His, Mine and Ours

That’s the kind of email addresses we have. Keith has his, I have mine and when needed, we have “OURS.” OUR email contained Keith and my name and last name.

An email with the subject matter, “Member Pays Information” was sent on 1/22/03 at 1305. It was sent TO HER only, and cc’d to Keith.

The ex responded to it at 1921 letting Keith know that she “will not accept any e-mail from Pat (my last name). Please resend. I have blocked this e-mail address from being received.” This was not only sent to the OUR e-mail address, but she added CC’s to her mother and her mothers husband as well as their son.

I don’t know if she realized she had already responded to the email or not, but 26 minutes later, at 1947, she responded again, “deleted. please forward by mail if you no longer have just your e-mail” and this email was sent to just OUR email address. Maybe she realized what she did and was trying to cover her ass, who knows.

Keith checked email around 2000, and saw that she had responded. He e-mailed back at 2109 to her and her cc’s saying, “That is your problem, not mine. I will not resend anything.” At 2114 he responded again to her second email saying, “Too bad for you. I will not forward anything until I have all the information. If you cannot be grown up enough and get past your issues, then that is not my problem.”

Member Pays Information- Kaiser

(emailed to stepson at 2:01pm)

Hi Mr. N,

I am sending you some information. I forgot you can’t print and was just about to attach it to this email. In fact, I just deleted the letter I had just written concerning this information. It is just the cost of office visits, etc. I was able to get it from Dad’s work.

N E Ways, just wanted you to be on the lookout for it. You should get it in the next 2-3 days.

Hasta Luego,

P~”

More Insurance Information

Sent stepson an email telling him to be on the lookout for information I was sending to him about office visit costs for the insurance. The information I was sending him should be there within 2-3 days.

Even though he’s 19, Keith is still covering him. Stepson never responded to my email from the 13th.

Re: Christmas boxes

(email to stepdaughter at 11:05am)

“Mornin’ L,

No, I haven’t heard the one about moving the Space Needle to Moses Lake. hmmm, it just doesn’t seem like it would “fit” there.

GREAT! glad you got the box. I figured because it was so heavy that they had to “investigate” it, or whatever they do now adays with mail like that because of terrorists, know what I mean? It had never taken a week before… oh well, glad you got it, one less phone call for me to make today :-).

I have to get Thomas ready for school so I better get going.

Talk with you again…

Hugs,

P~”

Re: Christmas boxes

(step daughter responded to my email of 1/14/03 at 720pm)

Stepdaughter writes:

“hahaha..thats funny thats been going around for like the longest time..and have you heard the one that they are moving the space needle to moses lake i thought that was hillarouy well anyways i just got the other box today..so.. yeah i haven’t opened it yet because i am to busy wiht homework and stuff .. well yeah tahnks anyways .. ok bye bye L”

Re: Christmas boxes

(email sent to my stepdaughter at 7:20pm)

” Hi Girlie,

thanks for letting us know. We are just concerned about the box that hasn’t gotten there yet. We hope that the one you did get was your cd case, was it? The other box had some other things in there that I added. Hope you don’t mind πŸ˜‰ There were both insured so I will be calling the Post office tomorrow to see what I can find out. I will let you know.

AHHH, the poor little “wilbur’s” (thinking “Charlottes web” here) 😦 πŸ™‚ when I was in high school, we dissected a worm and a crustacean (not sure if that’s how you spell it), but that is good it isn’t too back for you.

Thomas is asleep now. He fell asleep on the way home from work, so he was asleep by 630pm. Dad is off tomorrow so hopefully he will sleep in. I doubt it though.

He has been talking about wanting Pizza for 4 days now, and now that we ordered it, he falls asleep…LOL LOL LOL! poor guy. hopefully he doesn’t wake up cranky πŸ˜‰

Hey, just saw on the news something about 60 ft lava lamp in Soap Lake. Have you heard about it? Too funny…

Welp, thanks for writing back! hasta luego muchacha! P~”

Christmas Boxes

(email sent to Stepdaughter at 2:33pm)

“L,

Have you received both boxes we sent you of your Christmas gifts and other stuff?

We see that you have received one of them, but not the other one. Can you let me know asap please? thank you!

How are you enjoying your day off? LUCKY! You have a really long weekend coming up too! Not fair! πŸ˜‰ We just have Monday off, thank goodness!

Thomas is good. I have to go pick him up in a few minutes. Dad seems to be getting a cold now. It was super foggy here this morning. Could hardly see in front of you. Dad couldn’t see the house across the way it was that foggy.

Let me or Dad know about which box you DID get, please. Thanks, L.

Toodaloo,

P~”

Insurance Change

So since the beginning of the year, I had been emailing my stepson, who is now 19 and living with his grandmother in San Diego county. It seems he was having trouble with the insurance. We had switched to one insurance that was more convenient for us and him since he is in CA now.

Today, I sent him an email at 2:48pm telling him that I would be sending out information to him tomorrow, but I wanted confirmation as to whether he still needed the information because his mom told Keith that SHE has sent him the enrollment form he needed.

A New Year

One would think she would get tired of constantly griping about BS. In this latest email, from today at 1316, she’s complaining about the insurance, YET AGAIN, stating that there is “no reasonable way” for their daughter to seek medical attention in their state from a Kaiser facility, threatening to contact her attorney “about this absurd medical issue.” Um, there IS a reasonable way for their daughter to seek medical attention, the EX just has to use the insurance properly, and have the bills processed properly, to start. It’s just that simple. Contact her attorney? LMAO, go for it. She tells Keith in this email, “I will get orders to change the coverage if you don’t remedy this situation immediately. CRAZY, LOL.

Their son is over 18, and she is STILL talking to Keith about the medical coverage for their son. First of all, Keith is under no court ordered obligation to continuing to carry his son on his insurance. Secondly, there is no reason for HER to be talking to Keith about his medical coverage for their son. What is wrong with their son’s voice? Does he not have one? Of course not, she has spoken FOR HIM all his life. I often found it funny how she picks and chooses when she allows the kids to speak for themselves and when she doesn’t. When the kids are telling him off, and yelling at him and emailing Keith rude and disrespectful email, she’s ok with it, but for Keith to actually talk to his kids, especially their son, about his insurance coverage, NOPE, can’t DO THAT. At any rate.

She tells him again in all caps, “Do NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES CALL MY MOTHER OR ANY OTHER MEMBER OF MY FAMILY AT THEIR HOMES. IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN I WILL GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST YOUR WIFE AND YOU. You have no reason to this at all.

She told Keith that if he needed to contact his son, call his cell phone, write him a letter or e-mail and to “NOT INVOLVE MY MOTHER OR MY FAMILY,” and the same directive went towards their daughter too, you know, call her cell phone, write her a letter or e-mail and “DO NOT CALL ME FAMILY.” GOOD LORD. WHOTF does this woman think she is?

She ended this email saying, “Questions on this contact my attorney.”

Questions? Keith is not the one that is having issues with anything, LOL. OH, and by the way, this email from her was CC’d to their son AND, get this, HER MOTHER AND her mother’s husband.

Imagine that.

Insurance

(sent to stepson at 2:48pm)

“N,

I missed the mailman. I will send the information out to you tomorrow, however, your mom said that SHE had mailed the enrollment form to you. Do you have it, did you get it, or do I still need to send it? Let me know, please.

I will also include some other information about the insurance as well.

P~

(sent copy of HB Election Form, and services available in his area of San Diego County)