Author: Patricia

Stepson emailed his dad. He told him he was “Glad to see you in a good mood. If its really you writing me. THANKS for sending the medical and dental info that I have been asking about for TWO MONTHS. Whats with the profanity? Glad to see your the bigger person that can hold an adult conversation. I am shcoked to read what you wrote. To use profanity, when i used non is unbeleviable. For a perosn such as yourself who is a avid chruch goer. I would expect you to have better maners. Thanks fo responding with such dignity Love, (son’s name)” tag line reads “When God misses you, you DIE.”

Color me shocked! At least we now know why I was getting no response from my stepson. He emailed his Dad this evening at 6:26pm.

This email surprised both his dad and I. Stepson wrote, “Dad, Just to let you know today nobody was home and we received on of those slips saying there was something sent to me that was a priority or something. Not like priority matters because I am not going to the post office to go pick it up. I am not going to go and stand in line for 2 hours just for some letter. That could have been mailed regularly. It probably is just some four page letter from PAT. Kinda like the one she sent to the eye doctor in (his mother’s city), HUH! Also I would like to not receive any more emails from PAT. If I wanted to receive emails from her I would have emailed her in the first place. Since I am emailing you and not HER. Any of her emails directly sent to me on my grandmas email will be deleted without being read. LOVE, (stepsons name)”

This email from his son has a tag line, “Trying to be a FATHER now, Is a little to little LATE, Don’t you think?”

WTH? Keith responded at 7:00pm asking his son, “Having a bad day, (son’s name)?”

The more he thought about it, and mulled over the tag line, Keith was not happy. He responded again at 7:13pm. He emailed his son again, “(son’s name), get that hair out of your ass, (son’s name). I don’t know what your problem is. This information is medical and dental stuff that YOU have been asking about. You don’t have to wait 2 hours IN LINE to get it and there is a phone number on the paper to call for redelivery. I sent it you this way so that I would know YOU got it. GOT IT (son’s name)? I am doing the same thing NOW that I have ALWAYS been trying to do, and have SOME kind of communication with you. I don’t NEED this SHIT. Dad”

Spring Break this year, 2003 is not her year and Keith let her know at 1447 today.

He wrote, correcting her. He told her “According to the court papers of July 1998, it says we are to alternate Easter Spring Break commencing 2000, and that if you exercise your this break in your year, I will have an additional week in summer.

2000 was YOUR year, 2001 was my year, 2002 was YOUR year, 2003 IS MY YEAR.

On Jan. 28. 2003 (daughter) sent me an email telling me she decided to come out for spring break this year…”

Ex wrote tonight. The subject line is, ” Patricia.” (ME!) She told Keith back in 1995 or so, that I can “butt out” but she hasn’t allowed that thus far. These are only emails where she has mentioned me and does not include the phone conversations she had with Keith about me, or the phone conversations she has directly with me, but she wanted me to butt out. Yeah, ok.

She told Keith in this email that she “did not have children with Patricia (maiden name). I do not want her correspondence. She has no legal or moral rights to our children. Please inform her that if she does not stop sending me unwanted correspondence especially to my service providers I will obtain a restraining order with the child support modification.

If you cannot stand up to your responsibilities and be a parent then so be it. Don’t put her in your place. No one wants to hear from her. Not (daughter), not (son) and not any of my family. This should be true as your family wants nothing to do with her either.

Stop her from interfering with our children or I will get legal orders to do so. And these orders would prevent you from seeing your children while she is around. You choose either to control your wife or loose your children.”

LMMFAO! OK, she hates me so much that she can’t even accept the fact that Keith and I have been married for almost 7 years now. LOL How do I know? Because she used me maiden name in this email. Bless her heart.

Due to the fact that Keith works the same hours as the insurance companies we deal with, and I work a split shift, I have more time than he does to call them. Maybe SHE should stop bitching about what I do, and do claim follow ups. OH, but that would be too much like being RIGHT, because she would rather bitch about it and take 2-3 months to get eob’s to Keith, and bitch about how he isn’t paying his share of expenses. I do what I do to help my HUSBAND, and if that means calling her insurance to find out the STATUS of a claims, then so be it. It’s NOT illegal. I did this kind of work when I worked at the ambulance company, and I can tell you how many times I was threatened with a restraining order….NOT ONCE.

She never gets it, understands that her insurance company does not tell me the details of the claim, except to say it was paid, pended (and why) or denied. Then I do what I have to do to get the claim processed, either paid or denied. It’s that simple. No invasion of privacy, especially when Keith was court ordered to pay half of uncovered expenses.

Ignorance…..

At 1024 this morning, the ex emailed Keith saying she was giving him 45 days written notice that she was exercising her right to have their daughter during Spring Break this year. She said, “She will NOT be visiting you during Spring Break 2003 due to the court date set for child support modification. We have plans for that week. (ex’s name)”

(email sent to Keith, stepkids, and CC’d the ex)

“for some reason, I can’t print a legible copy of the chiropractor benefit.

Here it is for the time being.

I am also sending the rest of what we have, until the post office opens again on Tuesday, including Kaiser exclusion.

P~”

(at 7:02pm, this email was sent to stepson only)

” N,

here is a copy of what I sent your dad, mom and L.

I know you can’t receive attachments, that’s why I didn’t this to you originally.

I sent your mom and L nfor Kaiser exclusions, Chiropractor benefits, Benefits at a glance, vision and dental (a copy of the dental card).

I will get this all in the mail to you on Tuesday.

P~”

(email to stepkids, and Keith, cc’d to the ex at 4:03pm.)

“HI,

Ok, here is the latest. Just today, we got the Kaiser information so I will make a copy of the medial at a glance again, the vision benefits page and the chiropractic information.

L, I will be sending your Kaiser card.

We are showing in the system for Dental, but we are not eligible until March 1st, 2003.

The group number is 9***-****. The toll free number is 8**-***-****.

This is a PPO plan, so you can go to any dentist.

I will make a copy of whatever we have on the dental too.

Patricia “

(Sent email to stepkids at 2:22pm, 2/04/03)

“Hello, Well I kept Thomas home from school. and had to make a doctors appointment this morning for him. He had been running a temp for the last couple days, and has been real cranky and moody (sounds like a HUNGRY (last name)! LOL) too. I went to give him some motrin last night and I could feel the heat radiating from him.

He lost 2 pounds, and is back down to 50.

Diagnosis is hi allergies are acting up, (he did have a dark spot under his eye yesterday) and he has infections in both ears again. Thankfully his lungs sound clear even tho he is congested, so it isn’t his asthma.

He has to take some amoxycillin for the infection, some hydroxyzine for the congestion and some children’s sudafed for his allergies.

Poor little man, I am going to take him for a physical soon so they can do some blood work on him and perform other tests, but it won’t be until after he finishes his meds.

Have I mentioned lately how much I hate winter and spring because HE is the one that gets hit the worst…ugh. This dang Cali weather doesn’t help either.

We are good here other than that. Hope all is well with you! Lots of love, P~”

SO I took my son to the doctors today and there were no issues. I found out that if any Rx is more than $10 we pay only $10, and if it is less than $10, we pay the price it rings up. I explained this to my stepson in an email I sent him today, when I asked him if he had gone to the doctors yet and if he had experienced any problems. I also let him know how his little brother was doing, and why he had to go to the doctors.

I still haven’t heard from my stepson. No acknowledgment.

(email to stepson at 12:56pm)

“hi N,

did you go to the doctors today? and did you have any trouble? I was just wondering because I had to take Thomas today and there was no problem.

What I did find odd was that if we get a perscription , (not sure if that is how you spell it, but I’m sure you know what I mean;-) ) and it is more than $10.00, we only pay $10.00 (of course) but it if is less than $10.00, we pay the actual price. I don’t think we have ever done that before. I was just surprised by it. Well, that is the experience I had today, and just wanted to pass it on. Also, generic perscriptions are $10.00 or less a piece and Name brand perscriptions are $25.00, ouch!

Thomas has an ear infection in both his ears 😦

He is also congested and his allergies are going nuts. I was given 2 perscriptions for him, plus had to get him some children’s sudafed, plus some chewable vitamins.

I just wanted to see if you had any problems today, if you went.

Adios,

P~”