Author: Patricia

January 19th- received a letter from the kids. Postmarked 1-16-01. Addressed in J’s writing to “Richard & family”. From L, she wrote thanking Keith(Dad) for the gifts he sent. She “enjoyed the candy, camra, cotton candy and the $70 at JCP’s.” She bought 2 pairs of pants and a sweater.” To Sarah and Thomas, she thanked them for the nail polish and the green lipstick. She said it turns green on her lips. I think it was supposed to turn another color, LOL. ANYWAY, she thanked them for the clips. To me, she thanked me for everything and the gift certificate to JCP. She signed the note, “Love Always, L”

From N- he wrote “Dad, Thank you for $170.00 at JCP” and that he bought 2 pairs of shoes which he really needed and a pair of pants. He also thanked his dad for the FLOOZ money and he got several CD’s with it. He said, “Thank you very much Love N”

2-13-01- sent the kids a package. A notice was left for them on 2-15 at 1:30pm. It was delivered on 2-16 at 3:38.

4-12-01- sent the kids a package. It was delivered on 4-16 at 3:24.

6-15-01- On 6-13-01- we bought L the weblink wireless 2 way device-Talkabout T900 that she requested for Christmas 2000 ($159+tax= $172.79). Mailed it today, insured.

6-17-01- notice was left for the present at 10:20 am.

6-18-01- an attempt to deliver L’s birthday present was made, today, on her birthday at 2:55pm but a notice was left again.

6-20-01- L’s package was delivered at 11:22 am

10-19-01- received a copy of an auto insurance bill with 2 cars listed. One is for N. ($134.63)

10-22-01-sent N a money order for $45- 1/3 of his auto insurance.

10-25-01- letter with N’s insurance payment was delivered at 2:32 pm.

10-30-01-Sent kids package- Halloween candy, and a money order for N for the ACT Test expense. ($25).

11-3-01- package from 10-30 was delivered at 12:22 pm.

12-14-01- sent the kids their Christmas presents.

12-18-01- Presents delivered at 1:13pm

12-31-01- received package from L. It contained our Christmas presents. The package was postmarked, 12-27-01. It was addressed by L, to “Dad and Family D”. it contained 2 hats, 2 pics of L, 1 pic of N, 5 belt buckles, 2-1966-67 medals, and a bag of cookies. It also contained a package of army men “irresistible attack” for Keith, “Infantry” for Thomas, and hair ties and clips for Sarah. L’s card read, “Sorry it’s late, Happy B-day May your holiday be merry and bright. L Love ya”

Spring-1 week- Got the kids from 4/2-4/6- had to share time with ex’s mom. She got the kids from 3/31 and again from 4/6-4/7

Summer- 5 weeks– with (Son)

3 weeks and 4 days– with (Daughter)* https://mspisceangal2020.wordpress.com/2001/08/27/summer-visitation-2001/

last time he saw his son.

Winter Break- 2 weeks DENIED- Kids vacationed with their grandmother and their mother in San Diego. They returned home 1/5. their mother was in town from 12/29.

Ex emails at 904am telling Keith that their “children, (Son) and (Daughter), based on their previous numerous visits for the past 8 1/2 years, and because you are working are refusing to visit you for the mandatory required visit of Winter 2001.” SURE, blame it on the kids.

Then she tells him, “I never stated I would cause a conflict if you tried to get the kids from the San Diego airport. I was referring to the kids.” Really? Because in her email yesterday, she said that if he showed up at the airport to get the kids she would pick a fight with him.

The kids are now 17 and 14. Ex tells Keith in this email, “In the meantime I am going to California, and the kids are going with me. If they decide while we are here that they would like to see you or your family, I will make arrangements to do so. Until then I am sorry it has come to this and hope you find peace to let our children make their own decision about which parent to live with, which parent they want to spend time with, when they want to spend time with that parent, and any other decision regarding parenting.” The kids going with her has ALWAYS been her MO. She just throws a lot of smoke and mirrors up to “play” like she’s “Trying.”

OF course, she can’t write an email without mentioning me. She goes on to say, “One other thing, I will get a restraining order to keep your wife away from me and the kids. This based on her initiating harassment, causing conflict and for the protection of the kids. I feel she is capable of hurting (Son) and (daughter) and has proven so in the past.”

LMAO!! WHAT A CROCK, THIS from the woman who tells me she didn’t take her meds one day and that she was going to be on MY door step and I had better be afraid and that she was going to continue to threaten me until every inch of my body was shaking. UM, sounds like SHE is capable of hurting her kids, and she CONTINUES to hurt them by continually blocking them from seeing their dad, and throw false accusations towards him and I and telling the kids how she feels about him and I.

She ends this email with, “Bring it on was your response from a previous email. I so agree. Last time you brought it on you chickened out and lost. The kids will loose on the whole thing. You can waste everyone’s time in a court room with your accusations and I will walk away still being the custodial parent, and I will get more child support and a parenting plan that works for the kids. Be care what you wish for, you might just get it.”

The ex seems to think that EOB’s that say THIS IS NOT A BILL, is actually a bill and she want’s HALF, BY GOD! Keith asked her, “What is HALF of ZERO?” The claim hasn’t been processed through the insurance companies, but because SHE starts paying on the bills before they are processed through the insurance, she wants half of what she pays as her agreement to the provider. CRAZY, huh? That’s not how it works in the real world.

She didn’t like Keith’s response, so at 11:40am she whips off an email, accusing him of losing his memory as well as his sanity.

Her last two sentences she writes, “Get a hobby and get off of me. Find something productive to do like taking care of your special family.”

SUCH a HATER she is, and so evil.

At 7:35pm she writes again, accusing me of writing one set of e-mails and him writing the other. She goes on and on about the visitation that was to happen at Christmas, when Keith agreed to the 1 week visitation and the other week the kids are with her mother, and how the kids ALLEGEDLY said that there was no point in them coming if he has to work. She tells him, “Quit fighting me, in fact, leave me alone.” Something she also wrote was, “I was trying to work out a compromise between you and the kids. It doesn’t matter now because the kids said that they did want to do that arrangement either.” THEY DID WANT TO DO THAT ARRANGEMENT, but SHE seemed to have put the KIBOSH on it.

Keith wrote her back at 9:03pm, documenting that he will not be getting the kids as court ordered for Christmas. He told her that she KNEW in July that this was what was going to happen and she she still strung him along and agreed to a proposed plan in November.

He documented that the kids were staying him, but then she turned around planned HIS court ordered visitation with HER and her family in San Diego. She accused him of ruining her vacation plans because now she has to “drag” the kids with her, but then she tells him that if he insists on seeing the kids during the week they are in CA, during HIS court ordered visitation, she will leave them at their home and if that wasn’t bad enough, she told him, “If you show up to the airport, I will pick a fight with you!”

OH, but she says she’s never denied him visitation. What a crock.

She had also told Keith that she would be taking him back to court because she wants college money and an increase in support, insurance money for the car she bought her son who has no job, believing she would get all this because her “situation” has changed since she is now a single parent with one income.”

WELL, APPARENTLY, this is not exactly true. Legally, if Keith did not agree to pay tuition in the original judgment or in any subsequent modifications, it won’t happen, that the types of support she THINKS she will get, will only happen if Keith agrees…and he doesn’t.

SO, at 7:56 am, the ex sends Keith an email regarding the kids Christmas “wish list.” She says, amongst other stuff, “Why don’t you just send money since you are the ATM dad. Or better yet gift certificates work great too and you don’t have to mail packages. Whatever your wife decides for you to do would work…I am tired of you giving me a hard time over issues your wife starts. You do whatever you think is best if the kids don’t like whatever you send, they can send it back and you can keep it like you always do. Remember that they are 14 and 17 years old when buying their gifts.” There is a story behind that real snide comment of hers about keeping gifts like he always does. I will write about that later.

Keith sent his ex an email asking her since when is asking for the “status of claims” causing trouble. She was ALWAYS accusing him of being in contempt of court for allegedly not paying his share of uncovered medical expenses, but refused to sent him copies of EOB’s from her insurance. She EXPECTED him to just go by what she told him his share would be. He was like, “NOPE, not gonna happen.” He didn’t say those words, but that’s the gist.

Of course, she made an issue out of us calling her insurance to find out the status of the claims, because it had been time, if not passed time, that the insurance should have paid. Because she was so unreasonable, he told her he won’t ever ask again. He told her, “So you can take the MEDICAL EXPENSE REIMBURSEMENT FROM KEITH off your WAYS TO CONTROL KEITH ISSUES.” She didn’t like that at all. She wrote back at 8:50am this morning, her second email this morning, mind you … “THE ONLY PERSON WHO CONTROLS RICHARD IS PAT. SHE CONTROLLED SO MUCH SHE DROVE HIS OWN KIDS AWAY, SHE PUSHED SO HARD AND THINGS THAT DID NOT CONCERN HER SHE WAS SO JEALOUS SHE MADE SURE HIS KIDS INCLUDING (ADULT son and ADULT daughter he shares with ex wife #1) DON’T COME TO SEE HIM.”

How crazy is THAT? LOL The oldest two kids were ALREADY adults when I came into the picture, their relationship with Keith was what it was. I had nothing to do with it. We saw the kids when it was convenient for them and Keith. One was married and then divorced and one was doing whatever she was doing with her own son young adult son.

THANK GOD for pictures, LOL.

I wrote the kids two e-mails this evening. The first one was at 9:09 pm. It read,

” Here is a picture of my niece Jennifer’s newest pet! lol!

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The second one was sent a few minutes later, at 9:15 pm. It read,

“OH yeah…his name is WINSTON! LOL!

P~ talk to you soon!”

(It was a hamster.)

(sent to stepson at 6:37pm)

“Pat sent you this MSNBC News Link:

Message:

Hey N,

Not sure what email addy you are using, so I thought I would send this to both.

I thought you might find this interesting, if you hadn’t heard about it already. I know you enjoyed Aaliyah’s music…interesting article. Have a good one.

**Aaliyah crash probe eyes plane logs** “

Sent a letter to Anthony with Sarah’s school picture for this year in it. Told him I would send him one of her soccer pics when I get it. I also told him to enjoy her pic and have a VERY happy Thanksgiving.

Good GRIEF… this woman pays no attention to anything or has a very short memory.

Keith had ALREADY agreed to visiting with the kids for ONE WEEK at Christmas so they can spend the other week with her mother (and probably herself too), but in this email today at 8:58am, she tells Keith “You are so mean!” and that the kids were going to stay home since Keith “can’t seem to compromise with them for Christmas.” CRAZY!

She then brought everything up but the kitchen sink. She told Keith she doesn’t “say bad things” to the them” about Keith “nor have I ever” she says. (No? Never? they just parrot what she says about Keith)

She said, “I never gave you permission to record my conversations…” Well, KNOWING that he records her conversations with him and between her and I, and she continues to verbally speak, seems to me to be “permission granted” since knowingly does so.

She said about her kids, “They aren’t stupid, the notice the massive electronic system you have installed to record, manipulate and investigate our lives.” Um, MASSIVE? Did they HAPPEN to take a picture of this MASSIVE electronic system he installed to record? Want to see the truth of our MASSIVE electronic system? This is what we used. I took one picture of the 2 pieces together and then what they look like in other images. LOL…Isn’t this MASSIVE?

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She also says about her kids, “They also notice the locked bedroom door while you are gone.” UH, YEAH, that is the door to OUR bedroom, they need to be in there WHY? So what if the computer is in there, they don’t need to access it while we are not home, but more importantly, WHY are they trying to get into our room? There is nothing in our room that belongs to them. There is nothing in our room that is a necessity to THEM.

She continues, “They notice more time spent with your new family, and the time they spend just sitting around watching tv. They may have other ideas of things to do but are still dependent on you as their parent to make those arrangements and drive them to somewhere other than the trailer park….Or do your little kids run the entire house as well as tell you were to go when they want to go?…You are too busy with your new family to really see the kids you left behind…You did not want to see that the prison warden concept would eventually catch up to you. Your own children will see this too someday and the same thing will happen there. ” Then she takes a crack at him in regards to his older two kids, who are 32 years old and 29 years old and from Keith and his Ex wife #1.

She just can’t leave other people’s kids out of her madness.

WOW, this woman….

She and Keith are talking about Christmas 2001 visitation. She plays games, seriously. She had known, apparently, since October that the kids said “there was no point” for them to come out, allegedly because Keith has to work. Keith called her on the carpet for it, for stringing him along with all the emails and convos about them coming out. At one point she was agreeable Keith would be them for a week, that the airfare would be 50% off and they would be flying out of Spokane. Keith said, “You agreed to all this, knowing the kids say ‘there’s no point.” since I am not off the entire week they are here, and YOU are agreeable with THEIR decision.” He said he is so sick of her games every single time it’s his turn for visitation. She didn’t like this.

In her response to him today at 8:52am she wrote, “… For the amount of time they spend with you they have limited if any visits with their relatives. They may see their grandfather once or twice in 5 weeks as well as their uncle. They did not visit with their older brother and sister at all during the summer. As as for a two year old, he doesn’t know the difference… the kids don’t want to visit unless you have time off work. This is because they have visited before while you are working and they don’t like it.”

Why does SHE care so much of what goes on at our house when the kids are trying to visit with their dad? WHY does she continue to bring up other people who aren’t a part of this situation and WHY does she continue to bring up MY kids? Who has a two year old? My kids are 8 and 4. and are aware and know the difference.

GEEZUS, she is sick.