Author: Patricia

Trying to set up Christmas visitation for this year. Keith had emailed her and reminded her that he is entitled to two weeks at Christmas whether he is working or not, but he has agreed with the kids for them see their family in San Diego for one week. He said he also knows that SHE has told him on the phone and through emails and that she has expressed to the kids that his home is a prison and that I am a prison maiden and he is a warden and that we are mean and he is stubborn.

She didn’t like that. She accused him of listening in on her conversation with them. She said she knows they wouldn’t tell him anything unless she told them to. She went on to say, “You are too strict with them and not strict with your own children.”

She said, “I tried to explain what they are accustomed to so that you could hopefully blend your parenting and family with them with little or no difficulty. You did not listen and you told me that it was your home and things were to be done your way. That is one of the reasons your daughter came home early, that and you lost your temper with her.”

She is DELUSIONAL. Good grief. She acts like we JUST became a blended family. Keith and I have been married since 1996, LOL. The kids stayed with me for 4 days in December 1994 when Keith had to go to work the day their grandmother was to pick them up. WHO is she kidding?

On 10-15, I sent Anthony a certified, return receipt requested letter, reminding him of the support provisions from July 31, 1995, regarding paying one half of all uncovered medical, etc. expenses.

This letter was delivered to his house today.

Ex writes back, “Attacking innocent kids?? What are you doing to (Son) and (Daughter). Are they not innocent children also are they not your kids?…They are teenagers and I am sure they hear swearing not only from you and your wife but from kids at school. Get over it.

Calling me names and accusing me of being a bad parent won’t release the guilt you are feeling over treating your children the way you do or allowing your wife to treat them badly either. I am done with this and with you. Good luck in continuing to build the relationship with the kids. FOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOFOOFOFOOF”

She is PATHETIC.

Yesterday, Keith emailed his ex telling her that “Children learn what they live” because of her “FO” comment.

He said “you telling me “FO” and I know exactly what you are saying in this email as well as all the others in which you cuss me out not to mention all the phone calls you have made to my home as recently as when the kids were here, along with the fact that (daughter) has taken up cussing at me in emails…”

The ex wrote back one sentence. “Then this would explain why your children are brats and cry whenever they don’t get their way.”

Remember, this woman has works with the public, is/was involved with KIWANIS and this is how she speaks of another mothers children? WHY is she attacking MY kids? They have nothing to do with this. They are innocent in this. Keith told her this.

Keith noticed his daughter has major attitude towards him. She tells Keith that his daughters attitude is ALL HIS. LOL…She tells him, “She won’t be putting up with your crap because she is seeing the real you…You did this to yourself. You and your wife cause this problem and saw it coming back in 1995…you aren’t seeing what kind of problems your wife is causing between you and your kids. You are blind and ignorant to reality and fail to understand or even try to understand your kids. FO”

We all know what “FO” means….I have done NOTHING. She needs to look in the mirror. The kids don’t parrot things I say about their dad. They parrot their mothers horrible things she has said about their dad.

SO, Keith got the kids on July 21st. They were supposed to stay for 5 weeks, from the 21st of July until August 25th.

His son stayed until the 25th. His daughter though….She left on 8/15 PISSED off.

Keith and I has asked her prior to the 15th, if she was going to to go the fair in her home town. She said she didn’t know. Keith asked her frequently what her plan was. She couldn’t give him a straight answer.

She was in our room, on our computer and as Keith was talking to her, he had seen something she wrote one of her friends. She told whomever she was messaging something to the effect that she “didn’t know what was wrong with my father.” The fact that Keith addressed her about it, she got pissed and accused him of reading her email.

According to what we knew, the Fair started on 8/14 and ends on the 18th, so she has a few days to go still.

We had to pay 50.00 to change her flight.

I sent that email yesterday to J, regarding N and same paid, but I forgot to cc N. So I did that today at 4:19pm.

(email sent to Stepson, cc’d Keith at 3:19pm)

“N, I forgot to add you to the list when I sent this e-mail to your mom about the appt.

Sorry

P~

“Never go a day without laughing” “

The Ex didn’t like my email. She emailed Keith. “There is no reason why Patricia needs to be e-mailing me. You are the parent of (son) and (daughter) and if they need medical attention it should be you who takes care of it not your wife.”

GEEZUS….

Checked email. I see that J emailed back in response to my email to her regarding her son and the pain he was feeling, doctor visit, etc.

She emailed at 5:51 am. She wrote, ” Do not e-mail me again.”

WOW…color me NOT shocked.