Author: Patricia

So, remember when I wrote in September 2016, about Keith’s granddaughter writing on FB to my son, telling him that his dad cheated with me while he was married to her grandmother?

Well, I saw today that her own Baby daddy wrote on HIS FB about how social media was the reason his life exploded a while back, He said he learned how 1 out of 3 couples have cheated using social media and have shared explicit pictures and videos through the social media apps, and he is one of those people it happened to! He said it had gone on for 6 years, behind his back. 6 YEARS!!

For a minute he sounded like Keith. Baby Daddy wrote, “I worked 14 hour days, traveled and was away from my family and made sure the mom could be a stay at home mom like she wanted to, and always tried to make sure she had everything she needed to make sure her days weren’t filled with stress.” Sounds like a sweet guy. I said he sounded like Keith because Keith worked a lot when he was married to ex #2, having his own trucking company, and in a letter his ex wrote him once she acknowledged that it’s been tough going from $6000 a month doing whatever she wanted to do whenever she wanted, to $800 a month after taxes.

ANYWAY, this young man wants to go to school to become a Family Therapist, “believing he can help keep families together, work through the issues they face with them and make sure the choice to separate is the last and final choice.”

More power to him, I wish him luck! 6 years, GEEZ, how devastating, so NOW it makes sense why she, his ex, came after me accusing ME of cheating, because apparently, it was HER cheating him.

People tell on themselves.

WILD…..

Keith was denied visitations on more than one occasion, actually at LEAST 7 times. She liked to say he “could not afford the cost of transportation from WA to CA” Her unwillingness to work with him or pay for the airfare and he pay her back was a major issue and why she DENIED visitations. That will be for another post. This link has some very interesting info in it.  

https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/child-custody/child-visitation/how-deal-ex-spouse-withholding-child-visitation

Sent Ant a text at 00:05am Jan 1- “Happy New Year! Wishing you a happy, healthy prosperous 2017- Sarah-minutes ago” and sent a pic of Sarah.

” LMAO, ok, I will tell her. good thing for your case, I have proof saying the contrary. When you took me to court one year, she went, thinking that’s how she was going to see you, you didn’t show up. Should I tell her the house in (City) you used to live in was sold and you no longer live there, or that you are now living in (another OC city)? And lets get this straight, the JUDGE/COURT ruled you had no rights of visitation due to your (personal) abuse, but like the nice person I am, for 16-18 years, I tried to set it up where she can see you, but you never answered or wanted it to happen. So take THOSE FACTS and chew on it. If you had ANY interest in her life, for the past 23 years, you would have made an EFFORT.”

minutes later, he responded:

“Patty you need to get your facts straight I still in (City). Point is I choose not to talk to you, but please tell Sarah I would be honored to see my own daughter again and to call me.”

I wrote back:

“Where have you been for the last 5 years? Where have you been ll those years that I was writing you asking you to see her, that you didn’t have to deal with me, you could see her another way, and you were crickets, never took my offer… I will tell her, when I see her today. You’re still HILARIOUS! Thanks for my morning laugh”

Then around 13:15, I took a screen shot from court papers from 2008 and sent it to him, where he claimed he needed his license reinstated so he can “visit my child” I wrote “your declaration from 2008- you never made an effort! Stop your LYING…. By the way, since you have no need to talk to me ever, YOU tell my daughter whatever your messages are…”

Anthony responded to my text from last night. It was kind of jarring. At 09:31 am he wrote, “Patty you tell my daughter to contact me anytime I don’t need to speak to you to see her. Patty in the past you never let me see Sarah so I will talk to her but I have nothing to say to you I rest my case.”

Say WHAT? He rests his case? I never let him see his daughter? OOOOH He POKED a sleeping mama bear…

Sent Anthony a text a little bit ago, at 18:21pm asking how he was and if he was ok. I was trying to confirm his address. Short and sweet text from me.

OY VEY….what a knucklehead! NOW this girl, Keith’s granddaughter, is saying that I’m taking xanax, I’m crazy and taking meds….say WHAT? LOL…SHE came after me, out of the blue, I guess she forgot that. She also went after Keith’s brother and sister in law, accusing them of stealing money from her grandpa. Where is she GETTING this shit from?

SO, I wrote her mom (again) adding her stepmom this time so that her dad will find out…and by the way, This girl is a young adult, with at least one baby of her own. I THINK she’s married, but I have no idea. ANYWAY, what I said to her mom and stepmom was, “She seriously needs to back off. I have reported her and I will go further if she doesn’t leave me alone, J. Her libelous comments about Keith, (ex wife#1) and I, me taking xanax, me being crazy, and taking meds, just to name a few. We are not friends on FB. She blocked me as she was reporting me the other day to face book, then she unblocked me and her and this other Cynthia lady are back at it. Her harassment needs to stop, IMMEDIATELY.”

Let’s see how this goes.

This was left for my son on FB, about me. This is from my husband’s granddaughter. The oldest stepson’s daughter. SHE seems to be under the impression that my late husband cheated on his ex with me while he was married to her grandmother, Keith’s ex #1.

Um, they divorced in or around 1977, I was 13 years old. How crazy is THAT?! I wrote this girls Mom and told her “Call your daughter and tell her to stay off MY FB… once again, SHE came after me… She needs to back the hell off. My son and I have NO dealings with her or your son, let’s keep it that way. Thank you.”

Just so crazy.

Letter from DCSS came today. It was dated 11/10/2015, postmarked 11/16, 2015. It says that this letter is to let me know what on 11/10/2015 the local child support agency terminated child support services and closed the support case for the children listed below.

Sarah.

The case may remain open with the State of CA for payment processing only.

I do have to say, it was easier to get payments through the DCSS. They were very good at enforcing the child support order.

For that, and their hard work, I thank them. ❤

A CSSD letter came today. It was dated 9/10/2015, postmarked 9/16/2015 and I received it today, just telling me that as of 11/10/2015 any services currently being provided by the DCSS will be terminated because there is no longer a current support obligation and no arrearage payments were made in the preceding twelve months, the assigned or unassigned arrears are under $500 or the arrears are unenforceable under state law, and all amounts due under the support order have been paid in full.