~This Is My World~

I wrote Anthony today regarding his arrears and to see if we can work out a deal or compromise to get his support paid off.

He’s currently at $29,321.21 after his latest payment, and he pays $15.00 towards these arrears, an agreement he made with DCSS, and he continues to get charged $150 interest per month, every month. $15.00 per month, and he didn’t pay Aprils payment. At this rate, it will never be paid.

I offered to settle up for $25,000. He can ask his brother in law to pay for it and then he can pay his brother in law back. I told him if he agreed to this, I would call DCSS and have them draw up papers saying that I settled the debt form nearly $5,000 LESS than what is owed and I would sign the papers to close the account once and for all. I told him to contact me if he has any questions . Kindest regards.

Sent this to Anthony this evening on Messenger at 18:28

RIP to my former stepdaughter Amanda’s (first) ex-husband. Prayers and condolences to his family.

Amanda has been remarried since way before her ex passed away. Seems she had been planning a wedding to this man in 2005 and she’s AKA this man’s last name, but then married another man in or around…I don’t even know when, it seems shortly thereafter.

Sad that this man passed away though.

I sent Anthony a message on Messenger today at 13:04.

“What is it exactly you are wanting me to be in agreement with you on? I know you didn’t think of whatever you’re wanting to do on your own…I realize someone put you up to it. I asked for an appointment because I don’t know what you’re asking for. The current about of child support you owe is $27,430.84 that’s what I found out today. So you can either call me, or I’ll just wait to get something in the mail regarding an appoint. My number is….. Patty”

Suddenly, come to notice, “This person is unavailable on Messenger.” So he or someone else blocked me.

(FB message sent to stepdaughter at 11:43am)

“Hope all is well with you, L! This is a very pretty picture of you! two kids! what a blessing! Be well and stay happy! Patricia”

I wrote Anthony a letter on 7/24/11 and sent it on 7/25/11 . It was delivered to his house today, 7/26/11 at approx. 10:20am. I also enclosed 4 pics of Sarah.

In this letter I wrote, “Well, here it is, 8 days from August 1, which is Sarah’s 18th birthday. It’s really TOO bad and SO sad that you missed out on 18 years of her life, because YOU, Anthony, missed out on watching a beautiful baby grow into a wonderful, lovely, young lady.

The only time you will hear from me, here on out, is if the District Attorney sends me something that I have to respond to, and maybe NOT even then. I will ALWAYS remember when you threatened to take Sarah from me when she was a baby and “move out of the country to Mexico” (as you put it). I will ALWAYS remember how you never acknowledged her birthday, never a phone call, never a card, never a letter written in YOUR own writing to her, nothing. I will ALWAYS remember how you tried to claim her on your income tax for the year 2003. I will ALWAYS remember at court in 2008, you REQUESTING to be put in jail because you thought it would erase your past due arrearages. and I REALLY will never forget how you declared under penalty of perjury, in your 2008 Order to Show Cause that YOU filed, that you needed your license reinstated so that you could, “Visit my child…” ( as you put it) and yet you NEVER did, you NEVER did. YOU were told at that time, by the attorney at court that you really need to make arrangements to see her because at that time, she was nearly 16 and able to speak before the court on her own, but you didn’t listen to the attorney. You were told PLENTY of times over the years by ME that even though you have no rights of reasonable visitation, I would be willing to work something out with you so you COULD “visit your child” but you NEVER took me up on that. You missed out on her 5th grade promotion, her 8th grade promotion, her recent 12th grade graduation from high school.

The District Attorney will continue to collect child support arrearages from you, until you die basically because I will NEVER close the account. I will advise Sarah on how to handle these court orders, since she will be 18 and I will seek legal advice on how to collect your share of uncovered medical expenses.

As of Nov. 30, 2010 you owed me $1439.51 in uncovered medical expenses. You owe me an additional $45 from the attached receipts dating from Feb. 4, 2011 ($15), April 25, 2011 ($15) and from July 23, 2011 ($15) fir a total NOW due of of $1484.51 for YOUR share of uncovered medical expenses from June 2006 to present. This will change of course, if she has to go to the doctors anytime in the next 8 days.

All I hope is that Sarah will be able to continue seeing her cousins and aunts on YOUR side that she missed out on all these years. Patricia”

Received a letter from 5/3/2011, from the CSSD stating their records show Sarah will be “emancipated on 8/1/2011. They said that if Sarah was not attending high school currently, to let them know the last date she attended high school, and if she is CURRENTLY attending a “full time accredited high school program” to provide that information. They also wanted to know when the anticipated graduation date would be. (June 2011)

Filled out that form and returned it today.

I resent the letter to Anthony that he refused. I added another note to the original. I told him not to have his carrier cover for him. There was nothing for him to sign so this should not have been stamped UNCLAIMED and it should not have been sent through the CFS aka Central Forwarding System. The reason the Post office was unable to forward it was because he hasn’t moved therefore there is not change of address (forwarding order) on file. I told him he must have forgotten that I was married to a mailman and am currently dating a mailman. 😉

I wrote Anthony a letter postmarked 9/18/10. I was just sending him pics of Sarah with a few of his family members that she was able to meet. I told him that she has been interested in meeting his side of the family for quite sometime and that thanks to social media, Facebook, we were able to find one of his sisters, her daughter and several others.

I let him know that she was able to meet his sister and her daughters in February, of this year and just last weekend she was able to meet more Aunts and cousins. She was enjoying meeting her family.

I also enclosed a pic of Sarah and her boyfriend, telling him they have been dating for over a year.

I got it back today 10/9/10, checked unclaimed. say WHAT?

I talked to Kai about this and he said, ” The letter was refused. At some point, Anthony handed the letter back to the carrier and said he refused it but didn’t want it documented as such. There is no signature required, so it should not have been stamped UNCLAIMED. Since it was put directly in the mailbox, it should not have gone through CFS (central forwarding system) because Anthony had not moved and there would not be a forwarding order on file.

I get tired of the games Anthony plays. I decided to do my own little investigation and when I did, I wrote DPSS on 9/1/10 with my findings. This letter was delivered TODAY.

I referenced his case number and I told DPSS who I was. I told them that he has been and continues to receive GR since Oct 2007.

I gave them Anthony’s address and provided a letter from his brother in law stating that the house IS Anthony’s and is being held in a trust until he dies, and that he has a TRUST account. I also provided an email from August from the County Assessors office giving the Owner of Record and the Special Name handling the Trust. The house is a 1 bedroom 1 bath house, a single family residence.

I also let them know that a woman also resides at Anthony’s house. Turns out, it’s his girlfriend, but that NONE of his sisters live with him.

I told DPSS there are two cars in his driveway, gave plates and descriptions and let them know that he also owns a boat, but I was unable to get the CF number.

I continue on with the fact that in April 2008, he went fishing and was caught fishing without a license, pled Guilty on June 28, 2005 and was fined $25.

It’s my belief that he is hiding assets and not being forthcoming in as to the reason why he needs GR.