I guess he thought his comment would be pulled when he blocked me. 😉

I responded to my former stepson with, “Don’t use (cousin’s) page to spread YOUR hate….I just stated fact, FACTS are not ignorant, ignorant is how YOU just responded…No one responded but you.”

I deleted this comment and the one about my son’s half sister.

My opinion…it is stupid. My son wonders about his siblings every now and then and he is innocent about all that happened between those two and my husband. WHY they hate my son, who knows, but he now couldn’t care less. He see’s them for the way they are and that’s ok.

At least now he (former stepson) has me/us blocked. WOO HOO!!

Got a message earlier that all my notes to the ex on Classmates were “hidden.” I don’t know if SHE did that or if Classmates did that, but they are all hidden.

What I found funny was that the ex also posted today that “Classmates is a public site-no privacy features. In an effort to protect my identity I have limited the information for public viewing. Please contact me by private e-mail.”

Yet, when checked, her “story” has where she lives, where she came from, what he city is like, what she does for a living, how she is active in her community, about her family.

Go figure.

What I noticed as well, amongst the nonsense, was a note written by the ex to her 2nd ex that she is apparently engaged to again. This note was written/dated June 29, 2008. She titled it “I was thinking about you” she goes on to write ” I am very much in love with you and have been for the last 30 years. I love living with you and being engaged for the last 2 years. You will always be first in my life.”

On another episode of Classmates Feud…. LOL…. SO, the ex responded to her one friend that commented on her stalking notes. She told this friend, “thanks for the support.”

I had read her note from yesterday about the things you see. I copy pasted it onto my notes and wrote: “Friends, the above was written by my husbands ex wife to her best friend. J (the ex’s name) started (or in my case, has decided to continue) her harassment and accusations against me on or around June 23, 2009, however I was just made aware of it June 30th, in two emails sent to me. I contact both my and her local police dept. regarding her continued harassment. I posted the “enough” and “Cease and Desist” letter on her classmates profile due to the fact that the two email addresses I have for her are no longer good. I also included her local pd in the email. She has since deleted the posts I sent her and the above was her response. As instructed to do so by the police dept, I will continue to “document, document, document” her harassment.

I have nothing to do with her and certainly do not stalk her. As requested before, if she or her friend B (M-U) (bestfriend’s name) or any of their friends from El Cajon Valley High contact you, please let me know asap. Thank you in advance for your help! Patricia”

Today, the ex wrote in her Classmates note section that “you see the strangest things happen when you are too nosey into others lives. B (her best friend) you were right- ha ha jealousy will rot your soul, along with guilt and envy. Looking forward to seeing you soon and toasting our victory.”

I got an email this day, from someone asking me if I had seen the ex’s classmates.com account. Apparently, the ex posted to her friends, under the title, “The bad”

that she has “a stalker and she visits this site to watch me. I apologize to everyone who she may have contacted. She dreams and wishes her life was like mine. Again my friends I am sorry if the (my last name) lady has interrupted.”

She then changed her post to take out my last name. She wrote, “Again my friends I am sorry if someone has contacted you.”

She goes on to tell her friends “yes a female stalker that gets her thrill looking for me on the internet…”

Her best friend writes that “For the world to know” that she is done. She will no longer be a part of that dysfunctional, melodramatic, self serving drama.” Isn’t that rich, since SHE was having an affair.

Keith’s ex then writes and tells her best friend about myself and the woman who told me about this post, that we are “twisted souls lost in the inbetween- most likely they know each other because they envy us and are jealous of who we are. We are free, strong women and they are weak and controlled by their emotions. Karma will get them.”

Her best friend writes and asks the ex if she thinks myself and the wife of the man she was having an affair with knew each other. She goes on to say that she thinks the ex is right, that me and the other woman know each other, and that so now that she has done some “house cleaning” perhaps she “has gotten rid of that demented jealous lost soul.” SO CRAZY that she was having an affair and accuses the WIFE of being a “demented jealous lost soul.”

NO, no jealousy here.

Another one of the ex’s friends says, “Holy Crap a stalker? What the hell is up with that?”

A male friend of the ex’s writes, “What is up with this stalker thing, is it a real stalker how exciting why is he/she stuck on you?” To which she, the ex responds, “Yes an female stalker that gets her thrills looking me up on the internet.”

I posted on the ex’s Classmates notes, the following:

CEASE AND DESIST NOW!

(Her full name) J D R-U;

This note is to demand that you CEASE AND DESIST from further allegations that I am stalking you.

I suggest you STOP IMMEDIATELY, your lies, as malicious, vicious, slanderous and libelous as they are. If you do not, and you continue to your wanton ways, I will be forced to seek legal against against you. (my name.)

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I left a second note:

ENOUGH!

This is NOT the first time I have had trouble with you spreading malicious, vicious, slanderous and libelous lies about me. Over 17 months you have written that I “caused” my husbands death and even went so far as to falsely accuse me of KILLING my husband. You have invaded my personal website and that of friends to spew your lies and venom, and now here you are again, accusing me of being a stalker. YOU couldn’t even be truthful when you signed the guest book at my husbands funeral. YOU had not been a (my last name) since November 1990, when your divorce from him was final. ENOUGH!

*she signed the guest book as her first name, mine and my husbands last name, her maiden name.

I posted those same two letters on my classmates page. I also added a note to my friends that read:

FRIENDS: FYI, if a woman named (her name) writes any of you, please let me know asap. She is my husbands Ex-wife (since 1990) and she has decided it was time to start harassing me again, accusing me of “stalking” her on this website and others. She has written this accusation on here classmates account under the title, “The bad”. I have taken pictures of it and printed it up, should she ever deny she has done this. She has taken to referring to me this time around as “the d*****n lady” (my husbands last name). The truth is, she herself has done that which she accuses me of and yes, I do have the proof. Shortly after my husbands death she sent me an email invaded my webpage accusing me of not only “causing” my husbands death, but of actually “killing” him. She has gone to a friends webpage and invaded there as well, feeling the need to harass me and my husband there with her lies. I do not know why she has decided to start her “craziness” again…now but I apologize to all you in advance if she or one of her “friends” from El Cajon Valley High contact any of you about me. I appreciate your help and thank you! Patricia”

I reported the ex and her friends notes on and to Classmates, earlier today.

Showed up to Court with Sarah this time. She knew I would be going and was interested in going, she wanted to see Anthony. I brought her and Thomas with me.

HE did not show up.

I don’t know when this filed, but I received it from CSSD today.

This paperwork was signed on 5/11/09, but an attorney at CSSD. We go to court on 6/12/09.

This attorney requests child support be modified to ZERO, from $283 that was ordered on 6/25/08.