A question I thought of yesterday: when you’re stressed or full of anxiety, what song brings you back to center? For me it’s this one: youtu.be/xnyh6i9NvmE
Let me know your song 👍🏻👍🏻
PERFECTLY STATED
It’s like Dr. Ramani knew my husbands ex!
Can You Relate?
Life…
Real life. If we are having a conversation, and suddenly the answers to questions I ask are met with “I don’t know…” That tells me the conversation is done.
A hard lesson to learn is that some jobs don’t accept “no call, no show.” not even once. Just because it was done in the past and one has gotten away with it, doesn’t mean one will get away with it forever. Learn the lesson.
If one was supposed to go on vacation, and ended up not going on vacation and your boss says, “Oh good, come to work then…” it’s not an attack. Maybe they are just looking out for you. Not everything is an attack. If you need money, and your plans changed, why not take a couple days off for mental health and then go back to work? If not, fine, but not everything is an attack, especially if one asks to borrow $100. Right after going back to work.
IJS….
Undoing a dysfunctional parent’s hold on you. – Parental Alienation
A trauma bond is the type of emotional attachment that forms between abusers and victims, such as narcissistic parents and children.Trauma bonds are forged over time as a narcissistic parent trains a child to respond in particular ways to feed their ego and narcissistic needs.Untangling oneself from a trauma bond with a narcissist can be…
— Read on parentalalienation-pas.com/2021/07/03/undoing-a-dysfunctional-parents-hold-on-you/
Signs of PA…
My Dream
I know dreams only last for a few seconds. Well, that’s what I’ve been told, and this was that long but it was an AMAZING few seconds.
In my dream some time this morning, my son’s best friend since Kindergarten was over and as he ran past me he asked, “Auntie! Where’s Thomas?” I said, “In his room.” and his “brother” took off.
Suddenly, I see my son running past me, as well as our cat. I yelled, “Hey! What’s going on!??” My daughter looked at me, and took off. Our Cat jumped into the window sill, and my son ran up to the closed window and slid it open, and yelled “DAD!”
As I turned the corner, I see, CLEAR as Crystal, my husband, in full form, full color! My son and his brother climbed out the window, and my daughter and I ran outside to where my husband was, ran up him and hugged him, kissed him, kept touching him, asking him if he was REALLY here, if I was imagining this, because I knew he died, we ALL knew he died, but here he was, in the flesh, with his glasses on, saying he was alive, “they” had to tell me he died. I didn’t question who “they” were or WHY they had to tell me that, I was just glad he was there… and then I woke up.
It was really good to see my husband, looking healthy, smiling that smile of his.
Beautiful
– Dad, May I Ask You A Question? –
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
Son: Daddy, may I ask you a question?
Dad: Yeah sure, what it is? replied the man…
Son: Daddy, how much do you make an hour?
Dad: That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing? the man said angrily.
Son: I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?
Dad: If you must know, I make $50 an hour.
Son: Oh, the little boy replied, with his head down.
Son: Daddy, may I please borrow $25?
The father was furious, “If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don’t work hard every day for such childish frivolities.”
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.
“Are you asleep, son?” He asked.
“No daddy, I’m awake,” replied the boy.
“I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier,” said the man. “It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here’s the $25 you asked for…”
The little boy sat straight up, smiling. “Oh, thank you, daddy!” he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money and then looked up at his father.
“Why do you want more money if you already have some?” the father grumbled.
“Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,” the little boy replied.
“Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.”
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
– Credit: Newsner –
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Think about it and always remember to spend time with the people you love most!
~Moony
Lying Changes the Brain – Parental Alienation
Nature Neuroscience reported a study of the amygdala, the part of the brain dealing with emotional responses. The researchers said the amygdala shows up less and less, as we lie more and more. Essentially, our guilt feelings tend to weaken and shrink.
— Read on parentalalienation-pas.com/2021/09/27/lying-changes-the-brain-2/
My Girl…
She’s a cat… nothing more needs to be said, right? LMAO
To THIS…. A few minutes after the video
~This Is My World~ 