Author: Patricia

SO…Anthony FINALLY wants to settle child support, 4 years and 28 days past her 18th birthday, and SOMEONE hired an attorney for him. More than like his oldest sister and her husband.

A Stipulation and Order Waiving Unassigned Arrears was filed.

I am the party waiving past support. Anthony is the party ordered to pay support.

As of 8/25/2015, child support was Principal $18,003.47 and Interest is $11, 603.00 Time period of 9/30/2002 to 8/25/2015.

The parties agree that the amounts in items in 14a and 14b will be considered a final determination by the court of the amount of past due support.

Upon payment by party ordered to pay support of the sum of $18,003.47 to the local child support agency on or before 9/11/2015, the NON-Aid arrears set forth in paragraph 14a shall be deemed paid in full.

Conditions of WAIVER:

This waiver of past due support is conditional on the party ordered to pay support agreements set forth in this document. If the party ordered to pay support fails to perform any condition, than this waiver is NULL and VOID and of no force or effect whatsoever. However, if box 14c is checked, the setting of support arrears in 14a and 14b will continue to be valid as the court’s determination of the amount of support arrearages. Specific conditions of this waiver as as follows: (nothing specified in 16a. or 16b. )

Declaration states:

I, (my legal name) am the Petitioner in this matter and declare as follows:

The Respondent and I have entered into a stipulation and that I have agreed to accept the principal amount of $18,003.47 as payment in full for any and all arrears that due for child support. I knowingly and willingly agree to waive all the interest that has accrued on the child support which is $11,603.00 and any small interest that should accrue before actual payment is made per the stipulation.

I do not have any objection to reinstate Respondents drivers license immediately.

I spoke with Mr. V, the child support representative on August 25, 2015 at approx. 3:30pm, and I informed him of my agreement as set forth herein.

I am hopeful that this declaration and my previous email will serve as sufficient evidence that I voluntarily agree with this negotiation of arrears and that I can thereby avoid my appearance in Court as I am starting a brand new permanent position at my job and cannot take time off the time to appear in court. I ask the Court to accept this declaration as my testimony as if I was in Court.

Sent Anthony 9 pics of Sarah from Baby to Present, including with him, his son, his mom, and one of his nieces.

“This person is unavailable on Messenger.”

Wrote Anthony today. Sent him another job lead I saw. I wrote, “I’ve sent you a few job leads, I hope you’re doing something with them, like applying for the job.

Your child support is only going up every month, and your $15 a month isn’t doing much to bring it down.

I even sent you and (his brother in law) a letter offering a settlement and never heard back from either of you.

Hope all is well, take care, get a job so this arrears bill can be paid off. You’re what? 56 years old now? What’s the deal? Patty” and left my cell number and email for him to contact me.

I knew Anthony had been fired from his job, but I didn’t know why really. I saw that my job was hiring for a couple positions right up his alley, so I printed up the information and sent it to him today.

I wrote Anthony today regarding his arrears and to see if we can work out a deal or compromise to get his support paid off.

He’s currently at $29,321.21 after his latest payment, and he pays $15.00 towards these arrears, an agreement he made with DCSS, and he continues to get charged $150 interest per month, every month. $15.00 per month, and he didn’t pay Aprils payment. At this rate, it will never be paid.

I offered to settle up for $25,000. He can ask his brother in law to pay for it and then he can pay his brother in law back. I told him if he agreed to this, I would call DCSS and have them draw up papers saying that I settled the debt form nearly $5,000 LESS than what is owed and I would sign the papers to close the account once and for all. I told him to contact me if he has any questions . Kindest regards.

Sent this to Anthony this evening on Messenger at 18:28

RIP to my former stepdaughter Amanda’s (first) ex-husband. Prayers and condolences to his family.

Amanda has been remarried since way before her ex passed away. Seems she had been planning a wedding to this man in 2005 and she’s AKA this man’s last name, but then married another man in or around…I don’t even know when, it seems shortly thereafter.

Sad that this man passed away though.

I sent Anthony a message on Messenger today at 13:04.

“What is it exactly you are wanting me to be in agreement with you on? I know you didn’t think of whatever you’re wanting to do on your own…I realize someone put you up to it. I asked for an appointment because I don’t know what you’re asking for. The current about of child support you owe is $27,430.84 that’s what I found out today. So you can either call me, or I’ll just wait to get something in the mail regarding an appoint. My number is….. Patty”

Suddenly, come to notice, “This person is unavailable on Messenger.” So he or someone else blocked me.

(FB message sent to stepdaughter at 11:43am)

“Hope all is well with you, L! This is a very pretty picture of you! two kids! what a blessing! Be well and stay happy! Patricia”

I wrote Anthony a letter on 7/24/11 and sent it on 7/25/11 . It was delivered to his house today, 7/26/11 at approx. 10:20am. I also enclosed 4 pics of Sarah.

In this letter I wrote, “Well, here it is, 8 days from August 1, which is Sarah’s 18th birthday. It’s really TOO bad and SO sad that you missed out on 18 years of her life, because YOU, Anthony, missed out on watching a beautiful baby grow into a wonderful, lovely, young lady.

The only time you will hear from me, here on out, is if the District Attorney sends me something that I have to respond to, and maybe NOT even then. I will ALWAYS remember when you threatened to take Sarah from me when she was a baby and “move out of the country to Mexico” (as you put it). I will ALWAYS remember how you never acknowledged her birthday, never a phone call, never a card, never a letter written in YOUR own writing to her, nothing. I will ALWAYS remember how you tried to claim her on your income tax for the year 2003. I will ALWAYS remember at court in 2008, you REQUESTING to be put in jail because you thought it would erase your past due arrearages. and I REALLY will never forget how you declared under penalty of perjury, in your 2008 Order to Show Cause that YOU filed, that you needed your license reinstated so that you could, “Visit my child…” ( as you put it) and yet you NEVER did, you NEVER did. YOU were told at that time, by the attorney at court that you really need to make arrangements to see her because at that time, she was nearly 16 and able to speak before the court on her own, but you didn’t listen to the attorney. You were told PLENTY of times over the years by ME that even though you have no rights of reasonable visitation, I would be willing to work something out with you so you COULD “visit your child” but you NEVER took me up on that. You missed out on her 5th grade promotion, her 8th grade promotion, her recent 12th grade graduation from high school.

The District Attorney will continue to collect child support arrearages from you, until you die basically because I will NEVER close the account. I will advise Sarah on how to handle these court orders, since she will be 18 and I will seek legal advice on how to collect your share of uncovered medical expenses.

As of Nov. 30, 2010 you owed me $1439.51 in uncovered medical expenses. You owe me an additional $45 from the attached receipts dating from Feb. 4, 2011 ($15), April 25, 2011 ($15) and from July 23, 2011 ($15) fir a total NOW due of of $1484.51 for YOUR share of uncovered medical expenses from June 2006 to present. This will change of course, if she has to go to the doctors anytime in the next 8 days.

All I hope is that Sarah will be able to continue seeing her cousins and aunts on YOUR side that she missed out on all these years. Patricia”