~This Is My World~

SO, at 7:56 am, the ex sends Keith an email regarding the kids Christmas “wish list.” She says, amongst other stuff, “Why don’t you just send money since you are the ATM dad. Or better yet gift certificates work great too and you don’t have to mail packages. Whatever your wife decides for you to do would work…I am tired of you giving me a hard time over issues your wife starts. You do whatever you think is best if the kids don’t like whatever you send, they can send it back and you can keep it like you always do. Remember that they are 14 and 17 years old when buying their gifts.” There is a story behind that real snide comment of hers about keeping gifts like he always does. I will write about that later.

Keith sent his ex an email asking her since when is asking for the “status of claims” causing trouble. She was ALWAYS accusing him of being in contempt of court for allegedly not paying his share of uncovered medical expenses, but refused to sent him copies of EOB’s from her insurance. She EXPECTED him to just go by what she told him his share would be. He was like, “NOPE, not gonna happen.” He didn’t say those words, but that’s the gist.

Of course, she made an issue out of us calling her insurance to find out the status of the claims, because it had been time, if not passed time, that the insurance should have paid. Because she was so unreasonable, he told her he won’t ever ask again. He told her, “So you can take the MEDICAL EXPENSE REIMBURSEMENT FROM KEITH off your WAYS TO CONTROL KEITH ISSUES.” She didn’t like that at all. She wrote back at 8:50am this morning, her second email this morning, mind you … “THE ONLY PERSON WHO CONTROLS RICHARD IS PAT. SHE CONTROLLED SO MUCH SHE DROVE HIS OWN KIDS AWAY, SHE PUSHED SO HARD AND THINGS THAT DID NOT CONCERN HER SHE WAS SO JEALOUS SHE MADE SURE HIS KIDS INCLUDING (ADULT son and ADULT daughter he shares with ex wife #1) DON’T COME TO SEE HIM.”

How crazy is THAT? LOL The oldest two kids were ALREADY adults when I came into the picture, their relationship with Keith was what it was. I had nothing to do with it. We saw the kids when it was convenient for them and Keith. One was married and then divorced and one was doing whatever she was doing with her own son young adult son.

THANK GOD for pictures, LOL.

I wrote the kids two e-mails this evening. The first one was at 9:09 pm. It read,

” Here is a picture of my niece Jennifer’s newest pet! lol!

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The second one was sent a few minutes later, at 9:15 pm. It read,

“OH yeah…his name is WINSTON! LOL!

P~ talk to you soon!”

(It was a hamster.)

(sent to stepson at 6:37pm)

“Pat sent you this MSNBC News Link:

Message:

Hey N,

Not sure what email addy you are using, so I thought I would send this to both.

I thought you might find this interesting, if you hadn’t heard about it already. I know you enjoyed Aaliyah’s music…interesting article. Have a good one.

**Aaliyah crash probe eyes plane logs** “

Sent a letter to Anthony with Sarah’s school picture for this year in it. Told him I would send him one of her soccer pics when I get it. I also told him to enjoy her pic and have a VERY happy Thanksgiving.

Good GRIEF… this woman pays no attention to anything or has a very short memory.

Keith had ALREADY agreed to visiting with the kids for ONE WEEK at Christmas so they can spend the other week with her mother (and probably herself too), but in this email today at 8:58am, she tells Keith “You are so mean!” and that the kids were going to stay home since Keith “can’t seem to compromise with them for Christmas.” CRAZY!

She then brought everything up but the kitchen sink. She told Keith she doesn’t “say bad things” to the them” about Keith “nor have I ever” she says. (No? Never? they just parrot what she says about Keith)

She said, “I never gave you permission to record my conversations…” Well, KNOWING that he records her conversations with him and between her and I, and she continues to verbally speak, seems to me to be “permission granted” since knowingly does so.

She said about her kids, “They aren’t stupid, the notice the massive electronic system you have installed to record, manipulate and investigate our lives.” Um, MASSIVE? Did they HAPPEN to take a picture of this MASSIVE electronic system he installed to record? Want to see the truth of our MASSIVE electronic system? This is what we used. I took one picture of the 2 pieces together and then what they look like in other images. LOL…Isn’t this MASSIVE?

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She also says about her kids, “They also notice the locked bedroom door while you are gone.” UH, YEAH, that is the door to OUR bedroom, they need to be in there WHY? So what if the computer is in there, they don’t need to access it while we are not home, but more importantly, WHY are they trying to get into our room? There is nothing in our room that belongs to them. There is nothing in our room that is a necessity to THEM.

She continues, “They notice more time spent with your new family, and the time they spend just sitting around watching tv. They may have other ideas of things to do but are still dependent on you as their parent to make those arrangements and drive them to somewhere other than the trailer park….Or do your little kids run the entire house as well as tell you were to go when they want to go?…You are too busy with your new family to really see the kids you left behind…You did not want to see that the prison warden concept would eventually catch up to you. Your own children will see this too someday and the same thing will happen there. ” Then she takes a crack at him in regards to his older two kids, who are 32 years old and 29 years old and from Keith and his Ex wife #1.

She just can’t leave other people’s kids out of her madness.

WOW, this woman….

She and Keith are talking about Christmas 2001 visitation. She plays games, seriously. She had known, apparently, since October that the kids said “there was no point” for them to come out, allegedly because Keith has to work. Keith called her on the carpet for it, for stringing him along with all the emails and convos about them coming out. At one point she was agreeable Keith would be them for a week, that the airfare would be 50% off and they would be flying out of Spokane. Keith said, “You agreed to all this, knowing the kids say ‘there’s no point.” since I am not off the entire week they are here, and YOU are agreeable with THEIR decision.” He said he is so sick of her games every single time it’s his turn for visitation. She didn’t like this.

In her response to him today at 8:52am she wrote, “… For the amount of time they spend with you they have limited if any visits with their relatives. They may see their grandfather once or twice in 5 weeks as well as their uncle. They did not visit with their older brother and sister at all during the summer. As as for a two year old, he doesn’t know the difference… the kids don’t want to visit unless you have time off work. This is because they have visited before while you are working and they don’t like it.”

Why does SHE care so much of what goes on at our house when the kids are trying to visit with their dad? WHY does she continue to bring up other people who aren’t a part of this situation and WHY does she continue to bring up MY kids? Who has a two year old? My kids are 8 and 4. and are aware and know the difference.

GEEZUS, she is sick.

Trying to set up Christmas visitation for this year. Keith had emailed her and reminded her that he is entitled to two weeks at Christmas whether he is working or not, but he has agreed with the kids for them see their family in San Diego for one week. He said he also knows that SHE has told him on the phone and through emails and that she has expressed to the kids that his home is a prison and that I am a prison maiden and he is a warden and that we are mean and he is stubborn.

She didn’t like that. She accused him of listening in on her conversation with them. She said she knows they wouldn’t tell him anything unless she told them to. She went on to say, “You are too strict with them and not strict with your own children.”

She said, “I tried to explain what they are accustomed to so that you could hopefully blend your parenting and family with them with little or no difficulty. You did not listen and you told me that it was your home and things were to be done your way. That is one of the reasons your daughter came home early, that and you lost your temper with her.”

She is DELUSIONAL. Good grief. She acts like we JUST became a blended family. Keith and I have been married since 1996, LOL. The kids stayed with me for 4 days in December 1994 when Keith had to go to work the day their grandmother was to pick them up. WHO is she kidding?

On 10-15, I sent Anthony a certified, return receipt requested letter, reminding him of the support provisions from July 31, 1995, regarding paying one half of all uncovered medical, etc. expenses.

This letter was delivered to his house today.

Ex writes back, “Attacking innocent kids?? What are you doing to (Son) and (Daughter). Are they not innocent children also are they not your kids?…They are teenagers and I am sure they hear swearing not only from you and your wife but from kids at school. Get over it.

Calling me names and accusing me of being a bad parent won’t release the guilt you are feeling over treating your children the way you do or allowing your wife to treat them badly either. I am done with this and with you. Good luck in continuing to build the relationship with the kids. FOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOOFOFOOF”

She is PATHETIC.

Yesterday, Keith emailed his ex telling her that “Children learn what they live” because of her “FO” comment.

He said “you telling me “FO” and I know exactly what you are saying in this email as well as all the others in which you cuss me out not to mention all the phone calls you have made to my home as recently as when the kids were here, along with the fact that (daughter) has taken up cussing at me in emails…”

The ex wrote back one sentence. “Then this would explain why your children are brats and cry whenever they don’t get their way.”

Remember, this woman has works with the public, is/was involved with KIWANIS and this is how she speaks of another mothers children? WHY is she attacking MY kids? They have nothing to do with this. They are innocent in this. Keith told her this.