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Today- Nature of Proceedings: OSC

The court finds the respondent owes child support arrears in the amount of $1,214.00 plus 10% interest, plus a penalty of $1,200. Arrears, interest and penalty are to be paid at the rate of $350 per month commencing 11-15-05 by respondent to petitioner.

I have to prepare the wage assignment and order after hearing.

Again, I had Anthony served. THIS time, he was served, today. HE was served at 05:14A.M. A.M….IN THE MORNING. WOW….

Filled out paperwork on 10/5/05 and returned papers today 10/12/05, to have assistance from the DA’s office. Anthony has not paid like he’s ordered to, like I hoped he would have.

My bad, thinking I would give him a chance. 😦

Keith received a response back from the College at 6:59am. He was told that the school email “is email that they are assigned being a student but they can use for both personal and school.” and to please let the lady who responded back know if he has any other questions.

He wrote his daughter at 7:23am, forwarding the college email. He told his daughter that he inquired about her claim that the school email was just for school and not for “personal shit” as she said and that he was given different information.

SO, not only has he not been able to call his daughter on her cell phone, he can’t even email her to stay in touch. ALL at the demand of her mother and her.

How pathetic.

Keith emailed the college at 9:58pm, to ask about his daughters claim that he can’t send her personal email to her school email address. He asked if the email was for school or personal or both.

She wrote this morning at 8:00am saying, “Really now??- She is 18 and she knows you look at this. She was disappointed with you and she was when started her college life and realized you were no part of it. So- buck up and stay loose. She is doing wonderful and I am very proud of her. Too bad you don’t really know her.”

Keith responded at 8:28am “Figures you would approve of the advertising and language. Sounds like she is the one trying to portray herself as loose. Figures YOU would approve of that. It is/was HER decision to not have me part of her life, high school or college. She made the choice in 2003, if not before. SHE made the decision. Too bad so sad. Keith

Keith had also noticed that his daughter tweaked her profile to say, “These are just quotes take them as you please but don’t judge me them!! thanks” and also “If you are going to judge me by what I have on here then go right ahead but im guessing you don’t know me if you think that…”

Before she added those comments, her profile had the floor of the college dorm she was on, her college, that she and two of her friends are the “HIGHTLIGHT of the PARTY!!” “we are some Crazy B*t*h*s” “OMG Why dont you RIP off my clothes and F**K me TWICE” “SWEET F**K RIGHT”

At 6:07 pm, his daughter emailed him with the subject, “LEAVE ME ALONE!!!” She writes, as her last words to him, “Richard, WHY DONT YOU JUST FUCK OFF!!!! Im tired of you trying to get in my life stop…I hate you and i hate what you are doing…stop fucking caring and if you did care why dont you fucking callme…im guessing thats to fucking hard for you…IM 18 and I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT…I DONT NEED YOU IN MY LIFE SCREWING IT UP…Im doing just fine wihtout you in my life i have made it this far im sure i can make the rest wihtout you…just leave me alone and stay out of my life BYE”

At 6:20pm she also emailed Keith a response to an email he sent her last night to her school email. It was of nothing significant, just a FWD titled “Only Smart People can Read This” It was a paragraph written with words with their letters mixed up. Stepdaughter wrote her dad and said, “THIS E-MAIL FOR SCHOOL…NOT FOR PERSONAL SHIT…SO STOP SENDING E-MAILS HERE THANKS.”

At 6:20pm, Keith wrote, “wow (his daughter’s name) what a trashy mouth you have. I sure hope you feel better. You have a lot of growing up to do, A LOT. I didn’t do anything to you. YOU told me to NOT to call you, remember? Or do I need to refresh your memory about how I asked you 2 years ago if we could start over, and what your response was. Just because I do as you ask doesn’t mean I don’t care. I haven’t screwed up your life at all, but as usual, it is easier to blame someone else (me) than take responsibility for your own actions and your own part in the break down of the things, huh? Of course it is.

I pray nothing ever happens to you while you are at College. Bye”

To the email about the college email for school only, Keith responded at 6:21pm and wrote, “whatever smart mouth.”

6:26pm, his daughter responds back, “THANKS FOR THE COMMENT REALLY APPRECIATE IT…STAY OUT… I DONT NEED YOU IN MY LIFE I HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR IM SURE I CAN DO THE REST WIHTOUT YOU AS WELL…. MOM…TELL HIM TO STOP RUINING MY LIFE PLEASE…”

Keith responded at 6:30pm, “how do you think I should have responded? Your filth laden email, doesn’t deserve anymore than the response I gave you. You really need to grow up. If you don’t want me to email you, quit emailing me. how’s that/ You didn’t have to respond. You took my concern for you and what has happened to the other two girls and turned it around. You did it just like your mom did. If you are so grown up, and 18 and can do whatever you want, why don’t you fight your OWN battles. I always offered my help, said it was there if you wanted it, you couldn’t ask me. Instead, what do you do? Send emails like the filth laden one you sent. FINE (her name). I GOT YOUR MESSAGE. SEE YA.”

Keith noticed that she has changed her Directory Public Profile to read, “STAY OUT I DONT NEED YOU ANYMORE IN MY LIFE I HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR WITHOUT YOU IM SURE I CAN MAKE THE REST OF THE WAY WITHOUT YOU!!”

He emailed just her at 6:35pm and said, “You really need to grow up. Make sure you tell your buddies that it was YOUR choice and your decision to not have me in your life. Remember, there are two sides to every story.” and then he asked what happened to her boyfriend, a guy named “Mario.”

JUST WOW… After dealing with all this since his divorce from their mother in November 1990, he was DONE. Both his kids are “adults” now, or so they say they are.

8:40pm-Keith was looking at his daughter’s public profile, and was concerned due to some things she has posted on it. He sent it to his ex and said that he hoped his daughter is doing good and is safe with the kind of advertising there was on her profile.

My husbands ex wife hated me from the gate. I really have no idea why. Is it because she never really got over him? I mean, she did say that just because they get divorced legally, it didn’t have to mean the end of them, that she wanted to still see/ date him, she just didn’t want to be married anymore. Was she still in love with my husband? I actually think so. Other things she has said through out the years and and the way she harped on him constantly, gave me the impression she never got over him. Oh sure she would say she hated him, she said he made her hate him more and more each day, BUT, there is a fine line between love and hate, after all.

This woman hates me so much that she accused me and convinced her kids that I was the cause of her divorce from her second husband, even though she lives in ANOTHER state, approximately 1300 miles away. How could I be the cause of her divorce?

Forget the fact that she called the cops on my husband, damn near getting him arrested by lying to them, telling them he had taken their kids out of the county of San Diego and was holding them against their will. He had to prove she and her then husband dropped the kids off for an agreed upon visitation.

I only met her second husband once, in July 1995, the same time I met her. What a first impression that was. I have seen her a couple times throughout the years at visitation time, but I’ve never seen her with her sun glasses off. I wonder why. I’ve seen pics of her, one from 1986 when my husband and her were married, one from 1993 when she married her second husband and she sent not one but two pics of them. I saw a pic of her when she was written about in her hometown paper sometime in 2000’or 2001. Ive spoken to her on the phone more than I have seen her.

This woman wrote an email to me dated March 14, 2002, telling me “ I will be sure to kiss on your grave and make sure it says that you wasted your life on being a bitch and getting into peoples business… you are mean, vicious, vindictive, jealous and just plain ugly.”

This lady has verbally threatened me (via telephone), she constantly put my children down, she’s accused me of impersonating her and her daughter to obtain information on them, AS IF…

So when I read this poem by Maya Angelou, she was the first person I thought of. She tried bringing me down, but she didn’t. She couldn’t.

She emailed Keith this morning at 7:19am.

How can someone wake up in a bad mood? LOL She wrote, “You are really sick and twisted. Act all nice then into the bitch that you are. I merely asked for the credit card number no need to turn into your own parade. I never forged (her ex’s) signature.”

Keith asked, at 8:02am, “why would you think I had your credit card number from 2000? your memory sure fails you about that year. I don’t know who you are calling a bitch, but I didn’t know a man could be one. of course you deny forging (her ex’s) signature, even though it is obvious you did. If you admitted it, you stand more of a chance of being charged with not only perjury, but forgery too. you know, paranoid personality disorder describes you to a t. look it up. hope your day goes better. Keith.”

Just an FYI- Paranoid Personality Disorder | Psychology Today

Keith really couldn’t believe she asked about this credit card, 5 years ago. Like…really? He emailed her again at 5:13pm and said that it really made him laugh that she was trying to dispute a credit card charge that she made 5 years ago, and as of last night, she didn’t even have the number for it. He told her that didn’t even make sense. He really felt she was coming at him from another angle, another something to bitch at him about. He asked, “Since when do credit cards offer a 5 year dispute clause? Ask (her ex husband’s name), he may have record of the number. Keith”

He did throw in a few “HA HA HA’s” in his email, wondering what the catch was. She was not happy with his response. She wrote back at 6:51pm saying “Haa haa yourself. I just asked if you had any record of the VISA number- It was closed 3 years ago-The dispute is with the company the charge was made at not the credit card. I no longer know (her ex husbands name)”

Huh?? I mean, really, HUH?

At 8:11 pm Keith responded back, “Doesn’t matter when it was closed. According to your email, you are disputing a charge made in 2000 (5 years later) and you didn’t/don’t even the number. Lucky (her ex husbands name) I bet he counts his lucky starts every day. Wonder if you knew him when you forged his signature on legal documents.” and Keith threw in several HA HA HA HA, because he feels this is a joke.