~This Is My World~

Anthony responded to my text from last night. It was kind of jarring. At 09:31 am he wrote, “Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will talk to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.”

Say WHAT? He rests his case? I never let him see his daughter? OOOOH He POKED a sleeping mama bear…

Sent Anthony a text a little bit ago, at 18:21pm asking how he was and if he was ok. I was trying to confirm his address. Short and sweet text from me.

OY VEY….what a knucklehead! NOW this girl, Keith’s granddaughter, is saying that I’m taking xanax, I’m crazy and taking meds….say WHAT? LOL…SHE came after me, out of the blue, I guess she forgot that. She also went after Keith’s brother and sister in law, accusing them of stealing money from her grandpa. Where is she GETTING this shit from?

SO, I wrote her mom (again) adding her stepmom this time so that her dad will find out…and by the way, This girl is a young adult, with at least one baby of her own. I THINK she’s married, but I have no idea. ANYWAY, what I said to her mom and stepmom was, “She seriously needs to back off. I have reported her and I will go further if she doesn’t leave me alone, J. Her libelous comments about Keith, (ex wife#1) and I, me taking xanax, me being crazy, and taking meds, just to name a few. We are not friends on FB. She blocked me as she was reporting me the other day to face book, then she unblocked me and her and this other Cynthia lady are back at it. Her harassment needs to stop, IMMEDIATELY.”

Let’s see how this goes.

This was left for my son on FB, about me. This is from my husband’s granddaughter. The oldest stepson’s daughter. SHE seems to be under the impression that my late husband cheated on his ex with me while he was married to her grandmother, Keith’s ex #1.

Um, they divorced in or around 1977, I was 13 years old. How crazy is THAT?! I wrote this girls Mom and told her “Call your daughter and tell her to stay off MY FB… once again, SHE came after me… She needs to back the hell off. My son and I have NO dealings with her or your son, let’s keep it that way. Thank you.”

Just so crazy.

Letter from DCSS came today. It was dated 11/10/2015, postmarked 11/16, 2015. It says that this letter is to let me know what on 11/10/2015 the local child support agency terminated child support services and closed the support case for the children listed below.

Sarah.

The case may remain open with the State of CA for payment processing only.

I do have to say, it was easier to get payments through the DCSS. They were very good at enforcing the child support order.

For that, and their hard work, I thank them. ❤

A CSSD letter came today. It was dated 9/10/2015, postmarked 9/16/2015 and I received it today, just telling me that as of 11/10/2015 any services currently being provided by the DCSS will be terminated because there is no longer a current support obligation and no arrearage payments were made in the preceding twelve months, the assigned or unassigned arrears are under $500 or the arrears are unenforceable under state law, and all amounts due under the support order have been paid in full.

SO…Anthony FINALLY wants to settle child support, 4 years and 28 days past her 18th birthday, and SOMEONE hired an attorney for him. More than like his oldest sister and her husband.

A Stipulation and Order Waiving Unassigned Arrears was filed.

I am the party waiving past support. Anthony is the party ordered to pay support.

As of 8/25/2015, child support was Principal $18,003.47 and Interest is $11, 603.00 Time period of 9/30/2002 to 8/25/2015.

The parties agree that the amounts in items in 14a and 14b will be considered a final determination by the court of the amount of past due support.

Upon payment by party ordered to pay support of the sum of $18,003.47 to the local child support agency on or before 9/11/2015, the NON-Aid arrears set forth in paragraph 14a shall be deemed paid in full.

Conditions of WAIVER:

This waiver of past due support is conditional on the party ordered to pay support agreements set forth in this document. If the party ordered to pay support fails to perform any condition, than this waiver is NULL and VOID and of no force or effect whatsoever. However, if box 14c is checked, the setting of support arrears in 14a and 14b will continue to be valid as the court’s determination of the amount of support arrearages. Specific conditions of this waiver as as follows: (nothing specified in 16a. or 16b. )

Declaration states:

I, (my legal name) am the Petitioner in this matter and declare as follows:

The Respondent and I have entered into a stipulation and that I have agreed to accept the principal amount of $18,003.47 as payment in full for any and all arrears that due for child support. I knowingly and willingly agree to waive all the interest that has accrued on the child support which is $11,603.00 and any small interest that should accrue before actual payment is made per the stipulation.

I do not have any objection to reinstate Respondents drivers license immediately.

I spoke with Mr. V, the child support representative on August 25, 2015 at approx. 3:30pm, and I informed him of my agreement as set forth herein.

I am hopeful that this declaration and my previous email will serve as sufficient evidence that I voluntarily agree with this negotiation of arrears and that I can thereby avoid my appearance in Court as I am starting a brand new permanent position at my job and cannot take time off the time to appear in court. I ask the Court to accept this declaration as my testimony as if I was in Court.

Sent Anthony 9 pics of Sarah from Baby to Present, including with him, his son, his mom, and one of his nieces.

“This person is unavailable on Messenger.”

Wrote Anthony today. Sent him another job lead I saw. I wrote, “I’ve sent you a few job leads, I hope you’re doing something with them, like applying for the job.

Your child support is only going up every month, and your $15 a month isn’t doing much to bring it down.

I even sent you and (his brother in law) a letter offering a settlement and never heard back from either of you.

Hope all is well, take care, get a job so this arrears bill can be paid off. You’re what? 56 years old now? What’s the deal? Patty” and left my cell number and email for him to contact me.

I knew Anthony had been fired from his job, but I didn’t know why really. I saw that my job was hiring for a couple positions right up his alley, so I printed up the information and sent it to him today.