End of Year Letter

I sent Anthony a letter dated 12/20 sending him Sarah’s school pics. Wished him a Wonderful Christmas.

Sent him a letter today, 12/30. I asked if he Santa was good to him, and if he was able to see his sisters for Christmas.

I told him that we spent Christmas eve with my sister and brother in law and they told me to tell him hi and that my brother in law asked me if I knew how to get in touch with him because he wanted to go fishing with him. I gave Anthony my sisters phone number to call if he was interested in getting together with my brother in law.

I shared that Sarah had a good Christmas vacation, isn’t really looking forward to going back to school, but she knows she has to if she wants to be a police and a doctor.

I told him to have a great new year and be careful celebrating what ever he does, to take care and God Bless him and his family always.

Howdy

(email sent to stepdaughter at 12:32pm)

“Hola Chica,

just wanted to let you know that I am sending the gift out to you that arrived late. hope you like it and all the other gifts we got you. I know that a few of them needed batteries. How many? I will go out and get them for you as well. ok? If you want me to that is.

adios

P~”

December 17, 2000

So weird. So, the ex sends an email at 7:26am and says the Keith makes himself and I “look stupid with all this pettiness.” She also writes, “lets consider the fact that your wife called me at home and told me to come get my kids now. Let’s consider the harassment of my medical providers and not to mention your pettiness in the world of crime when local police officers have better things to do than answer your stupid accusations regarding child custody issues which there are none….And visitation from now on is up to the kids not the court. I am not forcing or pushing it after your stunts you pulled while they were there last. Of Course they were civil and tried to straighten things out what were there choices?”

Keith responds at 9:03am with, “THAT’S RIGHT, SHE DID. SHE FIRST TRIED YOUR MOM SINCE SHE WAS CLOSER, BUT NOONE ANSWERED. LET’S CONSIDER THE FACT THAT THE KIDS WANTED TO LEAVE IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT ANYWAY. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT (SON) ADMITTED THE NEXT DAY, WHEN I TOLD HIM AND (DAUGHTER) THAT WE WERE TAKING THEM TO THE TRAIN STATION TO GO TO THEIR GRANDMAS, (YES I TALKED TO HER EVENTUALLY), THAT HE DID NOT WANT TO GO THERE, BACK TO (EX’S CITY in WA), OR ANY WHERE. HE WANTED TO STAY WITH ME. BOTH KIDS SAID THEY WERE SORRY AND (SON) SAID HE DID NOT EVEN REMEMBER HALF OF WHAT HE SAID THANKS TO THE PAIN MEDICATION HE HAD TAKEN FOR (his physical issue). IF I NEED TO, I WILL HAVE THE DOCTOR COME INTO COURT AND TESTIFY TO THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE MEDICATION WHICH IS WHAT HE WAS GIVEN, THAT CERTAINLY PLAYED A PART IN ALL THIS.

THERE IS NO HARASSMENT (of medical providers.) I AM LEGALLY ENTITLED TO THIS INFORMATION. I AM LEGALLY ENTITLED TO SPEAK TO CONTACT AND DISCUSS ANYTHING ABOUT THE KIDS WITH YOUR MEDICAL PROVIDERS. WE SHARE JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY AND I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO DO SO.

THATS RIGHT, THE COPS DO HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN GET INVOLVED IN DOMESTIC DISPUTES. I AM SURE THE JUDGE, COURT AND YOUR ATTORNEY WILL LOVE TO HEAR HOW YOU FIRST THREATENED ME THAT YOU WERE GOING TO CALL THE COPS ON ME AND THEN ABOUT A DAY OR SO LATER, YOU DID. YOU TOLD THE WATCH SARGENT THAT I TOOK THE KIDS OUT OF THE COUNTY OF SAN DIEGO AND WAS HOLDING THEM AGAINST THEIR WILL. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT YOU DON’T EVEN LIVE THERE! LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT I HAD TO CALL THE KIDS OUT OF THE HOUSE AND PROVE THEY WERE JUST FINE, THEN I HAD TO PROVE THAT YOU NO LONGER LIVED IN SAN DIEGO, THEN I HAD TO PROVED JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY AND A SET VISITATION FOR THAT PERIOD OF TIME, BEFORE THEY ARRESTED ME FOR KIDNAPPING. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT WHEN THIS WAS ALL WAS DONE, THE KIDS HAD ALREADY SPOKEN TO YOU BY PHONE. LETS CONSIDER THE FACT THAT WHEN THE FEMALE OFFICER CALLED YOU TO LET YOU KNOW THE KIDS WERE WITH FINE WITHME, AND HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH THEIR DAD, YOU HUNG UP ON HER AND TURNED AROUND AND CALLED THE WATCH SARGENT AGAIN TO REPORT HER FOR BEING RUDE HANGING UP ON YOU.LETS NOT FORGET THAT WHEN YOU FIRST DROPPED THE KIDS OFF, HOW YOU THREW A FIT IN FRONT OF ME, THE KIDS, (HER HUSBAND AND HIS SON) TOLD THE KIDS TO JUMP IN THE CAR AND YOU PROCEEDED TO SPEED DOWN A RESIDENTIAL STREET AT ABOUT 40 MILES AN HOUR. LETS NOT FORGET HOW YOU WERE TAKING THE KIDS AWAY FROM MEBECAUSE YOU DID NOT WANT THEM TO STAY WITH ME B ECAUSE WE DID NOT LET YOU HAVE SOME COURT PAPERS I HAD IN MY POSSESSION. LETS NOT FORGET HOW YOUR HUSBAND CALLED ME ON THE PHONE AND TOLD ME YOU WERE IN THE BLOCKBUSTER PARKING LOT AROUND THE CORNER FROM ME AND TO GET THERE AND PICK UP THE KIDS! I AM SURE (HER HUSBAND) WAS NOT HAPPY AT YOUR REACTIONS ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF HIS SON. LET’S NOT FORGET THIS HAPPENS EVERY SINGLE TIME I WANT TO SEE THE KIDS. YOU AREGUE WITH ME ABOUT THE TIME, DATE, ANYTHING YOU OVERCHARGE ME IN AIRFARE AND YOU ALWAYS THINK OF WAYS AND EXCUSES FOR THEM NOT TO WANT TO SEE ME.

(ABOUT THEIR CHOICE) THEY COULD HAVE LEFT. I HAD ALREADY BOUGHT THE TRAIN TICKETS TO SAN DIEGO FOR THEM. YOUR MOM WAS GETTING READ ON A MOMENTS NOTICE TO GO PICK THEM UP. IT WAS THEIR CHOICE. THEY DECIDED TO STAY. THEY APOLOGIZED TO BOTH ME AND MY WIFE AND I HAVE A VERY COMPELLING EMAIL FROM YOUR MOM REGARDING THIS LAST VISIT AS WELL THAT I LOOK FORWARD TO SUBMITTING INTO EVIDENCE ALONG WITH THAT THE DOCTOR SAYS ABOUT THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE MEDICACTION HE GAVE (SON). IT WILL PROVE THAT (SON) WAS IN AN ALTERED MENTAL STATE DURING THIS WHOLE ORDEAL.”

Asthma Sucks

In my letter to Anthony today, I sent him a copy of Sarah’s homework for last week that shows “Well Done, Great Job!”

I also let him know that I kept her home yesterday from school because she had an asthma attack during the night and didn’t sleep very well. I told him that this time of year is VERY hard on her with her asthma.

More Letters

Between July 26th and December 8th, I sent Anthony 8 letters, giving him updates on Sarah, sending pics, school work, medical/dental receipts, etc.

In my letter to Anthony today,12/9/00, I let him know that Sarah’s asthma has been acting up a lot lately and that I have been having her use her inhaler a lot more. 😦

November 26, 2000

It’s just the craziest thing reading these emails from the ex. She constantly bags on Keith for not having insurance on the kids (lies) and how our insurance is never any good enough. Well, it’s good for US, and it would be REALLY good for her if she used contracted providers of service. That’s NOT our problem. Her not using the providers she’s supposed to, is at an expense to HER, not Keith.

At any rate, they were emailing about a provider of service. She said/He said type of thing, but it seems the provider she was using is not a contracted provider. How she flipped it is beyond me, LOL! She writes:

“Sounds if you and your wife carry some resentment toward the kids living here. Sounds like you are upset about your choice of doctors or insurance. (son) and (daughter) are your children and in fact were here first before you chose to have another family. So inconvenience is not where we live but that you have chosen to inconvenience your with further obligations. Not my choice nor the kids choice yours my dear. So sorry you must change doctors each year I was unaware that you changed companies that often. Once again your choice.”

Well, the reason he changed insurance companies was a benefit to the kids, but even that wasn’t good enough. Par for the course.

In a response to her he wrote, “LEAVE MY WIFE and INNOCENT kids OUT OF YOU SARCASTIC and malicious CORRESPONDENCE TO ME.”

We’ll see how long that lasts.

Package to L

On 11/9/00 I sent L an email telling her, “Hi L, Just wanted you to know your package has been sent this morning. Have a good day! P~”

The package was addressed to both L and N.

It was delivered this evening, 11/13/00 at 6:19pm.

Beanie Babies

(emailed stepdaughter at 1250pm)

“Hi L,

A teacher came to the class today and with a whole bunch of Beanie babies in a bag she was giving away. She said I can have 4. I got a gray in color scorpion, a rainbow colored bear (I think) named Sammy, a brown squirrel named NUTS, and a pink flamingo named Pinky.

Do you want any of these? If so, let me know so I can get it in the mail, ok? If I don’t hear from you, I will take that to mean no.

TTFN,

Pat”