Ex’s Response

She wrote this morning at 8:00am saying, “Really now??- She is 18 and she knows you look at this. She was disappointed with you and she was when started her college life and realized you were no part of it. So- buck up and stay loose. She is doing wonderful and I am very proud of her. Too bad you don’t really know her.”

Keith responded at 8:28am “Figures you would approve of the advertising and language. Sounds like she is the one trying to portray herself as loose. Figures YOU would approve of that. It is/was HER decision to not have me part of her life, high school or college. She made the choice in 2003, if not before. SHE made the decision. Too bad so sad. Keith

Keith had also noticed that his daughter tweaked her profile to say, “These are just quotes take them as you please but don’t judge me them!! thanks” and also “If you are going to judge me by what I have on here then go right ahead but im guessing you don’t know me if you think that…”

Before she added those comments, her profile had the floor of the college dorm she was on, her college, that she and two of her friends are the “HIGHTLIGHT of the PARTY!!” “we are some Crazy B*t*h*s” “OMG Why dont you RIP off my clothes and F**K me TWICE” “SWEET F**K RIGHT”

At 6:07 pm, his daughter emailed him with the subject, “LEAVE ME ALONE!!!” She writes, as her last words to him, “Richard, WHY DONT YOU JUST FUCK OFF!!!! Im tired of you trying to get in my life stop…I hate you and i hate what you are doing…stop fucking caring and if you did care why dont you fucking callme…im guessing thats to fucking hard for you…IM 18 and I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT…I DONT NEED YOU IN MY LIFE SCREWING IT UP…Im doing just fine wihtout you in my life i have made it this far im sure i can make the rest wihtout you…just leave me alone and stay out of my life BYE”

At 6:20pm she also emailed Keith a response to an email he sent her last night to her school email. It was of nothing significant, just a FWD titled “Only Smart People can Read This” It was a paragraph written with words with their letters mixed up. Stepdaughter wrote her dad and said, “THIS E-MAIL FOR SCHOOL…NOT FOR PERSONAL SHIT…SO STOP SENDING E-MAILS HERE THANKS.”

At 6:20pm, Keith wrote, “wow (his daughter’s name) what a trashy mouth you have. I sure hope you feel better. You have a lot of growing up to do, A LOT. I didn’t do anything to you. YOU told me to NOT to call you, remember? Or do I need to refresh your memory about how I asked you 2 years ago if we could start over, and what your response was. Just because I do as you ask doesn’t mean I don’t care. I haven’t screwed up your life at all, but as usual, it is easier to blame someone else (me) than take responsibility for your own actions and your own part in the break down of the things, huh? Of course it is.

I pray nothing ever happens to you while you are at College. Bye”

To the email about the college email for school only, Keith responded at 6:21pm and wrote, “whatever smart mouth.”

6:26pm, his daughter responds back, “THANKS FOR THE COMMENT REALLY APPRECIATE IT…STAY OUT… I DONT NEED YOU IN MY LIFE I HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR IM SURE I CAN DO THE REST WIHTOUT YOU AS WELL…. MOM…TELL HIM TO STOP RUINING MY LIFE PLEASE…”

Keith responded at 6:30pm, “how do you think I should have responded? Your filth laden email, doesn’t deserve anymore than the response I gave you. You really need to grow up. If you don’t want me to email you, quit emailing me. how’s that/ You didn’t have to respond. You took my concern for you and what has happened to the other two girls and turned it around. You did it just like your mom did. If you are so grown up, and 18 and can do whatever you want, why don’t you fight your OWN battles. I always offered my help, said it was there if you wanted it, you couldn’t ask me. Instead, what do you do? Send emails like the filth laden one you sent. FINE (her name). I GOT YOUR MESSAGE. SEE YA.”

Keith noticed that she has changed her Directory Public Profile to read, “STAY OUT I DONT NEED YOU ANYMORE IN MY LIFE I HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR WITHOUT YOU IM SURE I CAN MAKE THE REST OF THE WAY WITHOUT YOU!!”

He emailed just her at 6:35pm and said, “You really need to grow up. Make sure you tell your buddies that it was YOUR choice and your decision to not have me in your life. Remember, there are two sides to every story.” and then he asked what happened to her boyfriend, a guy named “Mario.”

JUST WOW… After dealing with all this since his divorce from their mother in November 1990, he was DONE. Both his kids are “adults” now, or so they say they are.

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