Author: Patricia

sent J a money order for $19.20, today, at 3:05pm.

So weird. So, the ex sends an email at 7:26am and says the Keith makes himself and I “look stupid with all this pettiness.” She also writes, “lets consider the fact that your wife called me at home and told me to come get my kids now. Let’s consider the harassment of my medical providers and not to mention your pettiness in the world of crime when local police officers have better things to do than answer your stupid accusations regarding child custody issues which there are none….And visitation from now on is up to the kids not the court. I am not forcing or pushing it after your stunts you pulled while they were there last. Of Course they were civil and tried to straighten things out what were there choices?”

Keith responds at 9:03am with, “THAT’S RIGHT, SHE DID. SHE FIRST TRIED YOUR MOM SINCE SHE WAS CLOSER, BUT NOONE ANSWERED. LET’S CONSIDER THE FACT THAT THE KIDS WANTED TO LEAVE IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT ANYWAY. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT (SON) ADMITTED THE NEXT DAY, WHEN I TOLD HIM AND (DAUGHTER) THAT WE WERE TAKING THEM TO THE TRAIN STATION TO GO TO THEIR GRANDMAS, (YES I TALKED TO HER EVENTUALLY), THAT HE DID NOT WANT TO GO THERE, BACK TO (EX’S CITY in WA), OR ANY WHERE. HE WANTED TO STAY WITH ME. BOTH KIDS SAID THEY WERE SORRY AND (SON) SAID HE DID NOT EVEN REMEMBER HALF OF WHAT HE SAID THANKS TO THE PAIN MEDICATION HE HAD TAKEN FOR (his physical issue). IF I NEED TO, I WILL HAVE THE DOCTOR COME INTO COURT AND TESTIFY TO THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE MEDICATION WHICH IS WHAT HE WAS GIVEN, THAT CERTAINLY PLAYED A PART IN ALL THIS.

THERE IS NO HARASSMENT (of medical providers.) I AM LEGALLY ENTITLED TO THIS INFORMATION. I AM LEGALLY ENTITLED TO SPEAK TO CONTACT AND DISCUSS ANYTHING ABOUT THE KIDS WITH YOUR MEDICAL PROVIDERS. WE SHARE JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY AND I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO DO SO.

THATS RIGHT, THE COPS DO HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN GET INVOLVED IN DOMESTIC DISPUTES. I AM SURE THE JUDGE, COURT AND YOUR ATTORNEY WILL LOVE TO HEAR HOW YOU FIRST THREATENED ME THAT YOU WERE GOING TO CALL THE COPS ON ME AND THEN ABOUT A DAY OR SO LATER, YOU DID. YOU TOLD THE WATCH SARGENT THAT I TOOK THE KIDS OUT OF THE COUNTY OF SAN DIEGO AND WAS HOLDING THEM AGAINST THEIR WILL. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT YOU DON’T EVEN LIVE THERE! LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT I HAD TO CALL THE KIDS OUT OF THE HOUSE AND PROVE THEY WERE JUST FINE, THEN I HAD TO PROVE THAT YOU NO LONGER LIVED IN SAN DIEGO, THEN I HAD TO PROVED JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY AND A SET VISITATION FOR THAT PERIOD OF TIME, BEFORE THEY ARRESTED ME FOR KIDNAPPING. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT WHEN THIS WAS ALL WAS DONE, THE KIDS HAD ALREADY SPOKEN TO YOU BY PHONE. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT WHEN THE FEMALE OFFICER CALLED YOU TO LET YOU KNOW THE KIDS WERE WITH FINE WITHME, AND HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH THEIR DAD, YOU HUNG UP ON HER AND TURNED AROUND AND CALLED THE WATCH SARGENT AGAIN TO REPORT HER FOR BEING RUDE HANGING UP ON YOU.LETS NOT FORGET THAT WHEN YOU FIRST DROPPED THE KIDS OFF, HOW YOU THREW A FIT IN FRONT OF ME, THE KIDS, (HER HUSBAND AND HIS SON) TOLD THE KIDS TO JUMP IN THE CAR AND YOU PROCEEDED TO SPEED DOWN A RESIDENTIAL STREET AT ABOUT 40 MILES AN HOUR. LETS NOT FORGET HOW YOU WERE TAKING THE KIDS AWAY FROM MEBECAUSE YOU DID NOT WANT THEM TO STAY WITH ME B ECAUSE WE DID NOT LET YOU HAVE SOME COURT PAPERS I HAD IN MY POSSESSION. LETS NOT FORGET HOW YOUR HUSBAND CALLED ME ON THE PHONE AND TOLD ME YOU WERE IN THE BLOCKBUSTER PARKING LOT AROUND THE CORNER FROM ME AND TO GET THERE AND PICK UP THE KIDS! I AM SURE (HER HUSBAND) WAS NOT HAPPY AT YOUR REACTIONS ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF HIS SON. LET’S NOT FORGET THIS HAPPENS EVERY SINGLE TIME I WANT TO SEE THE KIDS. YOU AREGUE WITH ME ABOUT THE TIME, DATE, ANYTHING YOU OVERCHARGE ME IN AIRFARE AND YOU ALWAYS THINK OF WAYS AND EXCUSES FOR THEM NOT TO WANT TO SEE ME.

(ABOUT THEIR CHOICE) THEY COULD HAVE LEFT. I HAD ALREADY BOUGHT THE TRAIN TICKETS TO SAN DIEGO FOR THEM. YOUR MOM WAS GETTING READ ON A MOMENTS NOTICE TO GO PICK THEM UP. IT WAS THEIR CHOICE. THEY DECIDED TO STAY. THEY APOLOGIZED TO BOTH ME AND MY WIFE AND I HAVE A VERY COMPELLING EMAIL FROM YOUR MOM REGARDING THIS LAST VISIT AS WELL THAT I LOOK FORWARD TO SUBMITTING INTO EVIDENCE ALONG WITH THAT THE DOCTOR SAYS ABOUT THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE MEDICACTION HE GAVE (SON). IT WILL PROVE THAT (SON) WAS IN AN ALTERED MENTAL STATE DURING THIS WHOLE ORDEAL.”

In my letter to Anthony today, I sent him a copy of Sarah’s homework for last week that shows “Well Done, Great Job!”

I also let him know that I kept her home yesterday from school because she had an asthma attack during the night and didn’t sleep very well. I told him that this time of year is VERY hard on her with her asthma.

Between July 26th and December 8th, I sent Anthony 8 letters, giving him updates on Sarah, sending pics, school work, medical/dental receipts, etc.

In my letter to Anthony today,12/9/00, I let him know that Sarah’s asthma has been acting up a lot lately and that I have been having her use her inhaler a lot more. 😦

It’s just the craziest thing reading these emails from the ex. She constantly bags on Keith for not having insurance on the kids (lies) and how our insurance is never any good enough. Well, it’s good for US, and it would be REALLY good for her if she used contracted providers of service. That’s NOT our problem. Her not using the providers she’s supposed to, is at an expense to HER, not Keith.

At any rate, they were emailing about a provider of service. She said/He said type of thing, but it seems the provider she was using is not a contracted provider. How she flipped it is beyond me, LOL! She writes:

“Sounds if you and your wife carry some resentment toward the kids living here. Sounds like you are upset about your choice of doctors or insurance. (son) and (daughter) are your children and in fact were here first before you chose to have another family. So inconvenience is not where we live but that you have chosen to inconvenience your with further obligations. Not my choice nor the kids choice yours my dear. So sorry you must change doctors each year I was unaware that you changed companies that often. Once again your choice.”

Well, the reason he changed insurance companies was a benefit to the kids, but even that wasn’t good enough. Par for the course.

In a response to her he wrote, “LEAVE MY WIFE and INNOCENT kids OUT OF YOU SARCASTIC and malicious CORRESPONDENCE TO ME.”

We’ll see how long that lasts.

On 11/9/00 I sent L an email telling her, “Hi L, Just wanted you to know your package has been sent this morning. Have a good day! P~”

The package was addressed to both L and N.

It was delivered this evening, 11/13/00 at 6:19pm.

(emailed stepdaughter at 1250pm)

“Hi L,

A teacher came to the class today and with a whole bunch of Beanie babies in a bag she was giving away. She said I can have 4. I got a gray in color scorpion, a rainbow colored bear (I think) named Sammy, a brown squirrel named NUTS, and a pink flamingo named Pinky.

Do you want any of these? If so, let me know so I can get it in the mail, ok? If I don’t hear from you, I will take that to mean no.

TTFN,

Pat”

(email sent to stepson at 12:01pm)

“N,

just wanted to let you know that Columbia House sent a bill for the cd’s you received during the summer… and then there, Amplified, N**** Please, Blaque, Selena, title of record, wait is over.

I guess you forgot to leave the bill, but I called them to let them know I would be paying for it, and will send in payments so it does not go to collections.

bye,

Pat”

Ex emailed this morning at 7:55 am.

Subject: Insurance

She listed 6 items, and states:

2. Your accusations that I have done something is totally WRONG as you are most of the time when it comes to your kids. I have given all new medical and dental information to each of my providers as I have used their services. I can only pass on the information to the providers I can’t stan there and make sure they process it correctly. The insurance companies have all been given the proper information and if they also do not process it correctly that is no fault of mine. I unlike you don’t have the time and energy to waste on making the world a perfect place. I can’t make people process my insurance information correctly. I give it to them and wait and see if the claims go through properly.

3. As far as dealing with my insurance company is exactly that my insurance company and you have no right or no authority and certainly do not have my permission to access my insurance companies for any reason.

5. There is no reason for you to provide my insurance information to my providers. I can take care of that if there is a problem. You seem to be the only one who knows there is a problem.

6. Yes very much harassment. My insurance, my providers are not your concern. If there is a problem forward the information to me and I will take care of it.

Like I told you on the phone I have no reason not to use all insurance coverage available to both of us. I will not use the insurance companies for a free ride though. I am taking care of (SS and SD) and I will continue to do so with the best providers I can find, regardless of cost. It is not about cheap service, but quality care.

You are not entitled to anything regarding my insurance. I will press charges if you continue to invade my privacy and harass my providers and myself. You take care of yourself and your nosy wife and kids and let me take care of my insurance and my doctors and dentists.

There was no reason for your embarrassing actions.

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The ex seems to be under the impression we are calling for the status of claims for HER. No. Since Keith has to pay one half of uncovered medical claims, he CAN call, or authorize me as his agent, to call for the status of a claim that’s been submitted regarding the kids.

Besides, what’s she bitching for? She’s called HIS insurance for one reason or another, AND she also had information CHANGED in his insurance file.

SO I sent that provider the ex talked about last night, an apology letter.

RE: Fax I sent on 9-11-00 /Letter of Apology

Dear (Lady’s name),

Last night, at approximately 710pm, (the ex) called my home to speak to my husband about that fax I sent you on 9-11-00, in regards to (ex’s) NEW secondary insurance information I gave you.

It was conveyed to me that PER (EX), you were “VERY concerned and confused by the fax” and “VERY, VERY upset by it.” It was also conveyed to me that per (EX) you advised her that you “did not want to stir up anything, ” you ” did not want her to call me” and you “did not want to start any arguments.” I was informed that (EX) told you that “it was no big deal.” (apparently it was a big deal after all.)

As I had explained to you in the fax, my reason, the reason for the fax was simply because I had been in the process of updating EVERYONE involved, including BOTH insurance companies of NEW information. ( I advised our insurance of Ex’s new coverage and Ex’s insurance of our PRIMARY coverage on SS and SD.) as well as our providers and hers. I was doing something that needed to be done, that hadn’t been done as of that date.

Please accept my sincere apologies for ANY inconvenience the fax caused you while conducting necessary business, and ESPECIALLY for upsetting you as badly as EX stated you were. Thank you.
Cordially,

Patricia (last name)

(phone number)