~This Is My World~

It’s been a day for phone calls, each hanging up on each other. Him because he doesn’t want to deal with the trouble she’s trying to cause a few days before visitation, and SHE because she doesn’t like what he has to say. WHEW…

The ex is not happy that Keith gave her a C+ rating as a parent, back in April 2000. Hey, SHE called and asked his opinion on her parenting, so he gave her a C+, OK rating. Apparently she wasn’t happy about it and had been stewing on it all this time.

ANYWAY, during this conversation today, she started hassling Keith about the kids not wanting to be dropped off at the house if HE was not home.

She called me a “fat bitch” several times, accused me of listening in on their conversation, (no, but it was being recorded) and told him that her kids are very good kids, they are very respectful, very well mannered, they have a lot of respect for people and how she doesn’t want them to treat anyone disrespectfully, including anyone that he introduces them to. HMMMM, really? Interesting.

Further on in the conversation, after threatening him YET AGAIN with taking him to court, she tells him, “I don’t want you around, I don’t want to have to deal with you at all.” Ya don’t say…..

Maybe she got into an argument with her ex husband or boyfriend, who knows, because she was definitely ON ONE. During a moment of clarity, she told Keith, “ and I know you got short changed on this whole deal. I know you did, I know I screwed up, I know that they should spend more time with you and I all I can do right now is try and fix it from right now. That’s all I can do. Should have spent more time with you, should have had more time with you, should have been around you more, should have everything. Ok, well, I realize that now, I realize that that was a decision made at a time when probably wasn’t a good decision and now I think we should have done something differently.”

SAY WHAT?

She goes on to tell Keith how he “doesn’t know them.” Keith said “Well, there’s only one way to get to know them is to be around them, right?” She said he’s right, she agreed, they need to spend more time with him, and she’s trying to work it out. Sounds like she’s (pretending) to think she’s going to move back to CA.

Personally, her words are all B.S. The kids are due here on July 21st, and this is what usually happens prior to visitation.

Ex called at 4:54pm

P- Hello?

J- is Keith there?

P- no

J- hung up.

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SO…the kids are supposed to be here on July 21st. EX emails from her mom’s email address at 5:35 pm and tells Keith that he ISN’T going to pick up the kids on Saturday the 21st because 1. the kids don’t want to go on the 21st and 2. because he couldn’t get time off work to get them.

She said he is welcomed to pick them up on Sunday that he mom will be happy to meet him at a local restaurant, that he is NOT going to her mom’s home.

She said the kids do not want to be dropped off at our house if she is not home.

Because she was not being cooperative with giving Keith information about the school his son was going to try out those 3 days, she tells him, “I do not and still have not received any formal plans for (sons) school I know what dates she is scheduled for but did not know until Monday of this last week what the times were…. You have no right calling the school. You did not make any arrangements and did not pay for this and if I find out further that your wife called just another reason for me to see my attorney while I am here.”

7 days before visitation….

sent to Kids and their grandmother 7/09/21 10:16am

“I have been told by several family and friends that they are having trouble sending me e-mails, because of the address from the original e-mail I sent.

here is my new e-mail address.

p*******@p**b***.net

I hope this is all cleared up now, so frustrating! LOL!

Have a good one…

P~ “Never go a day without laughing” (tagline) “

The ex wrote Keith back at 6:29pm. She’s really pissed off about an email Keith had sent to her ex husband. Keith didn’t know he was her hex husband, but whatever. SO she tells Keith that he “stepped over the line” emailing her ex husband. She tells Keith, “you need to get control of your own home before you start telling others to control me….Restraining orders would be including your wife calling me a work, your wife calling me at home, your wife calling my own dentist to tell them I have changed my own insurance, your wife calling my friends, your wife contact my doctors and then accusing me of being on anti-depressants, your wife contacting any of my immediate or otherwise family, your wife e-mailing me without my permission to use my email address and so on and so on.”

I never called her a “work.” LIES! I called her to talk about airfare and visitation, since she permitted me to, she also permitted me to call her at work, I didn’t call HER dentist, I faxed them, I don’t even know her friends, unless she’s talking about the guy that got sent to prison for his part in the “Westbrook Case” and THAT was because Keith asked me to gather information on that situation, and SHE is the one that told me she was taking “medication.” Her immediate family, her mom and her mom’s husband are cool people, and I don’t have to have her permission to e-mail her. Like she told Keith in the beginning of this email, ” Unlike the telephone or your door, You don’t have to answer or even open the e-mails I send you.” We don’t have to answer the door or the phone either.

She goes on to say about the kids, “I feel sad, sorry and just plain bad that they are forced to stay in that hot no-air conditioned trailer for the hottest part of the summer while you go to work in air-conditioning. I feel sorry for them that…they have to spend so much time with someone they don’t want to spend any time with at all. Give them one piece of gripe, treat them badly just once, put your other kids before them and see what happens, see how they react. You had better treat them with the utmost respect. I can say whatever I want whenever I want you don’t own me. Get on with own life and leave mine alone. You must be so jealous that you continue to find ways to invade it and find out about me. What are you looking for? A way to destroy me, to kill me to be sure I don’t bother you well look whose bothering who here….LEAVE ME ALONE you jealous, envious, and malicious freak. take your “disparaging comments’ and stick them where only you can see up your wife’s butt.”

GOOD LORD, LOL…if she isn’t taking meds, maybe she needs some.

Keith responded to her email of June 19th. He told her that she was the one that sent HIM an email from a different email address on the 9th and he just responded to it. He wrote, “Once again, you are falsely accusing me of invading your “personal privacy” when YOU yourself are the one that sent me this information.

He also told her that her harassing email will be a matter for the courts to handle when she tries to get a restraining order against him and I.

So, in a box addressed to “Richard’ return address from J, postmarked 6-26-01, Keith received L’s Motorola Talkabout gift she asked for and we bought.

Well, we can’t return it, since it was all set up for her, so I guess we have another gadget to use.

L emailed her dad today at 11:33 am. She told him that she and her mom were looking at the Motorola Talkabout. She told him there would be no point to have it because she would have to go out of the city every 4 days and that “that would be stupid to do that” and she doesn’t know if they are going to move back to CA but if they don’t there would be no point. She said she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings, but there be no point “thank you for it anyways.”

The ex CALLED. One of the many thing she told Keith was that she was getting a restraining order against me to be around HER kids. Who knows what grounds she has, but I’m sure she will try with a whole bund of lies.

What I know is this:

1 She would have to go to court in San Diego.

2 She has to hire an attorney or appear herself.

3 She has to give notice before any of this happens.

4 She has to show grounds for her requested orders.

5 The grounds that would be granted are: If I strike the kids, if I sexually molest the kids, if I am lying to the kids about things that are causing problems between her and the her kids.

I know that just because she doesn’t like me isn’t going to work. The judge will look at it for what it is, Ex wife doesn’t like wife. How could a judge grant a R/O when the kids visit with their dad, I LIVE in the same house and have a child with their dad. No one would expect me to move from my home when her kids are around.

She has made all kinds of threats SO often. If she tries, She has a history of threatening me, lest she forgot.

She also said,

J- there’s not reason for emails to go to other people not involved in this situation. I know that there are emails being to sent to other people including (her now 2nd ex husband).

K- yeah

J- that is not called for

K- well do what you think you have to do.

Because Keith raised his voice, ok was yelling at one point, our son started screaming crying. Keith tells his ex

K- you know what? I’m not listening to this anymore.

J- NO, because you got 2 screaming babies underneath your feet that are more important that your other two kids!

K- KISS MY ASS!

P- Will YOU HANG UP!

J- hung up.

During the call, she vacillated between getting an R/O against me, us, not quite sure, and asking Keith if he was going to help with college expenses for a certain school their son was looking at, but both the ex and his son refused to tell him anything about the school or send him any information on it. Just wanted money, the rest is none of his business, as usual.

EX EMAIL at 7:44am! LOL I just can’t imagine waking up and being pissed off every single day.

She tells Keith, I mean, “Dick” as she writes, that she only has one email address and accuses him of snooping, threatening that it will only get him deeper in a hole he is digging.

She then said she is an “individual and do not assume or have ever assumed anthers name that is not my own.” Well, he’s never gone by the name “Dick” or “Richard” and yet she calls him those names.

She lets Keith know that she is “no longer married to (her now ex husband apparently), as you have probably snooped around to find out. I have not been married for some time now and IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. MY PERSONAL LIFE IS JUST THAT MY PERSONAL LIFE. It has nothing to do with the raising and taking care of my children. “

HOLD THE FUCK UP: Just 6 days ago she told Keith that what goes on in OUR house DOES concern her if it “effects” her kids. OH WAIT, she was OBVIOUSLY KIDDING because she KNOWINGLY said, EFFECTS and not AFFECTS. SURELY she jests, LMAO.

She also said that what goes on in her house is none of her ex husband’s business. She writes, “So are you happy now that you can dig into my personal life for what reason. Just because you are JEALOUS. I am warning you again and telling you for the best interest and that would be for the kids, that you will stay out of my personal life. I will not tolerate your actions any longer and will seek legal advice to obtain a restraining against you and your family from any other contact than child visitations. My life is just that my life. If I hear of any more incidents where you are snooping into my life without my consent I will sue you.”

OH THE THREATS…Google her name, she’s out there, LOL…

She’s TRIPPIN’.

Had a chat with L on Messenger at 9:09 am today. Asked her if she knew that the Talkabout she wanted was also a pager and that she can send and receive emails. She said ok then asked if it will work in her city and told me that if it doesn’t, there would be no point in having it. I told her no, but she was given a toll free number and it would hold her messages for 96 hours (4 days) or until she got into a covered service area. I told her she can use it while she’s in San Diego, there was partial coverage there and she can use it while she’s here in LA. She confirmed she would have to go out of her city, to like a Seattle to check the email.

I asked her if she thought it was like a walkie talkie, or something like that, or did she know it was a pager/email. She said she knew it was like a pager/email but that she would be able to use it in her town, and that if she can’t, and that she would have to go out of her town every 4 days to get her messages, then there would be no point, but when she comes down here, she could probably use it. I told her the areas in WA that are covered areas, and a couple places in Idaho and of course here in LA when she moves back to Cali.

I also let her know that there is a lot of stuff she can use with it, even a voice mail and the rep gave me the instructions to set up her voicemail. She confirmed that she can activate it when she is here, but when she is in her town, she could shut it off. I told her that we have it activated for her now, and that her dad was going to pay the monthly bill every month. Told her we had to activate here because she is a minor, and that her dad will pay the activation bill every month as well. She thought she could deactivate it every month, but I told her it would require getting a new number and go through all that rigamaroll again.

She asked about IM’s. I told her no, just email back and forth. I explained to her what constitutes a message (100 chars/140 chars is 2 messages) and that she is allowed 1000 messages a month. She said “ok, thank you.”