~This Is My World~

Keith received a response back from the woman he emailed yesterday. She thanked him for his support, and said that if there was something he would like to donate as an item or cash or check is great. She said they can purchase items as the give-aways throughout the evening, and whatever he can do would be much appreciated. She told him that he has a wonderful daughter, that she has had the pleasure of getting to know her over the years.

Sweet.

Keith ended up sending in a $100 money order. I got the money order and sent it off. Keith emailed the woman when he got home and told her that I had sent the contribution in the mail and that hopefully they get it by Wednesday. He hoped that all goes well at the Frolic.

Keith had received something in the mail about a Senior Frolic for the graduating class of 2005, his daughter’s class.

The notice said this was “an ongoing tradition in their community to provide a safe supervised place for the seniors to go after the graduation ceremony.” The notice went on to describe more fun, food, bowling, dancing and a “teen friendly Casino” using play money, allowing the graduates to win and play for prizes, until 3 am or later. The announcement said, “Your support in the way of “cash” or “prizes” is what makes this even a success, year after year” and thanked the family member of the students, for their “generous donation.”

Today, Keith emailed the woman who’s name appeared on this announcement. He told her he would like to contribute to the Senior Frolic this year and said his daughter, (her name) will be graduating this year.

Got a letter from Keith’s work saying they received the modification on the Income Withholding Order and processed the change.

The order was delivered to Keith’s ex’s PO Box today, April Fools Day at 744am.

Sent copy of the new court order to the ex.

I KNOW Keith was nervous, but he did good!

Judge ordered: “WAGE ASSIGNMENT IS QUASHED EFFECTIVE 6/18/05 AND ONGOING SUPPORT IS SET AT ZERO AS OF THAT DATE. ARREARS, AS OF THIS DATE IS ZERO.”

Judge even signed an Amended Order/Notice to Withhold Income for Child Support. $560.00 per month TERMINATES ON 6/18/05. $0.00 per month past-due child support arrears 12 weeks or greater.

Faxed the new order to Keith’s work as well.

The oldest daughter wrote her dad at 1312. It was in response to his email to her yesterday at 1425. She told him, “You’re right, Except that you left out (oldest sons name). p.s. remind your NON-MEDDLING, paranoid pat her emails will NEVER be read.” About a half hour later she wrote her dad again, telling him, “Oh, now that I think about it…I won’t read your emails either. For obvious reasons. If you want to talk to me, you can call me directly.”

LMAO! Does she mean from today on? Because I sent her one last night at 2342, and lets not forget, she READ the one I sent her yesterday afternoon. LOL Just so CRAZY…. it’s funny how these ‘women’ think they are badasses writing Keith, and then telling him they won’t read/respond to his emails. OR they bring me into their bullshit and get pissed off when I respond. They REALLY don’t know me. LOL Many things I can let it go, but some times, the constant badger from these people, gets to be too much.

The email I wrote her last was, I was reminding HER, “For the record, you brought me into it, when you attacked me in an email to your dad. You just couldn’t leave me out of your troubles.

Oh no, the money issue was not wearing on me at all. If it had been, I would have taken you to small claims court to recoup it, if I was that kind of person. Being that you are my husbands daughter, and you needed help, I was happy to have been able to help you. I suppose I will receive the money when I am looking at it.

Yes, it was wrong for me to assume I was invited to your wedding, my apologies. When you invited my kids by saying you hope they can make it to your wedding as well, I didn’t know at the time that I was excluded. You were always very personable towards me whenever we were in the same place at the same time. Thank you for pointing out the error of my thinking.

Are you the entire (my married name) family spokeswoman now? You speak for all (my married name)’s? I will keep that in mind, LOL

Paranoid personalities? Hmmmm, last time I saw you was at (a niece’s) wedding, and I don’t even remember when before that. Maybe (bro in law and mother in law’s) funerals? Or at a party at (oldest stepson’s)? Doesn’t matter, it had been a long time. I interact with you so infrequently, it’s hilarious that you make such a judgment call. I can count on one hand how many times I have interacted with you. As a matter of fact, no, I don’t have copies of letters I supposedly wrote to numerous family members. Actually, I have no idea what you are talking about. Lets see, I wrote you and (oldest stepson) one time, I didn’t keep a copy of it, I wrote (sis in law) one letter, but I didn’t keep a copy of it, do you have a copy of it? If so, could you mail me a copy of it please so I can say you right. that I do have a copy? The only one I know who wrote a letter to anyone, then sent copies to numerous family members, was (sis in law) and the one she wrote (other bro in law) after (younger bro in law) passed away. That letter too, has gone off to the landfill. Oh, and you did mention that (the ex wife) wrote numerous family members last September, but other than that, that’s about all I know. Recorded phone conversations? I am not sure what you are getting at here. There was a recorder on our phone, yes. Your dad was advised to do that, after he was almost arrested for kidnapping. The recorder was put on just to record the conversations between him and (ex wife) and (ex wife) and I. I really don’t know how that pertains to you or how that affects your life, or what it has to do with you though. You weren’t calling and hadn’t called your dad during these years, so why meddle and overstep into something you aren’t/weren’t a part of?

I don’t know why you think I would think that just because we have the same last name, it makes us family. As far as I’m concerned, and the way I have always referred to you as, is you are ” my husband’s oldest daughter.” Nothing more, nothing less. I will have to remember your comment though, so that I can tell my son it, the next time he asks if he can see you or talk to you as you are absolutely right, just because you have the same last name, and he too is your half brother, just like (middle stepson), it still doesn’t make you family.

May you have a long lasting marriage…. Pat”

Ex received letter that Keith wrote the court. It was delivered today at 8:52am today.

OMG, this email is HILARIOUS! She writes, at 8:30am, ” yes, I will be the thin (122 pounds) sexy woman at court, looking good with my low cute blouse in red, and a short skirt showing off my fine legs and rear end.

I will be the hottest looking woman in the courtroom, it won’t be hard to find me. Can’t wait to see the look in your eyes when you catch your breath at how awesome I look and I have two almost grown children, WOW- see you there.

Judge won’t care what comes out of your mouth why are you trying so hard.

84 days till the end of this.”

Keith and I got a GREAT laugh at this one! THIS was one of her funniest emails!

WTH? Oldest stepdaughter writes her dad at 10:38. She says stuff in response to other things he wrote in his previous email that I didn’t put on the blog, but her last paragraph she writes, “I have unsettled emotions about all of this, just as I have an unsettled feeling that it could be THE MEDDLING-OVERSTEPPING-Pat responding to my emails, and not you. I gotta go. Love YOU dad,”

Well, well, well…..wonder where she heard THIS line before…. Keith was not happy at all, plus he was home sick. He wasn’t going to let it slide though, he was sick of this bullshit. At 11:26, he emailed her back, saying, (in part), “… I don’t appreciate anything you said about Pat, accusing her of responding to your emails, it has been ME. Pat wrote you ONE letter nearly 10 years and that was IT. I had pneumonia at the time. She has seen you about as much as I have over the last 11 years, and always commented on how personable you and (her brother) were. Pat is the one that took a $300.00 loan off her credit card, years ago, to give to YOU, with the understanding that you would pay her back, and you never did. Guess you forgot about that. She did this against MY wishes. So don’t blame HER for the problems between Me and you, me and (his oldest son) and Me and (middle kids.). Talk about MEDDLING-OVERSTEPPING, why the hell am I getting SHIT from YOU regarding my relationship with (middle kids) in the FIRST PLACE?…Don’t GIVE me any shit concerning my relationship with (middle kids) when you ADMITTEDLY have neglected them, and don’t use ME as your crutch as to WHY you have neglected them. What? Did you all of a sudden get a “sisterly instinct” where (middle kids) are concerned, after neglecting them for so long? Is THAT why you contact me? Because (EX WIFE) wrote you? Yes, I HAVE spoken to them when I could, when I was allowed to, and I don’t have to answer to YOU about my relationship or lack thereof with (middle kids)….If you don’t believe I wrote any of this, call me, and I will tell you all this again. Dad”

At 11:30 he responded to another little jab his daughter said. She had written yesterday, “Have you ever asked (middle kids) why they don’t want to visit/talk with you? Or it just assumed by you it’s all (ex wife’s) fault?” Keith responded with, ” Assumed? I don’t have to assume anything. I KNOW IT, I LIVED IT, Were you there? Where were you? I did the best I could with what I was ALLOWED to have. Dad”

In her response at 12:14, his daughter wrote, “I don’t remember that Pat gave me $300.00 11 years ago, but if you’d like me to pay her back now, I’d be happy to. I’m sorry that I didn’t know/remember that she let me borrow money….She has meddled into alot of your relationship…even with your sister, my auntie (Keith’s sisters name). Oh, believe me, I don’t blame Pat for YOUR problems with us, in the end, you are to blame. It’s weird that ALL of your kids have the same feelings/hurt. Well, except for Thomas and Sara.”

WHY in God’s name am I thrown in her email to her dad?? I haven’t seen this girl in awhile, how am I meddling in anything? CLEARLY she’s listened to Keith’s ex and THEIR daughter. GEEZUS….I can stay in my room and do nothing and get accused of crap like this.

At 1425, Keith responded back to her. He told his oldest daughter that he “really doesn’t need a go between between him and his middle kids, thanks though. They are grown adults, if they want to contact me, they can. Like I siad in previous emails, you have no idea what has happened, except from one side. Last I knew it took two and communication to have a relationship. You, (middle son, and middle daughter) condemn me for not being there for you, even though I have made an effort, but I don’t see you three making much of an effort, but again, you 3 blame me and my wife for the hurt feelings, experiences you have and have had, it’s always easier for you 3to place blame elsewhere and on someone else, without considering what part any of YOU played in the breakdown of the relationship, so fine, no more emails? Ok then, Dad”

I emailed his daughter. I asked Keith if I could and he said yes, so at 1240pm, I sent off an email. In it, I wrote, “Hello (oldest daughter’s name), It goes without saying that Thomas, Sarah (with an H) and I will not be attending your wedding. Unfortunately, they have already been told about it. Keep the money you borrowed from me years ago. I was there when you needed it, and we have experienced the same when we needed to borrow money, family was there for us. You have a wedding to plan, and I am sure you need it more. So you think I have meddled in “alot” of your dad’s relationships, huh? News to me. I don’t even know what I did your “auntie” (Keith’s sisters name), but thank you for letting me know she is upset with me about something I know nothing about. Maybe you can have her email me or call so we can discuss it. That would be greatly appreciated, thanks. What “other” relationships have I meddled in? I mean, if you are going to accuse me of this, you should expound on it. Leave my children out of your ‘whatever’ it is, with your dad. Thank you. Pat”

She wrote me back at 555pm. She said, “Apparently, you DON’T meddle…what are you doing right now? HILARIOUS!!! Please never EVER send me another email. They won’t be read. You’re right I am planning a wedding, however you are wrong in your thinking I need the 300.00 you “lent” me 11 years ago. I’m sooooooo sorry that this has been “wearing” on you. You will receive a money order asap. I’ve never wanted anything to do with you for years & years…why would you ASSUME that you would be invited to my wedding? LOL You make ALL of us sick to our stomachs. With all of your paranoid personalities, I’m sure you that you have copies of letters you’ve sent to numerous family members…including auntie (sis in laws name) or perhaps the taped conversations. But you don’t remember??? LOL Pat, just because we have the same last names does not make us family.”

WTH? LOL…MY GOD.

Keith’s oldest daughter is around 33 years of age. His other two kids are nearly 21 and 18 years old. His daughter wrote him back at 2219, basically reiterating what she’s said in previous emails, as if he is stupid, and at the end, she says, “p.s. Anymore contact between you and I … will not be done thru emails on my part.”

Gee, who ELSE does that sound like?? Seems his oldest daughter is listening to and siding with his ex wife, who is NOT this girls mother.

I am REALLY sick of all their bullshit. This girl comes out of left field and starts throwing barbs and accusations at Keith and I. He’s sick of it as well.