Of course I am to blame for the reason Keith’s daughter doesn’t want to come visit. His ex sure projects a lot, but that’s a known given, so we just consider the source.
She emailed this morning and told Keith, amongst other things, that his daughter “At this point I am afraid for my daughters care in your home. As proven by at least two visits to your home that she was mistreated by your wife and you. She left on her own after you upset her and she does not have to stay with you or me for the matter if she is upset… she makes her decision to visit based on your actions and the way she is treated at your home and by your wife…the rest of your family would be in agreement to this and charges can be filed against your wife…Why doesn’t your wife and you get another hobby and quit wasting your time and my time on researching and filing and complaining. Can’t you do anything better with your life.”
Charges filed against me? for what? LOL…Funny how she constantly threatens to file charges and yet…never has. She knows she has no case. She knows we/I have a case against her and I don’t think she wants to go down that road.
What does ” the rest of” Keith’s family have to do with this? Just like HER family has nothing to do with anything, neither does his.
By the way, the reason for her email is because his ex told Keith that her mother would be the one to drop off their daughter. Because of all the harassment Keith has received, and now it’s coming from her mother, he said he would make the exchange at the El Cajon PD. His ex had told him that PD is HIS chosen place, not her daughters, so she will let her daughter “chose the place” that this was not up to Keith at all. She told him “If you keep this up you are going to upset (daughter.)”
Keith responded with an email citing Penal Code’s 277, 278.5 and 784.5 He told her at the end of the email “I told you, and I WILL tell you again, I am not playing your game. If you want visitation changed to suit you, then it is up to YOU to change it, not me. I am only looking to ENFORCE what I already have, and don’t get. YOU are the one that told me on June 16th, 2002, that you would be contacting your attorney after you moved to change visitation. You did not. There is still a court order in full force and effect regarding visitation. YOU are the one in contempt of that order, beginning the summer of 2001, (when (daughter) left early, because you enticed her with the fair), and continued Christmas 2001 (denied), Spring 2002 (denied) Summer 2002 (denied). It is all documented. My attorney has been made aware and the El Cajon police dept has been made aware too. That is it, and that is all. Keith CC: her attorney”
Their daughter was not a part of these emails, so Keith told his ex, “Lets get one thing STRAIGHT right here and right now. IF THIS is all upsetting (daughter), maybe you, (ex wife’s name) should quit talking to her about it. I know I am not talking to her about it, which is what you do all the time, and is a VERY big reason why she has the attitude she does concerning me. The Truth of what I am saying will come out. It always does. Keith”