Author: Patricia

Ex called for Keith again, at 6:11 pm.

She left a voice mail.

” Hi, this is J, it is um, 10 after 6 on Monday, November 9th. I’m calling, and this is the 3rd time I’ve called to speak to Keith in regards to taking his kids to the doctors. Please call me back as soon as you get in. Thank you.”

Ex called at 4:43 pm.

P- hello?

J- hi, can I talk to Keith please?

P- he’s not here

J- alright, can you have, tell him that I called. Um I need to ask him if the kids can go to the doctors.

P- absolutely

J- K, thanks

P- bye.

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Ex called again at 8:24pm

P- hello?

J- Hi is Keith there?

P- um, no he’s not back yet.

J- when you expect him back?

P- mmm, what time is it? uh, in probably about 20-30 minutes.

J- k, bye

P- uh hm, bye.

This letter was postmarked 11/2/1998 and it was received at our home on 11/5/1998.

It is AMAZING how she twists things around. Isn’t that what narcissists do? Is “twist” a strong enough word for what they do? She’s a pro, but she’s not dealing with idiots. She contradicts herself in her own letters, and in conversations on the phone, etc.

SO, during the summer, I was actually amazed at how my 14 year old spoke to his dad, with such disrespect. The apple doesn’t fall from the tree, the kids live what they learn. Having said that, as I heard my stepson talk to his dad in the way that he did, I casually told my stepson that, WOW, had I spoken to my parents the way he spoke to his dad, I would have gotten my face slapped. It was just something that wasn’t allowed in my house. I was, quite frankly shocked at my stepson’s tone. WHY did the EX tell Keith that her son told her that I told him “he should have his mouth slapped because of his smart mouth.” She asked, “Is this appropriate?” Well, I didn’t say that, LOL. Nice try at spinning though. Then she went on to say, “how about Pat telling the kids if they had not told me about not having enough seatbelts in the cars for all the kids and yourselves then you would not have to take separate cars to go places as a family.” It wasn’t ME that said that, LOL. I was fine with taking two cars. I preferred it. She said, “I don’t know about what your family means to you but I want to protect my kids from harm as much as possible.” Or really? Hmmm, I distinctly remember the summer of 1995, when she literally, burned rubber down our street in the car with her kids, her own stepson and her husband, because she was pissed off at Keith, but I digress. She continued, “If you don’t care about them wearing seatbelts then let Sara and Thomas ride without seatbelts.”

One funny thing she mentioned was how at the end of their summer visitation, he had the kids ready for her to pick them up. She called him on August 13th, and said she would be at our home between 130pm and 230pm “no later” and to “please be sure that you guys are there at least between 1 and 230 so that I can pick them up and that they’re ready to go…” He did as she asked, but in this letter, she wrote, “Or what about the fact that when I went to pickup the kids you had their bags packed sitting on the tailgate of truck. Were you throwing them out? you made them feel like it.” NO, he did as you asked, LOL.

Can’t make this stuff up.

Sent N and L Halloween candy and L’s wooden shoes.

I like to doodle, and I drew a few pics. L liked them and wanted me to send them to her. I did on 9/25/98. It was Tubby, Boxer and Buffy. They were delivered today.

I hate when we order something and it doesn’t arrive on time. We ordered N a cool Lava lamp and it arrived yesterday. I mailed it today.

Ex called from the gate at 2:25 pm

P- hello?

J- Hi

P- Hi

J- how do I get in pass the gate?

P- I’ll let you in.

She got to our home, picked up the kids and left immediately.

She called again at 2:40 pm, while on her way to San Diego.

P- Hello?

J- can I talk to Keith please?

P- hold on, (I turned to ask Keith) Do you want to talk to J? (Sarah said, “I do” LOL) I asked again, you want to talk to J? OH, it’s about that thing?

K- hello?

J- are you ok? the kids told me you were mad about the letter…

He told her he was fine.

Received a $20 money order from Anthony today.

We were having a late dinner. I made enchiladas. The ex called for Keith at 8:24 pm. I answered the phone. I told her to hold on, and called for him to pick up.

I’m also dishing up dinner, asking the kids if they want red or green enchiladas.

I hear Keith tell his ex:

K- I’ll have some money for you tomorrow.