~This Is My World~

(Message sent to stepdaughter via MyLife Messages)

“Got a message you were trying to “reach me” through here, what’s up?”

(I was notified by reuniondotcom that on July 17, 2008, my stepdaughter was trying to reach me.)

“We agree” to guideline support of $283 per month (Imputed income) beginning April 1, 2008. He owes $10 a month on support arrears **Without Prejudice** The Respondent is to notify the CSSD in writing within 10 calendar days of obtaining employment with the name, address and telephone number along with this his first paystub. The payment plan on the arrears is below interest and the balance will continue to increase.

Getting ready to go to court again come 6-25-08, I filled out another I & E and sent it to CSSD on 5/29. Again I stated that I believe his ability to earn is $3800. I now pay $105. for Sarah’s part of medical, dental and vision insurance. Other information I wanted the Court to know is that Mr. R is ordered to carry insurance and pay 1/2 of all uncovered health care expenses incurred on behalf of our minor child and he currently owes me $648. He hasn’t carried insurance on her since 6/2/06. That my job assignment runs out for the summer on June 19th but will pick up in the Fall.

CSSD received this information today.

The Court set a temporary order of Child support to ZERO. The hearing is continued to 6-25-08 for Financial review. Beginning 4-14-08 the Defendant is ordered to maintain a record of his job searches, he is ordered to notify the CSSD in writing within 10 days if securing employment, change of employment, acting as an independent contractor, participating in any business or occupation, otherwise an order shall be retroactive to the date of employment or business participation. The motion to Stay Collection is DENIED.

HOLY SMOKES, the CSSD ‘s staff attorney filed their own response on 3/28 and WOW…POWERFUL. They did not consent to the order requested. They consent to an increase in child support if applicable. They also stated he is in arrears $6,545.79 principal, $73.32 interest as of March 28th, 2008. They request the court order Anthony to make a lump sum payment of $200 in order to release his driver’s license and enter a reasonable payment plan. Respondent has provided no legal basis for the court to grant this “Stay” request therefore this case request should be denied.

I received a copy today.

Anthony and the CSSD both received my response to Anthony’s OSC today.

I filed my response to Anthony’s OSC. I do NOT consent to the order requested, but I consent to the following order: The current order remain in full force and effect. The previous $23/month towards Mr. R’s share of uncovered medical expenses be reinstated and made an order until his support obligation ends, as Mr. R refuses to pay his share on his own.

Other Relief, I do not consent to the order requested. Supporting information- Collection efforts for child support and uncovered medical expenses should remain active until Mr. R’s obligation ends. I conversed with Mr. R the evening of March 16th and 17th 2008. He stated he currently has his license but it will get revoked in August if he fails to square up his arrears and get current. Mr. R has no rights of visitation nor has he had any contact of any kind with our minor child in nearly 15 years. He did not request a change in visitation in his OSC. Neither of Mr. R’s sisters lives with him as he declared. He has no roommates. He lives in a one bedroom house that is bein held in a trust until he dies then it reverts to Mr. R’s children including our minor child. I do not believe he pays rent for a house that is his. Mr. R told me that he works construction jobs here and there, nothing steady and gets paid cash for work he does. I cannot consent to his requests, as he is doing and has not been doing his part or making an effort to support our daughter, and that would not and is not fair to her.

Other information I wanted the court to know concerning support in my case is that Mr. R is court ordered to carry health care insurance on our minor child but he is not. He has failed and refused to pay his share of uncovered medical expenses for 3 years, incurred on behalf of our minor child.

I estimated his gross monthly income aat $3800 based on his ability to earn.

I provided my income, death benefits from when my husband passed away and I provided a copy of a letter I received from Anthony’s brother in law regarding a hold that was placed on Anthony’s trust account.

Anthony is taking ME back to Court. He filed an OSC on 3/12. I received it 03/14/08. He wants to modify existing order from 11/7/05 of $607 per month. We go to court on 4/9/08.

He also has a hard time spelling our daughters name. This time, he told whomever helped him fill out the papers that he name is SAHARA. I guess that’s what happens when you know your child.

He wants to “reserve arrears and stay collection efforts and Release his drivers license. ”

In his declaration he states that there is a “change in circumstance.” He is currently receiving GR in the amount of $203.

He said he needs his Drivers License released. He wrote, “So I can seek employment, visit my child and for personal errands.” Um, visit WHAT child? It’s 2005, OUR child is not quite 15 years old. It’s been 15 years since he’s seen her or “visited” with her, and it’s been that long if not longer since he’s seen his other two kids, who are now adults. What Child is he wanting to visit?

He also said he is unemployed, or self employed and has no paycheck. He said he would bring his 2006 income tax returns to the hearing in the even he can locate them and that he did not make any loan or credit application in the last two years.

He says he gets $203 a month. He also claimed two of his sisters live with him. Both of his sisters names are spelled incorrectly, and NEITHER of them live with him at their age of 52 and 55. Both have their own homes, very NICE homes I might add. He continues to “declare under penalty of perjury” mind you, that he pays $100 in rent, (even though he lives in a house that he inherited when his mother passed away), that he pays $165 in groceries, (even though he told me he goes to the food bank), he says he pays $285 in Utilities, (gas electric, water and trash), he pays $20 for telephone, cell phone and email, $20 in laundry and cleaning, for a total of $590 a month.

He got two things right, we have one child and she is 100% with me. He also go right that he has no health insurance.

His GR was approved on 10/30/2007. It makes me wonder why he said he makes $203 from GR. According to their letter, it says that the following changes are considered mandatory reporting responsibilities within 5 days to his eligibility worker: New earned income of $203 or more. New unearned income of $25 or more. Increased earned or unearned income of $25 or more. Someone moves in or out of his household.

(message sent to stepdaughter on Myspace at 7:44pm)

“Congrats on your engagement!”

Seems L is “engaged and getting married in about a year.” according to what she wrote her friend on her public myspace account.