Author: Patricia

She just doesn’t stop. on this day at 1:46pm she emailed her response to Keith. She writes:

“So sorry to hear that you are so upset you fail to see that in the event of your brothers passing you failed to inquire if the kids could attend or attempted to get them to visit. It is I who is requesting and inquiring for the kids to attend the funeral. You never mentioned it.

Go ahead that let all your relatives see the e-mails and maybe they will see that I am concerned about the kids being there during this time. And rudeness to even tell us when the funeral is or where it is being held seems rather odd.

More odd is that the e-mails you are sending don’t sound as if you wrote them. (son) and (daughter) have been bothered and upset by the loss of their grandmother and even more upset by attitude with me through your e-mails.

How can you turn this around and accuse me of causing stress when I asked you if the kids could attend and you have never even mentioned the fact that they could or not. You never even brought up the subject. You left them out on purpose because of your other obligations.

I fell that their grandmothers passing was in fact an emergency of a family emergency. Obviously you have the family you need there to sooth you during your loss and you don’t need the kids. They understand.

I don’t understand but like you said who cares about me. I am just their mother. Too bad you feel that I can’t and shouldn’t attend Betty’s funeral. I have thought of her often and now God will be able to share her peace in heaven. may God forgive you all the hate you have inside for others.”

UNFUCKINGBELIEVABLE! My mother in law died 3/10/2000, just 4 days ago. Keith has told his ex that he cannot afford to pay for the kids airfare to come out 4 times, BUT he did tell her that if she wanted to pay $356 for tickets (per child) plus any extra expense, she could and he would APPRECIATE it. Why didn’t she do that? Out of the KINDNESS and GOODNESS of her heart? Clearly she didn’t want to. Yet she tells the kids otherwise, blames their dad for all this and tells them their dad doesn’t need or want them there.

THAT is PURE EVILNESS.

Ex was still going on and on about airfare, and attending the with the kids. She can’t be kind or generous and send the kids, by paying the airfare for them, she’s trying to jam him up and guilt him into paying half. Maybe she should use the child support she got to pay for their tickets… just a thought.

Anyway, Keith told her again, that he cannot afford to help pay for the kids expense to attend, no splitting the cost, nothing. He said he wished he could but he can’t. He told his ex he doesn’t need this hassle right now, especially right now. He reminded his ex that his mother just died and he doesn’t need this hassle from her. He told her to not ask again about this issue and he’s told her 4 times already that he cannot help. That was at 1230pm. 4 times in 3 days, WTF is WRONG with this woman!

9 hours later she whips off another email. The subject of this email is (son’s name) and (daughters name) Grandma. She goes on to write:

“Richard, (she started calling him this, or “Dick” which only SHE calls him because EVERYONE calls him by his middle name, Keith.)

More importantly here is the fact that (son) and (daughter) have lost their grandmother. They will not have the opportunity to share that loss with their family as they should. Your rudeness with my concern over the kids and their loss is uncalled for.

This is an emergency and one that could have been organized despite the money so that the kids could attend the funeral. If something were to happen to you would you like to me to say to them that I cannot afford to send them.

I realize that you are not able to afford so that is why I offered to help. Once again you have not said when or where the funeral so that we can attend or send flowers at least.

I knew Betty for over 17 years now and she was always so generous and nice she would want the kids to attend her funeral so that they could be with all of the family during this time. I can still see her when she was still her old self as I never saw her sick and she always wanted her family to get along together and to have peace and love in her home. I know she is without pain and confusion now and now she is with loved ones who left before her. I hope you find the peace that she wanted you to have and that while you share the memories of her with your family you remember her grandchildren who were not able to attend because of money and due to lack of love or caring from (son) and (daughter). May God see you through this, (ex’s name).”

She is HEARTLESS.

Keith wrote her back at 1052pm:

“(ex’s name),

Another important fact is that (son) and (daughter) ALSO lost their UNCLE 13 months ago. They did NOT share THAT loss with their family “as they should” either. Them attending HIS funeral was not an issue. Your TOTAL disrespect to me and my family during this time of loss is COMPLETELY uncalled for.

This is NOT an emergency. The emergency happened when they could NOT revive MY MOM at the nursing home she was in…just minutes before my DAD got there to see her. THAT was the emergency. The viewing and funeral are the AFTERMATH of that emergency.

If you want to send flowers you can send them to my house. My dad is here along with all my other relatives (who, by the way are well aware of your e-mails so far and not appreciating them in the least), and he will be sure to get whatever arrangement you send.

If you want to pay $356.00 for tickets (plus whatever extra fee there is for whatever reason) for the KIDS to attend, an hour and a half service you do that. (I would appreciate it) They can stay here WITH ME of course and they will attend the service WITH ME. I CANNOT afford to spend the money right now, for as much as I would want THEM here WITH ME. YOU, however, are not welcomed to attend. YOU have caused so much stress for us during this time, unnecessarily, it is PATHETIC and SICK! LEAVE ME ALONE, (ex’s name). Keith.”

From the ex at 1130am. Keith emailed her back at 634pm the same day telling his ex thank you, but unfortunately he could not afford to help pay for the kids expense (airfare) to attend.

He told her he would be taking them to the cemetery when they come out for Spring break and they can say their goodbyes. He told her there wasn’t enough time and it’s too expensive for a 24-48 hour turnaround time. He said, “I am sure you can understand this. Thank you for thinking of this though, I appreciate it. Keith”

VERY bad day. The most sweetest, kindest, beautiful woman died. My mother in law. She always had a smile on her face and was so funny! She loved her husband, my father in law, her children, and grandchildren and their families.

RIP Mom, you will be missed.

The reimbursement check I sent to J on 2/18 was delivered today at 12:27pm.

Made a check out to J on 2-16-00 for $11.12 for a claim reimbursement from 11/99.

I mailed this check out today.

Check I sent to J on 2/1 was delivered today, 2/7 at 3:12pm.

For a 10/2/99 claim, the amount due was $11.30. On 1-26-00-I made a check out to J in the amount of $5.65, Keith’s half. Mailed it today.

Here we go, getting accused of impersonating her again. GEEZUS, that is something neither of us aspire to. Is this a narcissistic trait?

At 1148am she emailed Keith and said that the preferred airline told her that SHE was the one that called them and got some discount for the kids. ALL kinds of crazy spewage.

Then she writes, “just like Pat told (her daughter) later she can read the books when she is older and can realize the stuff your wife has started unnecessarily….You can tell your wife to start it up when the kids are ready to leave and are there. Just like usual. Love (ex’s name)”

HUH? LOL

Keith wrote her back later in the day telling her that we got a fax today from the airlines themselves stating that on January 9th I had called into the airlines to request extra time and that the agent assumed in ERROR that she was speaking to the ex. The fax went on to say that I took the MCO’s to LAX ticket counter and paid for both tickets (for the kids visit) on Jan 10th.

The ex emailed back and said that Keith wasn’t being very pleasant “about the proof I have shown you.” what proof? her word?? LMAO…She said “I did call this morning and they did say that Mrs. (her last name) asked for a extension and that I had the MCO’s. Maybe they misunderstood your wife as me. Who knows.” Say WHAT? That’s exactly what they did, bitch.

Keith wrote her back.

“Ex’s name,

I am NOT being PLEASANT about the proof YOU have shown ME? You have shown me NOTHING except HARASSMENT, FALSE ACCUSATIONS, NAME CALLING, DISPARAGING COMMENTS. I know all about your phone call to the airlines this morning and I can really care less about it. The fact is, after your phone call, you IMMEDIATELY turned around and pointed your ALMIGHTY ACCUSATORY (her name) FINGER at us, AGAIN, accusing us of wrong doing and this time it is thru “IMPERSONATING YOU!” You think THAT is something we would be proud of? NOT HARDLY! Not to mention it is illegal to impersonate someone you are not. Besides, if this were the case, why haven’t you pressed charges against us like you said you would the LAST time you accused us of this VERY same thing? I will tell you why… because JUST like the LAST time, We have PROVEN YOU WRONG…AGAIN!

MAYBE they misunderstood my wife as you? MAYBE? There ain’t no MAYBE’S about it! They did misunderstand but you could care less about that! You AUTOMATICALLY POINT THAT ALMIGHTY FINGER and say, “UH… impersonations!” just like always, ALWAYS accusing us of illegal actions and wrong doings. ME and maybe about a handful of other people who were at Dales house on Sunday know. GOD himself knows. “YOUR TONGUE PLOTS DESTRUCTION, IT IS LIKE A SHARPENED RAZOR. YOU WHO PRACTICE DECEIT, YOU LOVE EVIL RATHER THAN GOOD FALSEHOOD RATHER THAN SPEAKING THE TRUTH, YOU LOVE EVERY HARMFUL WORD, O YOU DECEITFUL TONGUE.” PSALMS 51:2-4

Why am I so upset? Gee, I don’t know… maybe it is because you have NOTHING better to do than HARASS me and my wife, falsely accuse us of illegal actions and wrong doings and TOTALLY defame our CHARACTER. Other than that…I am not upset at all. I look forward to the day that I can turn this all over to my attorney and have it brought before the judge.

Don’t tell me to relax. YOU BACK OFF! Go back into your little hiding hold you crawl into when your husband is around…like when the kids were here at Christmas, and LEAVE US ALONE!

You do not merely ask about anything. You ACCUSE and then when I can prove OTHERWIS you TRY another angle…another lie if you will (like telling me the kids are not earning miles…and accusing me and blaming me and TELLING me that I RUINED that benefit (her husband) was helping them out on” or you cry FOUL. this is your MO. the only person who believes your lies is YOURSELF!

The fact is…those MCO’s were received within the last couple of weeks. They were postmarked Dec. 29th. They were applied to the cost of the “Spring fare tickets.” You have been BENT OUT OF SHAPE ever since I told you that I would be applying them to the airfare and have attacked is like a RABID PIT BULL! The very LEAST I can say is that at least I told about them, that I had them and I was going to use them (on Jan.8th, 2000 at 555pm I told you this)…unlike you and your OVERCHARGING me in AIRFARE! Remember that? REMEMBER how MAD you got when you were called on the carpet for THAT? REMEMBER calling my home and cussing out my wife and BLAMING HER for your impending divorce and all the NASTY HARASSING E-mails you sent me following?

Keep it up (her name)- I will continue to prove you wrong EVERY STEP OF THE WAY….from EOB’S and REIMBURSEMENTS to anything you THROW my way. I have had it with you and your CONSTANT LIES and HARASSMENT, you wrote on 1-4-2000: “there is no reason why we shouldn’t be able to continue that relationship with each other…I thought it would be ok and it has never been ok, You make sure of that.” Remember that one?! TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR (her name), AND YOU WILL SEE WHY WE CAN’T AND WHY IT HAS NEVER BEEN OKAY!

GET OFF MY BACK AND LEAVE US ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” He later reminded her that on January 9th, he told her that there was an extension on the date to purchase the tickets.

A person can only take so much, and he was at his limit.

What did she write about me? It doesn’t make sense, as usual.

When they decided to have kids? I know what Keith told me, and it seems she’s trying to make it sound better than it was.

She was 6 months pregnant when they got married. Had it not been for that reason, he wouldn’t have married her. Then, she asked him to leave when their youngest, their daughter, was 2. Let’s not romanticize it, ok?

From the looks and sounds of it, she is the one continuing “that relationship” with Keith, combative, difficult, lying all the time, disrespectful. Nothing has changed.

She’s been married twice and about to divorce hubby #2. They were married maybe 7 years. She divorced Keith after maybe 5 years. What does that mean “and don’t have to visit their kids when it is over a fight and court papers”? She has a very sketchy visitation record at best, meaning, prior to 1998, between 1993 when she moved out of state until he took her to court for a set visitation, it was a constant battle for him to see his kids, before, during and after. So, it sounds to me like she KNEW and never admitted until this email, inadvertently I might add, that she withheld visitation.

She’s right, it’s never been ok SHE has made sure of that, and it was never ok prior to me.

I have posted many emails of her talking about me, not too many of other things she has said to him in the past, but if you could read those entire emails? You’d see how evil and rotten she has been to him. THAT is fact.

She says GOODBYE. So dramatic, LOL. It’s never been goodbye. Who is she kidding?