Author: Patricia

My hematite ring broke today. It surprised me. Later on in the day, I went and bought another one from my FAVORITE place, https://www.mysticeyebotanica.com. I also got a gold magnetic hematite ring. I wear the black one on my left index finger and the gold one on my right ring finger, but for easier picture display, I put them both on the same hand.

It was really crazy because the whole time my daughter and I were in the store looking around, I had both rings on, no problem. When I purchased them and walked out, suddenly the gold one didn’t fit. I couldn’t believe it. I went back to see if I can possibly exchange it, showing the sales clerk that no matter what finger I put it on, it would fit. She too thought it was crazy because she saw me walking around with both of them on! She took out her ring sizing tool, thinking they may be different sizes, the one I bought and the one I was exchanging it, and lol and behold, they were the same size! I couldn’t make this up! She let me exchange it, no problem.

I also bought some new stones. Can’t have too many, right?! I’m trying to tell ya, this store, just like Barnes & Noble, should be illegal to me, LOL. ANYWAY…

I bought a Blue Bloodstone, a Blue Quartz and a Lapis Lazuli. I LOVE THEM!!!

I feel so much better, settled, and happy, and I just wanted to share with you.

Have a great evening, everyone!

TTFN,

P~

Went with Kai to see this musical at the La Mirada Theater of Performing Arts. So excited and it really was our lucky day! Went to go buy tickets and was told, “well, it’s your lucky day! Someone just told me they can’t use the tickets and to give them to someone who could use them!” Voila! Thank you!🙏🏼♥️

If you live in or around the area, even if you don’t, LOL… SEE THIS MUSICAL!! It’s truly AMAZING!!

Had a Mother/Daughter day today with my oldest. It was a great day. After breakfast at Polly’s Pies, we went to Barnes and Noble.

I told her that I hadn’t been there in so long that I just wanted to go see what looks good, if there are any sales going on etc.

I noticed they rearranged the store since the last time I was there, so while I was back tracking from a maze I found myself in, I found a book she said she wanted, so I picked it up and continued to follow her voice to where she was.

When she saw me, she said, “oh, you found the book I wanted” and I told her mod my adventure in the store of thinking I was heading in the right direction to where she was, only to be blocked by a wall of books and when I backtracked, the book was in front of my face.

Long story short, we picked up some books, I bought her the book she wanted, plus a few more I wanted and and she bought a book for herself. As we were driving home, I told her, “ok, ok, I told you a little white lie.” She just looked at me and said, “what?” I told her when I told her I wanted to go to B&N, just to see what’s new there, I already KNEW what I was going for. I told her when she had told me yesterday that she wanted the book Plant You by Carleigh Bodrug, I had planned on getting it for her, so I was actually on a mission. She was so happy and said thank you. We looked through the book later on and it really looks amazing. If you are eating a plant based way, I highly suggest this book!

While I was looking for a book that interested me, I came across THIS book, SPARE, with a 30% off sticker. I chuckled to myself, wondering how long it will be before it ends up at the Dollar Tree store or 99 Cent stores 😁.

Here are the books I bought today and SPARE, that I left on the shelf. 😁

It was a great day!

Until next time….

P~

Well, well, well….internet surfing brought some crazy information up. Oldest stepdaughter is getting a (possibly second) divorce, filing in Jan 2023.

Back in Feb. 2006, days short of 3 months that my husband, her Dad passed away, she came out of nowhere to attack me via MySpace. https://mspisceangal2020.wordpress.com/2006/02/23/and-now/ and this one https://mspisceangal2020.com/2006/02/23/here-comes-another-one/ .

She didn’t want to communicate with me several months before, but after her dad died, she wants to slide into my DM’s? Wasn’t she happily married to the first guy? I mean, on March 26-05, I wished her a long lasting marriage, what is she bugging me for? I mean, I knew that as of 6-13-05, the October wedding had been postponed, but it was 8 months later. Who knows…

ANYWAY, she married the second guy, on 8/27/11. They had twins about 4 years later, and now, 12 years after they said I DO… she’s filed for divorce from him. That’s going to cost him a pretty penny. He’s in real estate. Need I say more? Poor guy, I feel badly for him because he lost his mom about a year ago or so now as well. GEEZ. He’s got to be hurting. 2 whammies.

I’ve written this guy before via FB. The first time was 2/2015, sending him a my son, his wife’s half brother, along with a note saying how surprised I was when reading my FB newsfeed, he and his wife appeared under “People you May know.” I told him it was a beautiful picture of the two of them and while I don’t know him, I’d known his wife for a 12 year period at one time, way back when. I told him I was glad she was happy. I also told him the pic is of my 17 year old son, his wife’s half brother, and how he wonders about his older siblings, that I hoped everyone was doing well, nice to “see” him and to take care. I got no response.

In Nov of 2015, I send him a message congratulating him and his wife on the birth of their twins, on behalf of myself, my son, and my son and his half sister’s cousin. No response from him.

Last night, I send a message to him saying sorry to read of his impending divorce, that I wish him nothing but the best through it all. I hoped that there would never be any issues of him seeing his twins and that he is always allowed to see them when he wants and to take care. He responded back with the weirdest of message. He wrote, “May God forgive you for all your hurts! I see you’re very heartbroken. May God fill your hear with love. I know you mean well, but the family wants nothing to do with you. Please understand I have to block you now.”

Say what? The Family? I wasn’t writing the family. I just happen to know how that family works. I don’t have hurts and I was heartbroken when my husband, his soon to be ex wife’s dad died, nearly 18 years ago. I’ve learned that Life goes on. We continue on with our lives, with a new normal, living without him. He will have to learn the same lesson, losing two women he loved much.

The guy, on the other hand. MUST be going through it. His mom passing away, now dealing with this divorce, I can’t even imagine. I hope my former oldest stepdaughter does right by him. I remember reading about how she wouldn’t let her oldest child’s father see him. So, so sad.

I still wish her current soon to be ex husband the best as he goes through this madness. Hopefully it doesn’t cost him too too much.

TTFN,

P~

OMG, I can so RELATE!!! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRw75mxB/

This reminded me of Keith- his kids hadn’t seen him for years, yet when he died, at least one boo hoo’d the entire Memorial Service. The one that told him to basically fuck off, that she didn’t want him in her life, the one that told him to quit calling, quit emailing, etc. the other 3 kids (all 4 were 18+ in age) were stoic. Did they (all) attend just to make sure he was really dead? https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRTVfM3w/

TTFN,

P~

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRT5HKsU/

When can a CHILD decide to visit- https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRT59eho/

The year was 1995, when Keith could only and barely afford a paralegal- after a horrible start to an otherwise kinda/sorta decent summer visitation with his kids, his ex took him back to court out of spite. She refused to discuss visitation with him. She was only interested in an increase in child support, and blamed me for her u reasonable actions:

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRT5aK9J/a