~This Is My World~

OH, this lady is funny!! She sent Keith another email at 7:09am. She writes: “And what goes on in your house does concern me if it effects my kids just like you tell me.”

UM…not when HER kids aren’t here. She is SO MUCH about control. I think that’s what her issue is. She tries to control our house and it’s not happening. She controls her mother and probably her sister and her family as well, but she doesn’t control OUR house, not by ANY stretch of her imagination. That’s HILARIOUS!

She continues to tell him about money situations and says, “Your attitude about this whole school thing stinks.”

She ends this email writing, “Why haven’t you called me back?? Why haven’t you called the kids??? Are you still living at the same address??Are you still at home?? Are you ill?? Are you in a bad situation? Are you being held hostage or prison in your own home?? LOL”

THIS is one of the MANY reasons Keith doesn’t call her, and it’s one of the MANY reasons I call her “Spawn.” She’s evil. And she works with the public. Can you IMAGINE!?

Ex is not happy…are we shocked? HA! Are we surprised? HA! ANYWAY… She apparently can’t figure out WHY Keith just won’t fork over any money to her based on her word. She writes, “Why for the 5th time do you need written proof before agreeing to help out? Don’t you believe me?” IS SHE SERIOUS!?

She considers his asking questions about this “plan” as “obstacles you throw out before agreeing.” She can blame herself for that. Then she writes, “It does not say anywhere in any paperwork whether court ordered or not that you have to been given proof to pay for the kids. You and I are not required to provide written documentation of spending. Where do you get this from?” WAIT, isn’t this what child support is for? Doesn’t child support calculate somewhat the extra-curricular activities of the kids? AND, Well, there is THIS: https://www.adamlillylaw.com/faqs/2017/10/20/does-each-parent-have-to-pay-for-half-of-extracurricular-activities

She then goes on blathering on and on, and adds, “Matters regarding the kids are not set aside by you and your family to be handled when they are convenient to you. Do you do that with the kids that live with you? Do you require proof every time they want something? Do you have to take the time to review the issue about purchasing a toy before giving them the money? Do you tell them that when it is convenient to you then they can buy something? Of course not. But why are you doing that to (Son) and (Daughter)?? What do you stall when it comes to money for their purchases? Why do you require proof before agreeing? Because you treat them differently than those children you live with. Now is that fair??”

She is SO JEALOUS. She is so jealous that there are times we can buy our kids a toy they may want because I do work. I work because my husband has to pay support, and I love working and helping my husband out. OUR kids are almost 8 and 4. HER kids are 17 and 13, BIG difference. PLUS, I don’t LIE to Keith about the cost of things and OUR kids know the word NO, and the phrase, “we don’t have the money right now.”

CRAZY. Just CRAZY how she compares the kids.

Keith responded to her email yesterday. He told her, “You called me twice and I answered the call with an e-mail both times. EVERYTHING that leaves this house is from me. QUIT BERATING MY WIFE!…When I receive something in writing as to the cost of the course, then I will be more than happy to contribute to the cost.” He asked other questions, especially about “finance, transportation and boarding” that she asked about.

EX emailed Keith at 5:13pm. The subject says “The Kids.” It was only about 1 of their kids, their son, BUT, she has to get her dig in about me first. She writes, “The care of the kids is really between you and I and has nothing to do with your wife at all. So I would appreciate being able to talk with you personally and not having to go through your wife.” Now that THAT is out of the way… LOL

She tells Keith that their son has decided to take a summer session at The Art Institute. She says how long it will be, 3 days, July 19,20, 21. Gives him prices for these 3 days and says that “the money must be there by June 15, 2001….6 days away.

She asks if he is willing to help with transportation, finance and boarding, and she needs to know if Keith is going to contribute some money towards the cost for the 3 days by Monday June 11, 2001, 2 days away.

He NEVER takes her word about money. EVER. She has lied to him over and over again, that if she wants money, she better give him SOME KIND of proof, or give him the information to call so he can find out for himself.

No Info for another source, No Money.

Voicemail message left at 6 pm tonight from the ex.

” Hi Keith, this is J, it’s 6 o’clock on, um, Wednesday night. Can you give me a call back, I appreciate it. Bye.”

Voicemail message at 6:35 pm today-

“this is J- it’s 635 on Tuesday, June 5th. I would like to a call back please, Keith, I’d like to talk to you about a couple of things. If you get this message within a reasonable time frame, you can call me up until 9:30pm tonight. If not, I will continue to call you every day until I get a hold of you.”

WOW…. LOL

The ex emailed earlier, at 8:20pm. Once again she accuses us of “attacking the kids verbally” last Summer. She wrote, “You don’t care about unpleasantness as proven by your out rage at them personally, attacking them verbally with your wife while they visited.” She’s referencing this time: https://mspisceangal2020.wordpress.com/2000/08/

In this email she also asked, “Where does it say that needed your permission to move, or for that matter the courts permission to move? I consulted with an attorney and was told that I had to give 30 days written notice and I did I actually gave you 3 months verbal notice that I was moving. did you even mention or try to tell me not to go. ” Well…here is the law on that….https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/child-custody-and-relocation-laws-california.html#:~:text=Under%20California%20law%2C%20a%20parent%20must%20provide%20written,work%20out%20a%20new%20custody%20or%20visitation%20agreement. According to Keith, she had to go before the Grand Jury in the “Westbrook Case” in San Diego and she told him if anything happened to her, he was to take the kids. Then, She told him in early February 1993 that she was moving to WA and getting married on the way. THAT was his notice. She left late February as she and her new husband stopped in Las Vegas on the way to WA to get married around the 20th. THAT was his notice.

Between April 4th and April 30th, I sent two more letters. More of the same.

Today, May 2nd, I sent Anthony copies of school work that we got for last week and a softball picture of her.

I also added something else. “You know, I have been doing some thinking lately and as of now, I think it is best I no longer contact you about her. It is OBVIOUS that you have no desire to contact, see or know about your daughter. This is something I have known for 7 years now, (almost 8 years) but always held out home, dumb, I know.

You have your wife and her kids to keep you busy, and my husband has been a WONDERFUL daddy to Sarah for 7 years now, and for now, this is all Sarah needs to know.

In time, I am sure I will have to tell her about you, but I also think at this time, is NOT a good time.

I am sure you and your wife and her kids are REJOICING, not to mention your sister and for as sad as that is…it is your decision to stay away and My decision and RIGHT as my daughters mother to protect her and her feelings and emotional well being.

The only think you will receive from me in the future will be STRICTLY pertaining to Court ordered things…Uncovered medical expenses, receipts, that sort of thing, but any thing else will no longer be told yo you or shared with you!

Take care, God bless and have a great life. Patty”

(email to stepdaughter at 1:03pm)

“Hello Miss L,

well, I was doing laundry the other day and found your beach towel. Do you want us to mail it or just leave it here for you if you come out this summer?

hope you are having a good day! talk to ya later.

P~

Hakuna Matata”

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At 6:56 pm, I emailed her again and wrote:

“Hi L,

It is a winnie the pooh and piglet towel. we thought for sure it was yours. ok, take care. Maybe see ya on later.

P~

Hakuna Matata”

In her email to me at 12:50pm, on 4/10/01, J said that I would have to pay HER expenses of $1198.00.

I emailed her today at 11:44 am. I wrote,
” J- just so you know, I did some checking around and actually, since you would be the defendant, it sems that I would have to file a case “where the defendant resides,” which means I would be asking for all these other expenses on top of the $209.50. Just thought I would give you a little heads up on what the plan may be.

Cordially,
Patricia”