Author: Patricia

I wrote Anthony asking for his written approval and authorization for me to legally change our daughters last name to my husbands last name. I attached a very brief statement saying he authorizes me to do so.

I left him my emails and cell/pager numbers.

This morning, at 7:08am, the ex struck again. She addressed this one by his first name, Richard, instead of Dick, but I’m sure that’s what she was wanting to write, and most definitely thought.

She writes, “You know I don’t know who you are kidding, but it isn’t me or the kids or anyone else for that matter. And this e-mail proves it along with a rough draft I have in you wife’s writing. ”

Huh? How would she even get her hands on something like that, if it even exists? Probably when she had her kids snooping around, no doubt. ANYWAY…

She says, ” that these and all the other e-mails, correspondence and telephone calls to insurances and providers is not being done by you. In fact, if it was up to you none of this controversy or situations would be happening at all.

The truth as you so stated in this e-mail or tried to make it look like she did something for you. In fact it is pat that is getting into all my business.

She did give birth to our children and had no hand in making them or raising them. She has nothing to do with their being here at all. She has not taken care of or looked after them. So their care or upbringing or visitation is none of her business.

pat has put such a wedge in between richard and his kids and you continue to blame me for your absence.

I did not marry or divorce or have kids with pat so I don’t want anything to do with her. She has no right at all in this situation.

I don’t like her and neither do the kids. We simply put up with her bullshit because you have to.

Restraining orders will be placed if this continues. It none of her damn business what goes on in my life, my kids like or anything to do with us.

Just because you mistakenly married her does not make her anything to us.

Tell her and beware yourself to have her leave me alone. (ex wife’s name).

Ex wrote Keith a little while ago. Her email of 9:41pm accuses me of trying to get information. She writes, ” I checked with my health care provider, XXX aka XXX. and have found that your wife pat has tried to access medical records, EOB’s and other personal information. ” so she now has “password protected these records and I will continue to call all my providers and place passwords to protect my personal information.”

No one CARES about her personal information. Keith and I don’t anyway. Maybe someone else does, but not us. I can call for the status of claims though and will continue to do so.

ANYWAY, she writes more crap about how he is supposed to handle the EOB’s, as if he/we don’t know.

She goes on to say “I have read all court documents since 1990 and I am not required to carry health insurance on the children. To say the extra expense I will be looking into cancelling the insurance for the kids, or at least reducing the coverage especially if you continue to hassle me over insurance for the kids.

Only a few months left to pay for (son) but there is still three years left with (daughter). Get over your hate now. I have. Just so we are clear on this matter. Do not call the health, vision or dental providers I use to the care of (son) and (daughter) or myself. Continuing to do so will result in my termination of the insurance I carry to help lower costs to both of us.”

WTF? We KNOW by law that she is OBLIGATED to use any and all insurance afforded to her, if she tries to cut the kids off her insurance or even reduce it, out of clear vindictiveness, that would be a matter for counsel to be involved with. (didn’t she recently say I was vindictive? HA, go figure…)

While she lives in WA state, County of San Diego still holds jurisdiction of the divorce papers, and according to what I’ve read, “

When Do Children Have to Be Covered By Insurance?

Parents Covered by Health Insurance

Parents who are covered by health insurance, whether government-sponsored or employer-based, are legally required to make sure that their kids are also covered by that plan. Coverage must last until the children are no longer eligible for insurance protection. When parents are married this is fairly simple to guarantee. When parents get divorced, things can become more complicated.

After a divorce, parents are required to keep their kids on their healthcare plan. Parents may only stop coverage if the premiums and plan become cost prohibitive. California law explains that a plan will be considered “cost-prohibitive” if it exceeds 5 percent of a parent’s gross income.

If parents fail to keep their children covered by health insurance they can face some serious legal consequences. Since health insurance is required by law, shirking this responsibility will be considered a breach of child support obligations. This can result in criminal consequences, civil penalties,  and well as have a negative impact on custodial rights.” How Are Health Insurance Costs Factored Into Child Support? – Fernandez & Karney (cfli.com)

SO, let her try. Contrary to what SHE thinks and believes, Keith has ALWAYS covered the kids except when the company he HAD folded in the early 1990’s, but then he was working for the Post office and had coverage. SHE had gone on welfare for a brief time, and said they covered the kids medical. Keith also paid her money that she didn’t tell welfare about, according to a letter she wrote Keith, but I digress.

So, The ex sent an email to Keith last night about canceling an appt their daughter had, until August. She had mentioned in a letter it would be mid July.

He asked her if she had been in Seattle on May 1, because he had gotten a call for 206-342-****.

She responded 06:50 at this morning with, “You fool why would I call you. I am sure you sent out dectective Pat on the trail. I am sure she made the necessary calls and follow ups to be sure it wasn’t me.”

DAMN, how anyone can be so GD CRANKY so early in the morning is beyond me, LOL.

The ex wrote Keith back. Guess she didn’t like being laughed at. She wrote at 06:55 this morning, “So you must have been kicked out of the trailer and are living in the rental rut. Wonders never cease imagine what two income family possibilities are.”

*PSSST! she doesn’t need to know I’m still working, and she doesn’t need to know what plans we have made for our future. 🙂

Keith had to laugh at her response. He wrote back, “ignorance sure is bliss isn’t it? I bet you had a field day with this to the kids didn’t ya!” and just laughed.

MAN. can’t believe it’s Graduation time already!

The ex wrote about his senior pics. and she paid $330 for the package, each sheet is $10. She went on to explain that one sheet is an 8×10, one is 2 5×7’s, one is 8 wallets and she got a 10×13 for herself that cost more than a sheet.

She let him know what announcements are $100 and “only person with tickets can attend” and that she has several people waiting for tickets so if for some reason he cant make it, let her know.

OH WHAT…she says, “Congratulations again on the purchase of your new home I am sure our kids and your kids will be delighted. Too bad you didn’t tell the kids sooner. (her name)”

WTF that means, LOL…

Keith had sent our new address to the ex.

The ex responded with “Congratulations on the purchase of your new home. No wonder you could not afford to see the kids at Spring break.”

GEEZUS, is she for real? He was DENIED Spring break and it was her year to have the kids for Spring Break anyway, LOL…GEEZUS….

I don’t know what agreement Keith had with his dad when we moved into his dad’s mobile home, when his dad moved to his new place, but it was between Keith and his Dad.

We moved from the mobile home to a 3 bedroom house that Keith had talked to the landlord about renting, when he delivered mail to the him.

LOVE IT!!

(09:50 am email sent to my sister, stepkids and their grandmother)

“Sarah and Thomas had their last games yesterday. Thomas’s was at 9am. If I had to pick 2 games that the Lakers lost, it would have been to the team they played yesterday. They played them twice and lost both times, so their record ended up being 8-2… pretty good for little 5 and 6 year olds! His team had a little party but we couldn’t go because it was at noon and that’s what time Sarah’s game was at, so he got his trophy and certificates right after the game. He was SOOO excited!

Sarah and the Mavericks of course ended the season the way it began, with a Win! They beat the Raptors, 31-6! Sarah did really good, she had an assist. Amazing how closer to the end of the season her game improves! There’s always next season! The Mavericks ended the season 10-0. A friend of hers was on the other team so they were cutting it up on the court, but they were having fun! It got to the point that we were all cheering when the Raptors scored their 6 points!

Her team is having a party next weekend at Golf n Stuff, and we are all looking forward to that! She will then get her trophy and certificate.

I’m thinking in Mid May she will start softball practice, and then opening season, or her first game will be June 15th or there abouts! Still not sure what with Thomas…Karate maybe?! lol! Can you see him doing that? He was my dog “Rex” the other day so ANYTHING is possible! LOL! (Weird Kid!!!)

Tonight both kids are singing in the children’s Church choir!

Have a great Sunday!”