~This Is My World~

Ex emailed Keith telling him that she can not and will not force their kids (ages 15 and almost 18) to visit with him. “The decision is theirs and I will not force them to visit and I can’t….They have some bad feelings toward you and your wife based on previous visits and experiences…You did this to them and I warned you this would happen. Good luck, why don’t you try calling them once a day for a week and see if that helps.”

(Sent this at 9:23am to my dad, sister, friends, and cc’d stepdaughter and her grandma)

“Hi everyone!

hope you all had a great holiday weekend! We went to a friend of ours house for the 4th for a bbq and pool party. Have a great time! Sarah and Thomas swam in the pool most of the day! Thomas did real good with the floaties on. he was “swimming” out in the middle are of the pool and was so proud of himself! He STILL wouldn’t get his hair wet!

Sat. Sarah had a game, an early one this time, 9 am. They lost. I think our score keeper stops keeping score after awhile, which is kind of irritating, but oh well…Sarah grounded out and hit a double. She played left/center field and made a couple of great fielding plays!

Saturday night, we went to another friends house (in the “prison compound” where we used to live) for swimming and a bbq again. Got home late but had a lot of fun!

Sunday morning in children’s church, Sarah and Thomas had choir practice and at night, they sang in the children’s choir at church during the “International Sunday” service. They were too cute! afterwards, there was “food and desserts” from all over…Germany, Nigeria, Africa, good ol’ USA, China, etc. I tried to find a Portuguese restaurant to pick something up for Sarah to take, but there are NONE around here. Sarah was disappointed of course, (she is Chinese/Portuguese as well as Mexican…My “Portunese Mex” baby!) but I told her I would look up some recipes and we could try them.

Here we are are, Monday week! A HOT one at that! UGH! Time for the beach!

That’s about all the news here! Have a great week and stay cool!

Love you all!

P~”

(sent this email to my sister, my dad, friends, and CC’d my stepdaughter and her grandma, at 8:32am)

” It was a fun and busy weekend. Saturday, of course was a softball game. The Reds lost (another) game, 17-6 😦 to the Dodgers. At one point, they were ahead and at another point it was tied. Sarah was up only twice this game. She hit a double and grounded out. She was all too happy when the coach let her sit out their last time out field. They had 11 players and only 10 are allowed on the field.

We had an umpire that was not very Fair, I guess is the word. He would call our players out for throwing the bat, but not the other teams, and there was another call he called our player out for not running when he really didn’t have to. HOPEFULLY next week they will win. Hopefully, the Reds will win at least ONE game! LOL!

Pictures are July 13th, so I will be sure to either scan them or send them out to you.

Hope you had a great weekend and have a great week as well! Til next time…

P~”

(sent this email to my sister, my dad, friends, my stepdaughter and her grandmother at 12:42pm) I wrote:

“Good afternoon!

Well, Sarah’s game was at 1015am, and what a game!

Sarah and The Reds played the A’s. The Reds loss 12-11. The first time Sarah was up, she hit the ball to the first baseman. The second time, she fouled out (remember only 3 pitches per player) and the third up at bat. she hit…A HOMER!!! It was great! She told me on the way home that she was shaking the entire time, from the first pitch to the time she made it back into the dugout! LOL! She was the 11th run!

I hope you are all have a great day! 🙂

P~”

After her emails this morning, I sent a letter via USPS to her attorney. I don’t have an attorney, so I have to do what I have to do. I wrote,

“Please file this demand letter in your clients file. It is one thing for Ms. (her last name) to disparage me but she stepped over the line once again by telling my husband, her FORMER husband that our kids “are a pain in the ass.” There are NO excuses for her words or actions.

Should you have any questions or would like copies of any written documentations, feel free to call to discuss this matter.

Respectfully,

Patricia (my legal names)

I attached a copy of an email my husband sent her last night (the 17th) regarding this issue along with the e-mails between her and I this morning.

Happy 15th birthday to my stepdaughter. I received an email from her mother this morning.

at 06:41am, she wrote, “Don’t answer or read the e-mails. Simple answer. Calling or writing my employer will get you laughed at and sued.” Does she really think I care about being laughed at or sued? Not hardly. My mindset is, this employer has hired someone like this, who libelously slanders and defames innocent minor kids, ages 8.5 and 5 years old AND works with the public.

The ex turned right around and at 06:54am fires off another email writing, “I have never sent any e-mail to you or given you my e-mail address which is not publicly listed. You have once again invaded my privacy and you have no business dealing with me and we do not have children together. You have no rights in this arrangement between me and Richard and our children. No rights no privileges and no responsibilities. Stay out of my personal business and do not contact me again.”

Does this lady think that her constant attacks against MY innocent in all of this children doesn’t affect my husband? How sick is that, truly.

At 07:52am I responded and said, “(her first and last name), when you invade MY home and MY privacy and the privacy of mine and KEITH’S kids (Sarah and Thomas) by speaking derogatorily against me and us, then as their mother and a human being, I have ever right to demand that you cease and desist.

Failure to do so on your part will result in the actions mentioned earlier. Patricia (my last name)”

08:05am she writes back again: “You just can’t help yourself and keep reading those e-mails.”

I sent her a Cease and Desist e-mail at 08:31am:

“KEEP ME AND MY KIDS OUT OF YOUR EMAILS AND PHONE CALLS TO KEITH.

FAILURE TO CEASE AND DESIST ON YOUR PART, AFTER NUMEROUS REQUESTS, WILL NOW RESULT IN ANY AND ALL FORMS OF HARASSMENT BEING TURNED OVER TO YOUR EMPLOYER AND THE POLICE. Patricia (my last name)”

This was the morning of her daughter’s birthday.

Keith emailed his ex wife, with the subject matter: Reminder.

(her name),

Court orders from July 1998 state that the only contact we are to have is regarding the children.

You are in violation of and have continued to be in violation of this order for the past 4 years, at least.

You have constantly and consistently berated my wife and 2 kids here in your contact with me.

My wife and 2 kids here have nothing to do with (their son and daughter) and your contact with me is limited to (son and daughter).

I will continue to document these violations and they will be dealt with in a court of law.

Once again, I formally DEMAND that you refrain from talking about my wife and kids in your contact with me.

Keith”

This woman…when someone constantly attacks you verbally “just because” is one thing. When said person constantly attacks your children because said person is JEALOUS, that’s a totally different thing.

I had come to realize the ex is jealous of the fact that my kids are here with their dad day in and day out and that because of HER decision to move out of state, her kids are no longer able to see their dad at least every other weekend, so she’s taking it out on my kids.

Today, I sent her an email telling her that “The NEXT DEROGATORY phone call or e-mail you send to Keith or place to our home, with references to me, Patricia (middle initial, last name), Sarah (full name) and Thomas (full name), will be turned over to YOUR employer and reported to the police. Patricia (last name).”

It’s funny, because when she gets caught in her lies, when Keith repeats things to her that she has said in other emails that is different than her current thought process, it’s sets her into a tail spin. She can’t STAND to have her words used against. her.

That is what Keith did in an email he sent her at 01:10am this morning. She didn’t like that and her response was so crazy.

She responded at 07:42am to the email Keith sent at 01:10am this morning, saying, “Like you are really up at this hour, pat you did this you made Dick loose his kids so yours could be there. You pushed (her son and daughter) away from their dad so you could control his breathing.”

What a sad pathetic lady. Fact is, SHE made Keith lose his kids, SHE pushed her kids away from their dad by speaking ill of him constantly, sharing their adult problems with them, calling him names when discussing him with them, twisting his words. SHE lost the control she thought she had on him and she can’t stand it so SHE did everything she could out of spite and jealousy to ruin Keith’s relationship with this kids.

One thing that Keith noticed since 1998, that anytime he submitted his summer vacation to the ex, it would eventually be in conflict with her plans. ALWAYS. THIS email was no different.

In this long email she stated that their daughter “didn’t want to be gone longer than two weeks with you, but the time frame doesn’t match to vacation schedule.” She went on to say that their daughter “was trying to do the same thing as I was and coordinate her visitation with my vacation. At which time she chose to spend one week with her grandma and two weeks with you. Now she is upset with you and your attitude towards her and she changed her mind to one week…Once again my vacation for summer and where I go and what I do and who I take along is none of your business. I was trying to make things easier for visitation and it did not work out. (Son) is taking the time off without pay and any longer would probably mean that he would loose his job. He has expressed no interest in visiting or staying with you this summer. If you had tried to be nicer to the kids and quit doing things that make the situation worse and kept your nosey wife our of our personal business then things may have turned out better. I have tried to compromise with you and have been met with a stone wall, I have tried to explain the kids to you and help you develop a relationship with them and you have seen fit to do your own way. Now they are old enough to make their own decisions. Both of them were totally disgusted to find out that you pried into our personal business and check the airlines for who and when we were taking our vacation. This information was none of your business. And you did not act appropriately invading our privacy. Things and situations like this have ruined their respect for you. Proving to them you are more interested in the fight then spending time with them. You have made a mess of a already difficult situation that could have been easier…”

WOW…talk about DEFLECTION. Isn’t this a common narcissitic trait? Accuse someone else of what exactly you are doing?