Author: Patricia

Keith only, received a graduation announcement from his daughter, in the mail today. She addressed the envelope to “Mr. (last name).” SMH….

Inside the announcement, were two pics of his daughter.

Went and got his daughter graduation gifts.

Keith received a response back from the woman he emailed yesterday. She thanked him for his support, and said that if there was something he would like to donate as an item or cash or check is great. She said they can purchase items as the give-aways throughout the evening, and whatever he can do would be much appreciated. She told him that he has a wonderful daughter, that she has had the pleasure of getting to know her over the years.

Sweet.

Keith ended up sending in a $100 money order. I got the money order and sent it off. Keith emailed the woman when he got home and told her that I had sent the contribution in the mail and that hopefully they get it by Wednesday. He hoped that all goes well at the Frolic.

Keith had received something in the mail about a Senior Frolic for the graduating class of 2005, his daughter’s class.

The notice said this was “an ongoing tradition in their community to provide a safe supervised place for the seniors to go after the graduation ceremony.” The notice went on to describe more fun, food, bowling, dancing and a “teen friendly Casino” using play money, allowing the graduates to win and play for prizes, until 3 am or later. The announcement said, “Your support in the way of “cash” or “prizes” is what makes this even a success, year after year” and thanked the family member of the students, for their “generous donation.”

Today, Keith emailed the woman who’s name appeared on this announcement. He told her he would like to contribute to the Senior Frolic this year and said his daughter, (her name) will be graduating this year.

Got a letter from Keith’s work saying they received the modification on the Income Withholding Order and processed the change.

The order was delivered to Keith’s ex’s PO Box today, April Fools Day at 744am.

Sent copy of the new court order to the ex.

I KNOW Keith was nervous, but he did good!

Judge ordered: “WAGE ASSIGNMENT IS QUASHED EFFECTIVE 6/18/05 AND ONGOING SUPPORT IS SET AT ZERO AS OF THAT DATE. ARREARS, AS OF THIS DATE IS ZERO.”

Judge even signed an Amended Order/Notice to Withhold Income for Child Support. $560.00 per month TERMINATES ON 6/18/05. $0.00 per month past-due child support arrears 12 weeks or greater.

Faxed the new order to Keith’s work as well.

The oldest daughter wrote her dad at 1312. It was in response to his email to her yesterday at 1425. She told him, “You’re right, Except that you left out (oldest sons name). p.s. remind your NON-MEDDLING, paranoid pat her emails will NEVER be read.” About a half hour later she wrote her dad again, telling him, “Oh, now that I think about it…I won’t read your emails either. For obvious reasons. If you want to talk to me, you can call me directly.”

LMAO! Does she mean from today on? Because I sent her one last night at 2342, and lets not forget, she READ the one I sent her yesterday afternoon. LOL Just so CRAZY…. it’s funny how these ‘women’ think they are badasses writing Keith, and then telling him they won’t read/respond to his emails. OR they bring me into their bullshit and get pissed off when I respond. They REALLY don’t know me. LOL Many things I can let it go, but some times, the constant badger from these people, gets to be too much.

The email I wrote her last was, I was reminding HER, “For the record, you brought me into it, when you attacked me in an email to your dad. You just couldn’t leave me out of your troubles.

Oh no, the money issue was not wearing on me at all. If it had been, I would have taken you to small claims court to recoup it, if I was that kind of person. Being that you are my husbands daughter, and you needed help, I was happy to have been able to help you. I suppose I will receive the money when I am looking at it.

Yes, it was wrong for me to assume I was invited to your wedding, my apologies. When you invited my kids by saying you hope they can make it to your wedding as well, I didn’t know at the time that I was excluded. You were always very personable towards me whenever we were in the same place at the same time. Thank you for pointing out the error of my thinking.

Are you the entire (my married name) family spokeswoman now? You speak for all (my married name)’s? I will keep that in mind, LOL

Paranoid personalities? Hmmmm, last time I saw you was at (a niece’s) wedding, and I don’t even remember when before that. Maybe (bro in law and mother in law’s) funerals? Or at a party at (oldest stepson’s)? Doesn’t matter, it had been a long time. I interact with you so infrequently, it’s hilarious that you make such a judgment call. I can count on one hand how many times I have interacted with you. As a matter of fact, no, I don’t have copies of letters I supposedly wrote to numerous family members. Actually, I have no idea what you are talking about. Lets see, I wrote you and (oldest stepson) one time, I didn’t keep a copy of it, I wrote (sis in law) one letter, but I didn’t keep a copy of it, do you have a copy of it? If so, could you mail me a copy of it please so I can say you right. that I do have a copy? The only one I know who wrote a letter to anyone, then sent copies to numerous family members, was (sis in law) and the one she wrote (other bro in law) after (younger bro in law) passed away. That letter too, has gone off to the landfill. Oh, and you did mention that (the ex wife) wrote numerous family members last September, but other than that, that’s about all I know. Recorded phone conversations? I am not sure what you are getting at here. There was a recorder on our phone, yes. Your dad was advised to do that, after he was almost arrested for kidnapping. The recorder was put on just to record the conversations between him and (ex wife) and (ex wife) and I. I really don’t know how that pertains to you or how that affects your life, or what it has to do with you though. You weren’t calling and hadn’t called your dad during these years, so why meddle and overstep into something you aren’t/weren’t a part of?

I don’t know why you think I would think that just because we have the same last name, it makes us family. As far as I’m concerned, and the way I have always referred to you as, is you are ” my husband’s oldest daughter.” Nothing more, nothing less. I will have to remember your comment though, so that I can tell my son it, the next time he asks if he can see you or talk to you as you are absolutely right, just because you have the same last name, and he too is your half brother, just like (middle stepson), it still doesn’t make you family.

May you have a long lasting marriage…. Pat”

Ex received letter that Keith wrote the court. It was delivered today at 8:52am today.

OMG, this email is HILARIOUS! She writes, at 8:30am, ” yes, I will be the thin (122 pounds) sexy woman at court, looking good with my low cute blouse in red, and a short skirt showing off my fine legs and rear end.

I will be the hottest looking woman in the courtroom, it won’t be hard to find me. Can’t wait to see the look in your eyes when you catch your breath at how awesome I look and I have two almost grown children, WOW- see you there.

Judge won’t care what comes out of your mouth why are you trying so hard.

84 days till the end of this.”

Keith and I got a GREAT laugh at this one! THIS was one of her funniest emails!