Author: Patricia

Received a letter from 5/3/2011, from the CSSD stating their records show Sarah will be “emancipated on 8/1/2011. They said that if Sarah was not attending high school currently, to let them know the last date she attended high school, and if she is CURRENTLY attending a “full time accredited high school program” to provide that information. They also wanted to know when the anticipated graduation date would be. (June 2011)

Filled out that form and returned it today.

I resent the letter to Anthony that he refused. I added another note to the original. I told him not to have his carrier cover for him. There was nothing for him to sign so this should not have been stamped UNCLAIMED and it should not have been sent through the CFS aka Central Forwarding System. The reason the Post office was unable to forward it was because he hasn’t moved therefore there is not change of address (forwarding order) on file. I told him he must have forgotten that I was married to a mailman and am currently dating a mailman. 😉

I wrote Anthony a letter postmarked 9/18/10. I was just sending him pics of Sarah with a few of his family members that she was able to meet. I told him that she has been interested in meeting his side of the family for quite sometime and that thanks to social media, Facebook, we were able to find one of his sisters, her daughter and several others.

I let him know that she was able to meet his sister and her daughters in February, of this year and just last weekend she was able to meet more Aunts and cousins. She was enjoying meeting her family.

I also enclosed a pic of Sarah and her boyfriend, telling him they have been dating for over a year.

I got it back today 10/9/10, checked unclaimed. say WHAT?

I talked to Kai about this and he said, ” The letter was refused. At some point, Anthony handed the letter back to the carrier and said he refused it but didn’t want it documented as such. There is no signature required, so it should not have been stamped UNCLAIMED. Since it was put directly in the mailbox, it should not have gone through CFS (central forwarding system) because Anthony had not moved and there would not be a forwarding order on file.

I get tired of the games Anthony plays. I decided to do my own little investigation and when I did, I wrote DPSS on 9/1/10 with my findings. This letter was delivered TODAY.

I referenced his case number and I told DPSS who I was. I told them that he has been and continues to receive GR since Oct 2007.

I gave them Anthony’s address and provided a letter from his brother in law stating that the house IS Anthony’s and is being held in a trust until he dies, and that he has a TRUST account. I also provided an email from August from the County Assessors office giving the Owner of Record and the Special Name handling the Trust. The house is a 1 bedroom 1 bath house, a single family residence.

I also let them know that a woman also resides at Anthony’s house. Turns out, it’s his girlfriend, but that NONE of his sisters live with him.

I told DPSS there are two cars in his driveway, gave plates and descriptions and let them know that he also owns a boat, but I was unable to get the CF number.

I continue on with the fact that in April 2008, he went fishing and was caught fishing without a license, pled Guilty on June 28, 2005 and was fined $25.

It’s my belief that he is hiding assets and not being forthcoming in as to the reason why he needs GR.

Same Attorney from June 2009, filed a Notice of Motion again. AGAIN, requesting that Child Support drop to ZERO from $283 that was ordered in June 2008. Paper says “A material change in circumstances, justifies a modification.”

We went to Court 8/30/10. Anthony didn’t show up.

I tweeted a response to my former stepson. I wrote:

“S0 N D, you did your drive by post on FB to me, then you cowardly blocked me. There has been no contact with you since sometime between 2000 and 2001. Against my husbands wishes, your mother was notified by me of his passing, because I didn’t know know how to get a hold of you and your sister, since you both refused to have any contact with him for many years. After your sister telling my husband, “Why don’t you F*ck off” it really took all that I had not to even let you know, because I KNEW you didn’t care.

My husband and I had a son, who happens to be your half brother. He still wonders about you and your sister, but after your drive by post yesterday on FB and your sister blocking him on FB, when he friend requested her, he now sees what your dad experienced for may years, the shun, disrespect, and loathe. He wanted to email himself, but I told him to never mind, that you are going to do/say what you want, when you want and be a coward and block.

SO, do not ever think that you can just do or say what you want when you want about me, my son, because as I have stated before, I have NO PROBLEM, putting your bullshit and nonsense on BLAST….

hope 2010 brings you happiness and growth and wisdom. “

On FB, I noticed that Thomas’s half brother and their cousin were friends. I thought how nice it would be if Thomas could be friends with his siblings and other family on Keith’s side, and wrote on the cousins wall that Thomas had friend requested his half sister , but she instead blocked him, probably thinking it was me and that it was stupid.

My stepson responded with, “I wonder why she would think that??? Maybe…just maybe because of ignorant stuff like this.” Then he blocked me, LOL. I guess he thought his comment would be pulled when he blocked me. 😉

I responded to my former stepson with, “Don’t use (cousin’s) page to spread YOUR hate….I just stated fact, FACTS are not ignorant, ignorant is how YOU just responded…No one responded but you.”

I deleted this comment and the one about my son’s half sister.

My opinion…it is stupid. My son wonders about his siblings every now and then and he is innocent about all that happened between those two and my husband. WHY they hate my son, who knows, but he now couldn’t care less. He see’s them for the way they are and that’s ok.

At least now he (former stepson) has me/us blocked. WOO HOO!!

Got a message earlier that all my notes to the ex on Classmates were “hidden.” I don’t know if SHE did that or if Classmates did that, but they are all hidden.

What I found funny was that the ex also posted today that “Classmates is a public site-no privacy features. In an effort to protect my identity I have limited the information for public viewing. Please contact me by private e-mail.”

Yet, when checked, her “story” has where she lives, where she came from, what he city is like, what she does for a living, how she is active in her community, about her family.

Go figure.

What I noticed as well, amongst the nonsense, was a note written by the ex to her 2nd ex that she is apparently engaged to again. This note was written/dated June 29, 2008. She titled it “I was thinking about you” she goes on to write ” I am very much in love with you and have been for the last 30 years. I love living with you and being engaged for the last 2 years. You will always be first in my life.”

On another episode of Classmates Feud…. LOL…. SO, the ex responded to her one friend that commented on her stalking notes. She told this friend, “thanks for the support.”

I had read her note from yesterday about the things you see. I copy pasted it onto my notes and wrote: “Friends, the above was written by my husbands ex wife to her best friend. J (the ex’s name) started (or in my case, has decided to continue) her harassment and accusations against me on or around June 23, 2009, however I was just made aware of it June 30th, in two emails sent to me. I contact both my and her local police dept. regarding her continued harassment. I posted the “enough” and “Cease and Desist” letter on her classmates profile due to the fact that the two email addresses I have for her are no longer good. I also included her local pd in the email. She has since deleted the posts I sent her and the above was her response. As instructed to do so by the police dept, I will continue to “document, document, document” her harassment.

I have nothing to do with her and certainly do not stalk her. As requested before, if she or her friend B (M-U) (bestfriend’s name) or any of their friends from El Cajon Valley High contact you, please let me know asap. Thank you in advance for your help! Patricia”

Today, the ex wrote in her Classmates note section that “you see the strangest things happen when you are too nosey into others lives. B (her best friend) you were right- ha ha jealousy will rot your soul, along with guilt and envy. Looking forward to seeing you soon and toasting our victory.”