Month: February 2006

I thought that the ex’s harassment was done, after my Cease and Desist letter to her. Nope. I received an email from a friend of mine who lives in out of state, telling me that the ex started posting on HER LiveJournal blog. Incredible.

You NEVER wanted him back? OH right, you wanted him back, just didn’t want to be married anymore, or to him anyway. LMAO. What a JOKE you are.

Keith didn’t desert his kids for over 6 months. He DEFINITELY supported you. There were check stubs and cancelled checks with your name on them for support, for house payments, for child support. Even you wrote checks out to yourself for cash. So don’t go down that rode at all.

Keith’s daughters didn’t love him very much and they certainly were not confused by my so called “interference.” If it wasn’t for my interference, his oldest daughter wouldn’t have gotten help she asked Keith for at one time. She didn’t seem to have a problem when she came to collect on my interference.

There was no recording between Keith and his kids. LOVE how you keep spewing that. Since Keith had trouble getting to talk to his kids by phone when he called YOUR home phone, he resorted to sending email, you know, easier, faster and cheaper. OH, but lets not talk about that.

He didn’t go to WA because HE had to work, but more to the point, WHY did you keep the kids away from him like you admitted, and more than once don’t forget. Why didn’t YOU follow the court ordered visitation? Why was there ALWAYS SO MUCH CHAOS with you when it was time to discuss visitation? WHY was it always a battle? See, you point that one finger at Keith and I can come back with the 3 pointing back at YOU.

After so many graduation invitations? You only have two kids that graduated. One he couldn’t, and one he wasn’t invited.

GEEZUS, I TRULY hope you seek help.

My (now former) stepdaughter has a public MySpace. While her mother is on my case on MY blog and that of a friends, her daughter is writing to her friend on MySpace, at 3:53pm not only explaining to her friend that the “bitch work” she does at work is answering the phones, filing papers and sorting mail for ” her two supervisors. She said “it sucks d*ck so bad…oh well though…” but she actually wrote out the D word. She also wrote, ” but anyways, I got to start working on a paper about my DAD…so its going to take me a while to write it without crying.. so..”

Her mother has ALWAYS hated my husband and I more than she loved her kids. BUT, it was her daughter that told my husband, her dad to “fuck off”…. how do you write about and cry about someone you said such horrible things to the last several years of his life.

The guilt.

When I clicked on “ex-wife” in her posts, it came up with an email, “sun-rich” and a number at hotmail. When I sent an email to that email, I got an email in return stating that that email address was “unavailable” which tells me that my husbands ex wife made that email for the sole purpose of harassing me.

So while J is going after me on my public blog account, her daughter is talking about her to her friend on HER own public myspace account. At 12:17 am, she tells her friend, “…oh yeah my mom and her boyfriend broke up..I feel bad for her casue shes hurt by it.. but then again Im happy casue thats makes her want to move even more…”

This shows that when J is pissed off about something, she lashes out, Keith and I were her targets.

3 times she wrote that I killed my husband. In her email to me dated 2/8/2006 and her drive by posts on this day.

I called her local PD and was told to send her this letter. I sent this in email and regular mail, of course she didn’t accept the regular mail piece.

“Ex-wife,”

Again, since you like to throw accusations out there without proof, please tell how I did all I could to keep Keith apart from his kids. I’d LOVE to hear about the power you gave me. I do, however, remember you telling Keith to “kick down with the fucking money and you can see your kids.” You’ve also denied him visitation PLENTY of times, so many times you did not foster a relationship between him and your his kids with him, plenty of times you have frustrated his visitations with his kids, playing parental gatekeeper for no reason. Why was her NEVER allowed to call the kids on their cell phones? Why was he always threatened with a lawsuit for harassment if he did? Why was he always told you’d change their numbers and not give him the new numbers if he called their cellphones? Why did you always DEMAND he call the kids on your home phone?

We saw his family often. Why did you deny him visitation making it impossible for the kids to see their family if you were so concerned about it. What business was it of yours anyway? I remember when you and Keith had a conversation about your niece and her “extra curricular” activities (how she lost her weight so quickly). I remember Keith telling you he didn’t approve of that influence and you got pissed off at him, telling him she was YOUR family, you’ll deal with her and Keith had no right to do anything.

My daughter is Keith’s youngest daughter. Your daughter, the middle daughter, got the pics she deserved. She DID tell him to fuck off, after all, so she got what she got from me. How did YOU know what pics I had up on MY website? It’s my belief that you or your daughter saved all the pics you wanted from my website and just feel like bitching some more. That’s your sport. Make up shit in your head as if it were true.

SOOO not jealous of Keith’s past, at all, LOL. Funny how you project. You were jealous of Keith’s present, me and our kids. It always baffled me that you listed all this community work you say you’ve done with kids and then bad mouthed mine like you’ve done. Even almost causing my son to nearly fall off a metal railing when you and Keith met up at the beach as a drop off pick up point for Keith’s summer visitation. You think I didn’t see you peel my sons fingers off the railing, but I did. I saw my son almost fall, so I went to pick him up and take him back towards our van.

My kids are good, considering they lost their dad, the man they loved more than anyone could measure.

Listen to you talk about Keith as if you cared about him. You told him he makes you hate him more and more every day. You’ve called him names for over a decade. You’ve told the kids he doesn’t care about them or care to help them. GTFOOHWTBS.

YOU made his life hell, while you were married to him and after he left you. He told me stories, and I couldn’t and didn’t believe them because I could not imagine anyone being so evil and Cruel, but then, I eventually had to concede, he was absolutely right! He told me that ever time you two fought, you would tell him how you will just marry your Second ex husband because he always loved you, as if you thought that would hurt Keith. Come to read that you wrote on his public social media one time that you have loved him for the last 30 years, which put you both around Junior/Seniors in high school. What` Keith wasn’t going to allow was for your second husband at the time to adopt his kids like you suggested.

Your son stopped talking to Keith, 2-3 years before Keith died. In fact, he told Keith he looked forward to NOT hearing from Keith again. So please, spare me the violin playing “Rest in Peace knowing your children love you and wait to see you again some day.” Pathetic, but I know what you’re trying to do, LOL REMEMBER, there’s two sides…

“Ex wife,”

Yes, there are two sides to every story, and since Keith is dead, I will be answering for him.

Think to yourself, why would you send your EX husband pics of you and your new husband two of the same pics from your “just passing through” Las Vegas wedding?

Oh, PLEASE tell the “too many to list stories” of what I did to keep Keith and all his children from previous marriages…” keep them from what?

Keith was my husband. His relationship with his two oldest kids was established before I came into the pictures, nice try though. Remember, they were already adults, one already had a child, and I even went to one of their weddings, but please do tell your version.

Keith was fat? He was a 6’2” letter carrier, weighing in between 190-200 lbs. He was good.

So now you are accusing me of Killing Keith without evidence, without proof? The stress came from you actually, all your harassing emails and phone calls to him.

Keith’s daughters had a very weird way of showing their deep love for him, a love “more than anyone could measure?” Hmmm… One, your daughter, told him to stop emailing her and stop writing her and told him to fuck off. That’s love? Wow, that’s warped.

The twisted tales you’re trying to spin makes you a liar. You constantly blaming others for what YOU do makes you a narcissist. Remember when you flew off off the handle at me because I bought airline tickets for your kids to visit Keith, and you were in such a rage I nonchalantly asked “did you take your medicine today?” you told me you hadn’t, that you had been giving a certain diagnose, and you were going to be on my door step and I had better be afraid. Right after that, you told me I was the cause of your second divorce, for which a laughed, loudly. Do you remember this conversation? There’s so much more to it.

Funny you mention “ungodliness” because during that same phone conversation, when I told you that Keith and I pray for you, you told me, “ go to hell bitch! Take your God fearing crap and shove it up your ass!” Oh the irony. Yes, in the end God will decide who he will keep by his side and who will perish in hell. Wonder where you will be with ALL the lies you’ve told your kids about Keith to make them hate him and the lies you told Keith and the false accusations you’ve made against Keith, (calling the cops on him, accusing him of taking the kids out of the county of San Diego and was holding them against their wills). Hell, all you’ve done is LIE. You lied to Welfare about the money Keith was giving you. You didn’t put the money into the Revenue and Recovery like they wanted you to. You lied to the CHURCH to get your marriage to Keith annulled, so you can remarry Your then second husband in the church. You LIED to the CHURCH, my GOD. Your wicked lies will be the stepping stones for your walk to hell.

Yes, I hope I get asked more questions! Maybe I’ll have a Q&A and record it so I can write my book! Great SUGGESTION! ASK me! Ask me about anything related to dealing with you, a high conflict ex, ask me about visitation and denial of visitation, ask me anything…

DEATH! I know death is a part of life, but sometimes it could be too much!

I thought about this while talking with a friend last evening during a “meltdown.”

In February 1999, my youngest brother in law passed away. March 2000 we lost my beautiful mother in law. In 2002, my dads wife passed away and in October 2003, my nephew (my niece’s fiance) was killed.

2005 brought the passing of my uncle in June and my best friend and wonderful husband in November.

2006 has already brought the death to the fathers of 3 of my husbands friends/coworkers, one in January and 2 within the last week.

It’s been tough and it really sucks!

Leave you all alone? I’m not doing anything, not trying to get in touch with your daughters friends.

You’re going to “be in the area” (1200 miles from your home) in March of 2006, and you’re going to get a restraining order against ME from ever coming near you or making contact with you? What a joke.

All you care about is money. That’s your God. Why are you so concerned with what I do about my daughters biological father? Her Daddy was Keith, he’s the one that raised her since she was 10 months old. I was working, for many years, but since Keith said, after he was through paying support for his son, that I could take time off and be home with the kids, that’s what I was doing when he died. you’re just angry because you tried to steal money from my kids, and couldn’t. You are a joke, LOL. You’re going to call the Pastor of the Church that Keith and I attended? Go for it. I’m sure I’ll hear about it.

The difference between you being alone with 2 kids and no Keith and me being alone with two kids and no Keith, is that you asked for yours and your daughter got her wish as well. You both got what you wanted, why you mad?

I’m a what? A “looser”? HA HA HA!! You watched the Gospel too? Isn’t that a great movie?

Yep, Keith is dead, not even 3 months yet. I have no doubt that every phone call, letter and email emasculating him, keeping his kids from him, telling the kids he doesn’t care about them, played more of part in the stress you caused him that played a part in killing him than anything I’ve ever done or said. You are just an angry woman, who has never been able to control either of us, so you went through your kids to hurt Keith.

One day, maybe, your kids will know the other side of the story.