Going To The Doctors

This woman is SOMETHING else… GOOD LORD.

J called Keith at 10:14 am.

P- Hello?

J- Is Keith there?

P- Nope

J- Well, I’m taking (SD) to the doctors and she hung up.

I called (SD)’s phone number and got the voicemail. Then I called J’s phone and she hung up on me. I called J again.

J- Hello?

P- Is she ok?

J- OBVIOUSLY NOT if I am taking her to the doctor!

P- What’s the matter with her?

J- I don’t think it matters to you- I’ll talk to Keith when he wants to call me back.

P- You’re a bitch! I hung up.

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6:45 ex called again.

P- hello?

J- Is Keith there?

P- handing the phone to Keith, “It’s J” I tell him

She has issues. She’s pissed that he sent a letter to her, addressed to her and all the last names she’s ever had. She’s pissed that she called this morning and it is now 7 pm and he has not called back. She hates our insurance, calling them a joke, bit quality care, it’s OK, it hasn’t changed in 15 years and it’s just a mass produced medical. She paid $35 out of pocket, $25 for rx and $10 just to go in. She said (SD) has a sore throat, just wanted Keith to know, and that it’s probably similar to what J has had the last 3 weeks. Keith ask where his daughter was and J said she was in the back seat of the car. They argued, and J said of ME, “Let me tell you a few other things, I don’t have to tell anything- I don’t have to tell her SHIT!” She asked if he was ready to “settle up” with visitation, and Keith just laughed and told her how he felt, settle up? Nothing to settle up, she tells him when he can see the kids and how long, etc. He just waits for her to let him know. She said she will have to get to her mom’s and look at a calendar.

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8:35pm- J called back and left a message.

J- Richard, this is J, calling you back about the um, visitation. bye.

8:50 pm- Keith called J back. She has to call him back.

9:25pm- J called Keith. He can have the kids from the 13th to the 27th, pick up and drop off in San Diego.

No Texts ALLOWED

J called Keith this morning at 9:34am.

K- Hello?

J- Hi, it’s J, if you would like to speak to either of us, just call us. Please do not text us anymore

K- you ordering me?

J- No, kids always have their phones, unless battery dies, it’s just better that way.

Yeah right. Wonder why he can’t text his kids, and is forced to call on their landline phone. Let’s see, is it because she is recording the conversations? If that’s the case, SHE would be breaking the law because WA state is a two party consent and she NEVER sent him a formal letter telling him of her intent, like HE did after the July 1995 fiasco.

  • Washington’s wiretapping law is a “two-party consent” law . Washington makes it a crime to intercept or record a private telephone call, in-person conversation, or electronic communication unless all parties to the communication consent. See Wash. Rev. Code § 9.73.030 (1) .

http://www.dmlp.org/legal-guide/washington/washington-recording-law

Idiot

Yep, she called him an idiot in her email to him earlier at 2122. She said, “you are truly an idiot.”

She told him that calling her medical provider is in fact, “against privacy laws.” LOL…not when it concerns HIS KIDS.

THEN she writes, ‘Impersonating me as their mother by Patricia (my last name) is a felony, accessing airplane records also a felony, invasion of privacy medical and professionally also a felony. Court will definitely work on my side. It will be your word against mine as to why you have refused to pay for your kids and refused visitations several times over the years due to your lack of money, homes, and stability. bring it on, see you in court sweetie. just do what you are supposed to do and quit fighting with me.”

GEEZUS, all these felonious actions, and yet, she has NEVER brought it to her attorney, or if she did, they didn’t bring it up. Gee, wonder why? Because she’s full of shit? Yep, that must be it.

Thomas

(email sent to m y family, my best friend, my stepdaughter and her grandmother at 1:51pm)

“Hello everyone,

Well, today was Thomas’s last appt for awhile. He has to go back to his ENT doctor in 3 months, and back to his *GI doctor* in 6 weeks.

*GI Doctor* said the diagnosis for Thomas is “e********s.” I have attached the link (I hope it works) for you to look at instead of me writing it. (its better this way! LOL)

He did write Thomas a prescription…we need to continue this “cocktail” for at least a year if not longer… We give it to him once a day. The doctor said we CAN go the radically route and put Thomas in the hospital…but he recommends this trying this way first. He said we can give him 1-2% milk.

*GI Doctor* said even though we may feel like it, we are not the only parents in the world who have a child with this problem, that he actually sees about 70 patients a year with it…that was comforting.

So…that is about all for now. Talk to you soon!

Hasta Luego!

P~”

Thomas Hearing Test

(email sent to my family, my stepdaughter, and her grandmother at 11:27am)

“Hello Everyone!

I hope this finds you all well!

I took Thomas to his hearing test appointment this morning, and then to his ENT doctor.

There are no problems in his right ear and in his left ear, he has less than 10% hearing loss. The doctor said that he isn’t too worried about it right now, that he won’t put in tubes again at this point, but he wants to see him again in 3 months. He said it could go either way, get worse or correct itself within the next couple of months, and at that time, we will discuss options.

Thomas wasn’t too worried about the test or anything because he was too excited about his Party today! He is going on a field trip to the library in a couple weeks from now, so the party and his field trip are his two main focus points right now! lol

His next appointment is on April 15 with the GO, and I will let you know how that goes!

Take care!

P~”

Like Mother, Like Son

Again, his son responded, “get over it!!! i dont care. DONT EMAIL ME.” This was at 11:02am. He sounds just like his mom. Keith responded at 6:26pm, “Love ya (son’s name), Have a great weekend. Love, Dad”

The Beat Goes On….

Stepson was not happy that Keith wished him well. He wrote Keith again today at 1:29pm. “what dont you understand!!!!!! I dont want to recieve emails from you. i DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU HALF TO SAY. I DONT CARE!!!! i dont care about how you are treated or your problems there yours not MINE!!!

At 1:38pm, Keith responded, “then tell your mother not to include you in the emails she is sending me. I don’t have problems (son’s name), do you? “Half” to say? what is “half”? Love dad”

About an hour later, Keith wrote his son again, “Hey (son’s name), I love you. Dad”

NOT an April Fools

Keith’s son emailed back at 12:49pm, writing, “YES, don’t email ever again. i am tired of you bull shit and half truths. i am tired of your lying and your unnecessary stress that you cause when you email. besides everytime you email its always about how i every time respond to your email. look whose calling the kettle black. if you want to start BRINGING up the past like you always do. then maybe YOU have the problems and maybe YOU need to see a therapist because whats in the past is in the past and theres no useing bringing it up if it already happened. if you had a problem then YOU should have voiced YOUR concerns when the problem occurred. looking forward to NOT hearing from you”

Keith responded 12:54pm, “no problem. Have a great life son…best of luck to you always. Love dad.”

Keith knew his ex wife accomplished what she set out to do….

April Fools

Damn, the guy cannot catch a break.

Keith and his son had been emailing back and forth for a few day. Keith shared concerns with his son about his daughter and his son apparently took it the wrong way.

Part of his son’s email read, “well, the only reason I wrote back to you the first time was because u asked my OPINION on the situation, so if u want to keep bringing up past and then claim that you don’t know what i am talking about, when i respond to your questions, maybe you shouldn’t email me anymore. it would save everyone the UNESSARY stress that you are so concerned about”

Keith responded to his son, and the last paragraph (3/3) he wrote to his son, “Apparently you are unable to respond to my emails or concerns without copping an attitude. If you don’t want me to email you, let me know now, you apparently don’t have anything to say to me, unless it is a slam or bad mouthing and if my emails cause you unnecessary stress, let me know. Love, Dad”

Sarah and Thomas

(sent this email at 1:49pm to stepkids and other family members)

“I forgot who I told what and when, so forgive me if you heard it before. 🙂

Yesterday when I got back to work in the afternoon, I was told that one of the students in Sarah’s class, at lunch time, had thrown a rock (out of anger, but not aiming for Sarah) and it hit her in the head. I was told that the student was suspended for one day, today.

It was bad enough that no one called me to tell me anything, even though Sarah’s friend asked the Principal to call me, the Principal said to just wait and see how she is doing after awhile. GRRR! I was then told that right after it happened, 3 of the kids went to tell their teacher and their teacher said, “Well, I didn’t see it happen” and was planning on doing NOTHING until Sarah proved by showing that she has been hit with the rock and that she was in fact hurt and crying because of the incident! THANK GOD the skin was not broken, but there was definite signs that she had been hit by a rock.

She seemed quiet when I was there yesterday, and last night, she was complaining of a headache, so I have her an ice pak for it and she fell asleep. She got up ok today, then as I was saying goodbye to her, she started complaining that her head was hurting again, so I asked the Principal if she had any children’s motrin. Of course, there wasn’t any, so I told Sarah I would be in touch with her in awhile. My concern was that she jerked her head back from the hit, she pulled a muscle in her neck.

I came home and called her doctor and got her in to be seen. The doc said just keep putting cold paks on a couple of times a day and something for pain and rest. She said that Sarah can rest and relax today and she can go back to school tomorrow. She did say that it could take awhile for the pain to totally go away and that the boy that threw the rock owes her a written apology, and some anger management. She also said that it is normal to have neck pain with an injury like this, but Sarah seems to be moving her head well.

Sarah will be at my neighbors house when I leave to go back to work today. She doesn’t want to go back today. 😦 (My neighbor has already asked her if the rock broke, LOL I had to laugh at that one! Sarah even chuckled! LOL)

I had a meeting with Thomas’s teacher on Monday. She said that she has no plans to hold him back, which makes us happy. She did say though that if he does get held back, it will be in 1st grade. She said she is going to mandatory him to go to summer school, and we think that’s a great idea.

Last night at a reading meeting, we met (indirectly) 3 1st grade teachers. We are not sure how the principal chooses which students she puts with what teachers, but I think I will be talking to the Principal to see who will be the best for him. Keith and I both have different teachers in mind, so if it happens to be either one, that’s fine:-) Thankfully he will still be going to speech therapy come fall. On April 2nd, he is getting an award during their assembly, for MOST IMPROVEMENT! THIS is a secret! 🙂 I got the letter yesterday from the principal, but his teacher told me the other day. We are so excited and proud!

Thomas has an appointment with the GI doctor on Monday the 31st. Since taking him off Milk, he has been doing MUCH better. Then he has 2 appointments on April 11th, one with the audiologist and right after with his ENT doctor to see if he is going to need tubes again, hopefully he won’t need them, but it is possible.

Well, I think this is about all that is new, or old 🙂

Hope all is well with everyone, and until next time, Take care!! P~”