January 11, 2000

Here we go, getting accused of impersonating her again. GEEZUS, that is something neither of us aspire to. Is this a narcissistic trait?

At 1148am she emailed Keith and said that the preferred airline told her that SHE was the one that called them and got some discount for the kids. ALL kinds of crazy spewage.

Then she writes, “just like Pat told (her daughter) later she can read the books when she is older and can realize the stuff your wife has started unnecessarily….You can tell your wife to start it up when the kids are ready to leave and are there. Just like usual. Love (ex’s name)”

HUH? LOL

Keith wrote her back later in the day telling her that we got a fax today from the airlines themselves stating that on January 9th I had called into the airlines to request extra time and that the agent assumed in ERROR that she was speaking to the ex. The fax went on to say that I took the MCO’s to LAX ticket counter and paid for both tickets (for the kids visit) on Jan 10th.

The ex emailed back and said that Keith wasn’t being very pleasant “about the proof I have shown you.” what proof? her word?? LMAO…She said “I did call this morning and they did say that Mrs. (her last name) asked for a extension and that I had the MCO’s. Maybe they misunderstood your wife as me. Who knows.” Say WHAT? That’s exactly what they did, bitch.

Keith wrote her back.

“Ex’s name,

I am NOT being PLEASANT about the proof YOU have shown ME? You have shown me NOTHING except HARASSMENT, FALSE ACCUSATIONS, NAME CALLING, DISPARAGING COMMENTS. I know all about your phone call to the airlines this morning and I can really care less about it. The fact is, after your phone call, you IMMEDIATELY turned around and pointed your ALMIGHTY ACCUSATORY (her name) FINGER at us, AGAIN, accusing us of wrong doing and this time it is thru “IMPERSONATING YOU!” You think THAT is something we would be proud of? NOT HARDLY! Not to mention it is illegal to impersonate someone you are not. Besides, if this were the case, why haven’t you pressed charges against us like you said you would the LAST time you accused us of this VERY same thing? I will tell you why… because JUST like the LAST time, We have PROVEN YOU WRONG…AGAIN!

MAYBE they misunderstood my wife as you? MAYBE? There ain’t no MAYBE’S about it! They did misunderstand but you could care less about that! You AUTOMATICALLY POINT THAT ALMIGHTY FINGER and say, “UH… impersonations!” just like always, ALWAYS accusing us of illegal actions and wrong doings. ME and maybe about a handful of other people who were at Dales house on Sunday know. GOD himself knows. “YOUR TONGUE PLOTS DESTRUCTION, IT IS LIKE A SHARPENED RAZOR. YOU WHO PRACTICE DECEIT, YOU LOVE EVIL RATHER THAN GOOD FALSEHOOD RATHER THAN SPEAKING THE TRUTH, YOU LOVE EVERY HARMFUL WORD, O YOU DECEITFUL TONGUE.” PSALMS 51:2-4

Why am I so upset? Gee, I don’t know… maybe it is because you have NOTHING better to do than HARASS me and my wife, falsely accuse us of illegal actions and wrong doings and TOTALLY defame our CHARACTER. Other than that…I am not upset at all. I look forward to the day that I can turn this all over to my attorney and have it brought before the judge.

Don’t tell me to relax. YOU BACK OFF! Go back into your little hiding hold you crawl into when your husband is around…like when the kids were here at Christmas, and LEAVE US ALONE!

You do not merely ask about anything. You ACCUSE and then when I can prove OTHERWIS you TRY another angle…another lie if you will (like telling me the kids are not earning miles…and accusing me and blaming me and TELLING me that I RUINED that benefit (her husband) was helping them out on” or you cry FOUL. this is your MO. the only person who believes your lies is YOURSELF!

The fact is…those MCO’s were received within the last couple of weeks. They were postmarked Dec. 29th. They were applied to the cost of the “Spring fare tickets.” You have been BENT OUT OF SHAPE ever since I told you that I would be applying them to the airfare and have attacked is like a RABID PIT BULL! The very LEAST I can say is that at least I told about them, that I had them and I was going to use them (on Jan.8th, 2000 at 555pm I told you this)…unlike you and your OVERCHARGING me in AIRFARE! Remember that? REMEMBER how MAD you got when you were called on the carpet for THAT? REMEMBER calling my home and cussing out my wife and BLAMING HER for your impending divorce and all the NASTY HARASSING E-mails you sent me following?

Keep it up (her name)- I will continue to prove you wrong EVERY STEP OF THE WAY….from EOB’S and REIMBURSEMENTS to anything you THROW my way. I have had it with you and your CONSTANT LIES and HARASSMENT, you wrote on 1-4-2000: “there is no reason why we shouldn’t be able to continue that relationship with each other…I thought it would be ok and it has never been ok, You make sure of that.” Remember that one?! TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR (her name), AND YOU WILL SEE WHY WE CAN’T AND WHY IT HAS NEVER BEEN OKAY!

GET OFF MY BACK AND LEAVE US ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” He later reminded her that on January 9th, he told her that there was an extension on the date to purchase the tickets.

A person can only take so much, and he was at his limit.

January 4, 2000

What did she write about me? It doesn’t make sense, as usual.

When they decided to have kids? I know what Keith told me, and it seems she’s trying to make it sound better than it was.

She was 6 months pregnant when they got married. Had it not been for that reason, he wouldn’t have married her. Then, she asked him to leave when their youngest, their daughter, was 2. Let’s not romanticize it, ok?

From the looks and sounds of it, she is the one continuing “that relationship” with Keith, combative, difficult, lying all the time, disrespectful. Nothing has changed.

She’s been married twice and about to divorce hubby #2. They were married maybe 7 years. She divorced Keith after maybe 5 years. What does that mean “and don’t have to visit their kids when it is over a fight and court papers”? She has a very sketchy visitation record at best, meaning, prior to 1998, between 1993 when she moved out of state until he took her to court for a set visitation, it was a constant battle for him to see his kids, before, during and after. So, it sounds to me like she KNEW and never admitted until this email, inadvertently I might add, that she withheld visitation.

She’s right, it’s never been ok SHE has made sure of that, and it was never ok prior to me.

I have posted many emails of her talking about me, not too many of other things she has said to him in the past, but if you could read those entire emails? You’d see how evil and rotten she has been to him. THAT is fact.

She says GOODBYE. So dramatic, LOL. It’s never been goodbye. Who is she kidding?

End Of The Year

Wrote Anthony:

“Hope this note fids you and your family well, and still in the Holiday spirit!”

I told him that we spent Christmas eve with my sister and Christmas day here at home with my stepkids who are visiting. They leave Jan. 1st, and they’ve been here since 12/18.

Sarah had a great Christmas, she was a good girl this year (as every year) so she got some things she really wanted.

I let him know that right now, she’s battling off a cold that is going around this house, she has the sneezes real bad and a stuffy nose. Hopefully the Triaminic she’s taking helps.

She has also been enjoying her 2 week vacation and has been quite busy with my stepkids.

I asked how he liked Sarah’s pics, that I had sent a couple to his other kids as well. I told him I couldn’t believe his oldest daughter was 18 now. I told him that I don’t see them or talk to them, but I do get a card from his ex and them, and that I feel bad for Sarah, but that is the way life goes, so…

I let him know that we were switching health plans and wanted to know if HE was keeping his plan. We had the same plan but have to switch. I told him I needed to know whether I am still able to take her to her doc at his health plan as well as her dentist or if I needed to change.

I told him to take care and have a safe and sane New Years and best of luck to him and his throughout the coming year.

Visitation 1999

Spring- 1 week- GOT KIDS! 4/3-4/11 also, was overcharged in Airfare. We paid $246. and ex paid $130.

Summer- 5 weeks-GOT KIDS- 7/17-8/21 kids were at her moms first on 7/3 then went back to her mom’s on 8/21. We were also being overcharged for airfare. She told Keith his share was $215 while she was planning on paying $116. Keith told me to buy both and we will deal with the fallout later. I bought both, and WHOO LORDY, was EX pissed. https://mspisceangal2020.wordpress.com/1999/06/07/june-7-1999-phone-call/

Winter Break- 2 weeks-GOT KIDS! 12/18-1/1

Sent Reimbursement

Not sure why we are paying reimbursements when Keith is SUPPOSED to be getting $100 towards his share of medical expenses. The $100 is from the child care expense J gets and the kids haven’t been going to day care. I’ll have to look at the figures again.

ANYWAY, received EOB’s from insurance where Copays equaled a total of $22.50, so I sent J a check for $11.25 on 12/22/99 at 11:37am. Enclosed/included two checks from our insurance made out to L in the amount of $220 and $37.50.

For Great Women

(Emailed this to my stepdaughter at 9:12pm)

Beauty Tips

by Audrey Hepburn

The following was written by Audrey Hepburn
who was asked to share beauty tips.

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you’ll find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows.

The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.

If you share this with another woman, something good will happen — you will boost another woman’s self esteem, and she will know that you care about her.

by Audrey Hepburn

FOR GREAT WOMEN

I sent this to my stepdaughter:

Beauty Tips

by Audrey Hepburn

The following was written by Audrey Hepburn
who was asked to share beauty tips.

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you’ll find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows.

The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.

If you share this with another woman, something good will happen — you will boost another woman’s self esteem, and she will know that you care about her.

by Audrey Hepburn

November 29, 1999

Ex sent an email this morning at 7:55am. She told Keith “You and your wife have misread and misinterpreted most of my e-mails and I am continuing to correct you with each one.”

What a JOKE! She LIES in all her emails, LOL.

She also admitted this little diddy: “THE KIDS READ WHAT THEY WANT TO AND SOMETIMES THEY SEE YOUR E-MAILS AND I LET THEM READ MINE IF THEY CHOOSE. THEY AREN’T LITTLE BABIES THEY KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON.”

In NON caps, she continues that “(their daughter) became very upset at the threat of you putting me in jail and calling the cops on me. What can’t you think more like an adult than a child” GEE, really? I wonder if their daughter ever realized and “became very upset” that it was their MOTHER that called the cops on Keith in July of 1995, LYING to Cops, telling the Watch Sargent on duty that Keith “took the kids out of the county of San Diego and was holding them against their will” 3-4 days after she, her husband and his son dropped them off at our house for their summer visitation. I have often wondered if her husband’s ex wife ever found out how MANIACAL Keith’s ex was that day, the way she burned rubber and hauled ass down a residential street because she was so pissed off.

The truth is, Keith’s EX was the one that took the kids out of the county of San Diego in February of 1993 without Keith’s permission or permission from the court as she moved out of state. I’m sure this little diddy, a San Diego drug case from called “Operation Party Line” or “The Westbrook Case” had something to do with it.

She wrote “You and your wife are so jealous and malicious it shows to everyone except yourselves.” OH really now? Who is everyone, pray tell…..

In her next email in the afternoon, 3:07pm she writes, “Gee Richard I didn’t realize that you were home today at 10:31a.m. Of course you are not home that is because your wife is doing all of this meddling and causing all sorts of trouble and you are not even aware of half it.”

LMAO… Keith has rotating days off.