~This Is My World~

Keith received an email from the ex this morning at 7:14am. She said in part, “Why don’t you practice on your wife and tell her to leave me alone and to be nice to your kids so that they will want to visit.”

He told her in his email to her at 8:30am that I have nothing to do with this but of course, he she goes again, putting me in the mix, just like she does the kids.

In a letter I wrote to Anthony, dated 2/7, I reminded him of the child support provisions from July 31, 1995 about paying his share of these expenses.

I also added that this letter is the last letter I will send him regarding this outstanding balance, that his cooperation would be greatly appreciated. It’s a new year which means new deductible will have to be met and new out of pocket expenses will be incurred, that it would be beneficial to him and our daughter to get the balance, (long overdue balance) to zero.

I didn’t put this letter in the mail until 2/11 and he received it at his home today, 2/12.

We go to Court on March 25, CCW. I am required to attend. I will be there, I didn’t follow through a few years back, but it’s been 7 years. It’s about time.

This lady, MAN, she can tell Keith that I can “butt out” and she can say that she doesn’t want me writing or calling the kids, or be around her kids, but she thinks she can talk about me and mention me EVERY GD time she writes Keith. What is her DEAL?

January 27th, today, she writes Keith and says that she “has not caused friction between him and the kids,” that HE “has managed over the the course of 12 years to do this” with his actions, “your wife’s actions and just plain not listening to who or what your children are.”

SHE wouldn’t let him talk to his kids about anything, SHE was their mouth piece, already putting it in their heads that he wouldn’t listen to them so SHE had to speak for them. When she DID allow them to speak to him, they would parrot what she said, mostly their daughter would, and when it came to just talking with them about what was going on, Nothing was going on and nothing was new. He’d hear from his EX at times what was happening, of course bringing up the prices of things they are involved with, and if he would ask the kids about something she said, she would accuse him of invading their privacy, or being nosey, or whatever. INSANE!

They are reviewing my order for an increase in support. They ask me to fill out the attached Financial Statement (simplified) and return it within 2 weeks if I am interested.

Well, of COURSE I will. It’s been since July 1995.

I also enclosed a letter stating that Anthony is court ordered to pay one half of all uncovered medical expenses as part of Child Support. I stated he paid $110.01 towards past due expenses, but still carrying a balance of $274.64 as of 12/31/01.

I requested that the Court impose an amount due from Anthony, to have this balance paid in full and to continue that amount every month thereafter as it appears that Anthony will not reimburse these expenses willingly.

I returned the financial Statement and letter on Jan. 18th. CSSD received it today.

Earlier today, I sent her. via USPS, a Winnie the Pooh and Piglet card on 1-3-02. Piglet and Winnie were hugging each other and it said, “thoughts of someone nice are the smiliest kind of thoughts.”

I wrote:

” Dear L-

Happy New Year!! I just wanted to take this time to thank you for the presents you sent to Thomas, Sarah and I this Christmas.

Your kindness and thoughtfullness mean a great deal to us.

I hope you have a great year full of great times, lots of laughter and tons of love!!

Take care and we love you lots!!

P~ and kids.

In this same card, I wrote a note to the Ex and stepson. I wrote,

” J & N,

Thank you very much for your part in helping L get my kids and I Christmas presents. Your kindness is greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,

P~”

January 19th- received a letter from the kids. Postmarked 1-16-01. Addressed in J’s writing to “Richard & family”. From L, she wrote thanking Keith(Dad) for the gifts he sent. She “enjoyed the candy, camra, cotton candy and the $70 at JCP’s.” She bought 2 pairs of pants and a sweater.” To Sarah and Thomas, she thanked them for the nail polish and the green lipstick. She said it turns green on her lips. I think it was supposed to turn another color, LOL. ANYWAY, she thanked them for the clips. To me, she thanked me for everything and the gift certificate to JCP. She signed the note, “Love Always, L”

From N- he wrote “Dad, Thank you for $170.00 at JCP” and that he bought 2 pairs of shoes which he really needed and a pair of pants. He also thanked his dad for the FLOOZ money and he got several CD’s with it. He said, “Thank you very much Love N”

2-13-01- sent the kids a package. A notice was left for them on 2-15 at 1:30pm. It was delivered on 2-16 at 3:38.

4-12-01- sent the kids a package. It was delivered on 4-16 at 3:24.

6-15-01- On 6-13-01- we bought L the weblink wireless 2 way device-Talkabout T900 that she requested for Christmas 2000 ($159+tax= $172.79). Mailed it today, insured.

6-17-01- notice was left for the present at 10:20 am.

6-18-01- an attempt to deliver L’s birthday present was made, today, on her birthday at 2:55pm but a notice was left again.

6-20-01- L’s package was delivered at 11:22 am

10-19-01- received a copy of an auto insurance bill with 2 cars listed. One is for N. ($134.63)

10-22-01-sent N a money order for $45- 1/3 of his auto insurance.

10-25-01- letter with N’s insurance payment was delivered at 2:32 pm.

10-30-01-Sent kids package- Halloween candy, and a money order for N for the ACT Test expense. ($25).

11-3-01- package from 10-30 was delivered at 12:22 pm.

12-14-01- sent the kids their Christmas presents.

12-18-01- Presents delivered at 1:13pm

12-31-01- received package from L. It contained our Christmas presents. The package was postmarked, 12-27-01. It was addressed by L, to “Dad and Family D”. it contained 2 hats, 2 pics of L, 1 pic of N, 5 belt buckles, 2-1966-67 medals, and a bag of cookies. It also contained a package of army men “irresistible attack” for Keith, “Infantry” for Thomas, and hair ties and clips for Sarah. L’s card read, “Sorry it’s late, Happy B-day May your holiday be merry and bright. L Love ya”

Spring-1 week- Got the kids from 4/2-4/6- had to share time with ex’s mom. She got the kids from 3/31 and again from 4/6-4/7

Summer- 5 weeks– with (Son)

3 weeks and 4 days– with (Daughter)* https://mspisceangal2020.wordpress.com/2001/08/27/summer-visitation-2001/

last time he saw his son.

Winter Break- 2 weeks DENIED- Kids vacationed with their grandmother and their mother in San Diego. They returned home 1/5. their mother was in town from 12/29.

Ex emails at 904am telling Keith that their “children, (Son) and (Daughter), based on their previous numerous visits for the past 8 1/2 years, and because you are working are refusing to visit you for the mandatory required visit of Winter 2001.” SURE, blame it on the kids.

Then she tells him, “I never stated I would cause a conflict if you tried to get the kids from the San Diego airport. I was referring to the kids.” Really? Because in her email yesterday, she said that if he showed up at the airport to get the kids she would pick a fight with him.

The kids are now 17 and 14. Ex tells Keith in this email, “In the meantime I am going to California, and the kids are going with me. If they decide while we are here that they would like to see you or your family, I will make arrangements to do so. Until then I am sorry it has come to this and hope you find peace to let our children make their own decision about which parent to live with, which parent they want to spend time with, when they want to spend time with that parent, and any other decision regarding parenting.” The kids going with her has ALWAYS been her MO. She just throws a lot of smoke and mirrors up to “play” like she’s “Trying.”

OF course, she can’t write an email without mentioning me. She goes on to say, “One other thing, I will get a restraining order to keep your wife away from me and the kids. This based on her initiating harassment, causing conflict and for the protection of the kids. I feel she is capable of hurting (Son) and (daughter) and has proven so in the past.”

LMAO!! WHAT A CROCK, THIS from the woman who tells me she didn’t take her meds one day and that she was going to be on MY door step and I had better be afraid and that she was going to continue to threaten me until every inch of my body was shaking. UM, sounds like SHE is capable of hurting her kids, and she CONTINUES to hurt them by continually blocking them from seeing their dad, and throw false accusations towards him and I and telling the kids how she feels about him and I.

She ends this email with, “Bring it on was your response from a previous email. I so agree. Last time you brought it on you chickened out and lost. The kids will loose on the whole thing. You can waste everyone’s time in a court room with your accusations and I will walk away still being the custodial parent, and I will get more child support and a parenting plan that works for the kids. Be care what you wish for, you might just get it.”

The ex seems to think that EOB’s that say THIS IS NOT A BILL, is actually a bill and she want’s HALF, BY GOD! Keith asked her, “What is HALF of ZERO?” The claim hasn’t been processed through the insurance companies, but because SHE starts paying on the bills before they are processed through the insurance, she wants half of what she pays as her agreement to the provider. CRAZY, huh? That’s not how it works in the real world.

She didn’t like Keith’s response, so at 11:40am she whips off an email, accusing him of losing his memory as well as his sanity.

Her last two sentences she writes, “Get a hobby and get off of me. Find something productive to do like taking care of your special family.”

SUCH a HATER she is, and so evil.

At 7:35pm she writes again, accusing me of writing one set of e-mails and him writing the other. She goes on and on about the visitation that was to happen at Christmas, when Keith agreed to the 1 week visitation and the other week the kids are with her mother, and how the kids ALLEGEDLY said that there was no point in them coming if he has to work. She tells him, “Quit fighting me, in fact, leave me alone.” Something she also wrote was, “I was trying to work out a compromise between you and the kids. It doesn’t matter now because the kids said that they did want to do that arrangement either.” THEY DID WANT TO DO THAT ARRANGEMENT, but SHE seemed to have put the KIBOSH on it.

Keith wrote her back at 9:03pm, documenting that he will not be getting the kids as court ordered for Christmas. He told her that she KNEW in July that this was what was going to happen and she she still strung him along and agreed to a proposed plan in November.

He documented that the kids were staying him, but then she turned around planned HIS court ordered visitation with HER and her family in San Diego. She accused him of ruining her vacation plans because now she has to “drag” the kids with her, but then she tells him that if he insists on seeing the kids during the week they are in CA, during HIS court ordered visitation, she will leave them at their home and if that wasn’t bad enough, she told him, “If you show up to the airport, I will pick a fight with you!”

OH, but she says she’s never denied him visitation. What a crock.

She had also told Keith that she would be taking him back to court because she wants college money and an increase in support, insurance money for the car she bought her son who has no job, believing she would get all this because her “situation” has changed since she is now a single parent with one income.”

WELL, APPARENTLY, this is not exactly true. Legally, if Keith did not agree to pay tuition in the original judgment or in any subsequent modifications, it won’t happen, that the types of support she THINKS she will get, will only happen if Keith agrees…and he doesn’t.