Author: Patricia

Wrote and sent the kids a letter 10/24/95 and mailed it today. I asked them how they are doing and that I hope things were going well for them.

I let L know that we got the card with her pictures in it, and that I was glad to see she liked the Benji cards. I told her it looked like she liked soccer, a lot, and asked, “do you?”

I asked N how his team did in Baseball and asked if he is playing any other sports. I asked him how the dinosaur movie was that we sent, if he liked it, was it interesting.

I asked both of the kids if they used the San Art set we sent, if N liked the planes his dad sent, and said that I hoped they liked everything we sent them, that we had fun getting them.

I asked how the weather has been (where they live) that it had been quite chilly at night here but during the day it was real nice, in the low to mid 80’s. I let both kids know that w are all fine here, Sarah was getting nuttier by the day. I told them that she was going to be a Bunny Rabbit for Halloween, and that she puts on her costume every other day or so and hops around. I also asked N & L what they were going to be.

I said, “well, that’s about all for now. I have lots of yard work to do so I’d better close for now. I will write again soon, ok? We all love and miss you. Dad xoxo Pat xoxo & Sarah xoxo”

I sent this letter Return Receipt requested.

L called tonight. Keith only got to speak to her for less than a minute before J got on the phone to yell at him, because she was VERY unhappy about the fact that it was MY writing on the box we sent LAST MONTH. J said that the kids knew it wasn’t from him and that it wasn’t his writing on the box.”

WHAT?! LOL

Keith asked her what difference would it have made if the man on the corner addressed the box or the postal clerk for that matter. The fact is the contents were from both of us. He kept asking her what her problem was now, and she told him that she did not want me writing the kids or send them pictures or anything “EVER!!”

She’s still pissed off about the July incident, clearly.

ANYWAY, we had sent the box on 9-22. It contained presents and pictures from their vacation with us and a letter from me. The kids should have gotten the box on or around 9-25-95. J waited until tonight to call. Either A) her husband had been home this whole time on vacation or work leave or off week, and this was the first chance she got to call, or B) she thought Keith was going to be served papers tonight and was primming him for the moment or C) all the above.

J is premeditating and methodical and Keith was not served tonight.

Earlier today, I took a box to a shipping company to send the kids. It was for both kids, from both Keith and myself. It should be there within a week.

From what I understand, the Fair in the kids is happening. Keith sent the kids some money for the fair today, 8-17-95, via Express Mail.

Seems Coleen got ahold of the court papers David signed for. She returned them to me, postmarked, round stamped with two dates, including two pics of her and Anthonys wedding from November 1994, probably why he never responded to court orders, LOL.

ANYWAY, she also wrote on a small, squared piece of paper, “You are such a fool”

Made me laugh, thinking, “I’m not the one that married him.” LOL

At 830pm on August 8, 1995, MCI called. The representative asked me if I knew a man by the name of Ex Wife#2’s Husbands name. I told her I did and she said, “Great, he gave me your number to join” I told her that the name was my fiancé’s ex wife’s husband, and no thanks.

I called ex’s husband. Ex answered the phone. When I acknowledged her and told her who I was, she immediately hung up the phone.

I made a second attempt to contact ex’s husband on August 9th at 900am. This time he answered. I told him who I was and started telling him about the conversation I had with MCI.

He said he did not do that and asked, “Patricia who?” I repeated I was Keith’s fiancée. Ex’s husband said, “ No, I did not do that. You guys have caused enough heartache in my life.” I chuckled and said, “ well, isn’t that the pot calling the kettle black.” And he hung up.

ALL his life? I just barely saw him in person for the first time in MY life when he dropped the kids off with his wife, last month. Weird.

It seems Anthony received the court copy. The 3811 form from the post office was signed by someone by the name of David today 8/8/95 at Anthony’s house.

Today, my friend Chris sent a copy of custody and court order, from 7/31/95 to Anthony.

My friend Pat and I went to court. I brought Sarah as I had no babysitter, so Pat sat in the hallway with Sarah while I went into court.

The Judge told me I already had custody of Sarah because she lives with me, but I told the Judge that I needed it done legally as Anthony had threatened to take Sarah to Mexico and I would never see her again.

Judge gave me everything I wanted and set Child Support at $258.00 per month, commencing tomorrow, 8/1/1995!

The Ex always tried to play innocent. We knew better. She had called at 6:00 am looking for Keith. He was already gone. All she wanted to know was flight information for the since they missed their flight the day before. I had told her it was 6 am. I had been asleep, and told her I would call her back, I hung up.

She called back and left a voicemail at 630am. When I called her back at 633am, I told her the information was the same as it was for the 23rd and hung up.

She called back at 635am but hung up when the answering machine came on, and when I called her back at 636 am, the conversation did not go well.

She told me that before me, things between her and Keith were just fine. (That’s not what I heard.) she told me this didn’t involve me. I told her it did because at that present time, I was also taking care of her kids while their dad was at work, and that she got me involved when she didn’t listen to her own husband when he told her NOT to talk to me.

Keith used to tell me how she was, but I just couldn’t believe someone could be so mean. I should have listened to him.

During this current conversation with her, she “reminded” me that I have a child without a father. I corrected her and told her my child does have a father who lives in Buena Park and I would be more than happy to give her his address if she wanted. She said no.

She asked to speak to Keith again, and I reminded her that I had already told her he want home. I told her I would be saying the same things to her had he been home and she said, “that’s right, because you have balls!” I said, “ You’re right, I do.”

She again accused Keith of being in violation of the court order, never specifying how, and said, “ so let him take me back to court!” I told her all she cared about was getting money from him, not about who was taking care of her kids and she said, “uh huh.” She said she was going to call Keith at work and hung up. I called her local Sheriff station to report her harassing phone calls to our home and her threat to call Keith and harass him at work.

The kids left this day. WOW….