Author: Patricia

Poor lady, driving herself crazy trying to figure out if Keith is writing his emails. Of COURSE he writes his emails. I write emails from my email address, and either one of us will write emails from the OUR account. That’s how it works. Unfortunately, she has made herself and therefore her kids believe that I write EVERYTHING. Bless her heart. Remember though, she KNOWS he can write because WAY back in the early days, after he left her in the late 80’s, she wrote him and said that they can’t even write each other without arguing, or was it fighting? I’m not sure but I know for sure it was one of those words. ANYWAY…

SO TODAY, this morning at 1140am, she emailed Keith with the subject line, “Not you,” She said, “Richard, ” and went on to say that because she cannot “verify that I am actually talking to or dealing with only you, I will no longer accept e-mails or written correspondence from you. Should you need to speak to me regarding, legal, medical or any other matters concerning (daughter-first and last name) please do so by telephone. I will not accept recorded telephone conversations between you and I. I will not accept your mail by US postal service or by e-mail. You have my home phone of ***-***-**** or my cellular phone ***-***-****. Please use either phone as of this date forward. Thanks for your cooperation, (her first and last name)”

I thought they weren’t running a business. When he got “business like” in his emails, she told him, “we aren’t running a business, we are raising kids.” This sure sounded like a business email to me.

She won’t accept recorded telephone conversations? Too bad. She was told via letter, back in 1995 that he would only talk to her and her husband at the time, that way because of the harassment he received from her, and from her making a false police report and almost getting him arrested.

If she wants her child support that she’s ALWAYS complaining that he is not paying, or he needs to send insurance information, she better accept his mail by US postal service.

What the hell? LOL….

So I sent Keith, his ex and the kids an email with this information at 12:01pm.

I wrote, “Good Morning Deacon, I called (our insurance) this morning and we are showing in the system, so N can go back to the doctor when it is convenient for him.

I also called (reciprocity insurance) to give them all the information needed for L (only) and they said they would update their system once they verify eligibility with (our insurance) and then send out a new card and whatever else they are going to send out to her.

We are not showing up in the system for dental insurance, but more than likely we have (Dental insurance). Their number is 888-***-****, group # is ****-*. Cindy at (dental insurance) said that it is not surprising we are not in the system, as they are backlogged. This is the insurance we had the last time we had (medical insurance). We can go to any dentist and (Dental insurance) will pay 100% pf the fee schedule, and then it will be forwarded on to J’s insurance for more processing.

That’s all the information I got so far. I don’t think J’s insurance will pay for N’s co pay’s so…N, if you go to the doctors, send us a copy of your receipt and we will reimburse you some of it, ok?

Hasta Luego,

P-“

I wrote Anthony back on Jan. 8th reminding him of his outstanding balance of $289.14. Sent copies of receipts or recent expenses, included in the outstanding balance.

On Jan. 31, I sent Anthony another letter regarding this issue. I told him to please respond as soon as possible of his intention to comply with his support obligation. I let him know that if he failed to respond by 2/28, legal action to enforce his obligation may be taken. I left my phone number and email to contact me.

Anthony received this letter today.

Dated January 30, 2003, I wrote:

“Anthony and Coleen,

Here is the information Anthony, that you need for the Audit at your job site.

I hope this information gets to you in enough time for the audit. I noticed that between the dates of the Memorandum and the postmark on the envelope is a lapse of 14 days.

If there are any changes or problems, PLEASE let me know, ASAP!

Thank you and God Bless…

Patty”

I also sent a letter to Anthony’s Risk Management Dept at his job:

” To Whom It May Concern:

Enclosed are copies of the information required for your audit, a copy of our daughter’s birth certificate, as well as copies of Custody papers, and the Court order to carry health insurance. I thought I would cover all angles simply because of the time frame. I only know that this audit will take place sometime “next week,” so I can only hope this gets to you in time. I noticed the date on the memorandum is dated Jan. 15, 2003. Mrs. R (Ant’s wife) wrote her request on Jan. 24th, but didn’t mail it until Jan. 29th, and I got it today. 15 days is a longtime span when it comes to important information like this.

Should you have any further questions or need any further information, please do not hesitate to call me, Thank you. Patricia (full legal name) “

Mailed both letters today, Jan. 31, 2003

Post marked 1-29-03, letter dated 1-24-03- she writes, “Patty, We need a copy of Sara’s birth certificate A.S.A.P. to continue her health benefits. Here is a copy of our notice in case you want to verify it. Thank you Coleen.”

I received this letter today.

The Memorandum was dated January 15, 2003. The Audit was taking place the first week of February. Wonder why it took so long to get it to me… No I don’t, LOL.

Documents required for the Audit for Dependents on Health Plans, for Dependent Children says, “birth certificate, adoption papers, custody documents.” They DID have a copy of the custody papers, but SHE returned it to me. Go figure.

I took care of it, of course. Nice try though….

(email I wrote to my step daughter at 10:15am)

“Dad says Thomas remind him a lot of Uncle Johnny.

Thomas got the “Mystery Box” yesterday, so today, he is putting the race car he got for Christmas in it and the kids have to guess what it is. Who ever guesses, gets to take they mystery box home tonight, and bring it back tomorrow.

He is just waiting and waiting to become the Superstar again. They are almost to T, but not yet.

He had speech yesterday, and got a glow in the dark ruler that he thinks is sooo cool. He loves it.

hasta luego, P~”

(Stepdaughter responded at 4:18pm)

“Hey .. thats too funny!! WAY TO GO THOMAS!!! i WONDER where he gets that lol Good job Thomas you are so Awesome .. Gotta LOVE that Boy.. Love L”

(email send to stepkids at 9:30am)

Hola! Just a quick little story…

We went to my sisters house yesterday for Superbowl, and just after we left last night, we turned the corner, and our friends daughter that was with us, (her name is Kristalynn, she is 6 and Thomas is in love! :-)) starts saying, “Thomas has to throw up! Thomas has to throw up!” so I turned to look at him, (dad was driving) and sure ‘nuf, Thomas had his hands over his mouth trying to hold back until he gets out of the car. (I figured he had eaten too much chicken or something just upset his tummy) We are just around the corner from Michele’s house, so dad pulls over, I jump out of the car, Sarah opens the side door, she jumps out, and I am practically pulling Kristalynn out the car trying to get Thomas out of the car. I am telling you…ORDEAL!

Anyway, I get Thomas out, and tell him to just get sick on the sidewalk right where we are and I turn around. I didn’t really want to look. So he does his thing, wretching noise and all, and then he looks at me and starts LAUGHING! That little POOP was JOKING! He wasn’t sick at all and he and Kristalynn planned this little ordeal TOGETHER! LOL! Sarah and I looked at each other and started cracking up! Dad was like, “What happened? he was KIDDING!?” LOL!

Oh my gosh that was sooo funny! I can’t believe the twerp played us like that! LOL!

This is one for the memory books! 🙂 CRAZY KID!! His new phrase that he likes to say now is “Gracious Me!” LOL!

P~”

It’s Saturday, same bs, different day from this lady. She emailed Keith this morning at 1025am, not happy about his last email to her from last night.

In this email, she tells him that he “enjoys this and it shows. You have nothing better to do than to set me straight. Funny, the pictures were deleted and I did block any and all incoming e-mail that has pat (last name) name in it. Why would you even send me the pictures anyway. You have no life, no hobbies and it shows.”

HUH? LOL, a really cute picture of Keith and his daughter was sent to her, her mother and her daughter on 12/29/02. She told me she always wanted another picture of Keith, and said Thanks. She didn’t HAVE to respond to it, since it came from me. 😉

CRACKS me up how she lies, or maybe she forgets. We are in 2003. There are MANY letters and emails and phone calls between her and I by this time, yet, she seems to NOT recall that, I guess.

This morning, at 0749, she responded to Keith’s e-mail address that her contact with him is “regarding our children (son) and (daughter). I do not and will not speak to anyone in your family other than you regarding them. My dealings are not with Pat and I block and will continue to block any and all messages from her and with her name in the e-mail address. I do not have to accept or deal with her for any reason. I don’t have to like her or talk to her for any reason. I have to deal with you because of the kids but as soon as (daughter) is 18 any and all communication will cease. I made a mistake several years ago and have done my time. “

Um, I guess she forgot that several years ago, she was told by MYSELF and her then 2nd husband to NOT talk to me. She couldn’t help herself, she still did. Over the years, she would get pissed off that I answered the phone, she would get pissed off that I didn’t answer the phone, even when I wasn’t home to do so, LOL.

How petty and immature of her.

At 1329, Keith responded back to her. He laughed. He thought her email was funny. He told her, and I’m not sure why he wrote in all caps, but he said, “HA!HA! THANKS FOR THE LAUGH. SO IN OTHER WORDS YOU WILL RESPOND TO EMAILS WITH HER NAME IN IT WHEN THEY CONTAIN A PICTURE OF ME AND (DAUGHTER), BUT YOU DELTE THE REAL IMPORTANT THINGS LIKE INSURANCE INFORMATION? INFORMATION YOU ARE ASKING FROM AND HASSLING ME FOR? OK, GLAD WE GOT THAT STRAIGHT. THANKS FOR CLARIFYING.”

At 2012, she responded back that she had deleted the pictures he sent and blocked the email address at that time. WHATEVER.

Keith wrote her at 2100, forwarding an email from December 30, 2002, where she wrote me and said , “I have always wanted another picture of Richard. Thanks” saying, “sure looks that way.”

He is just so through with her. He would REALLY like to just deal with his kids, but she doesn’t allow that.

He isn’t allowed to text his daughter or call her cell, he doesn’t have his son’s cell phone number, and both kids rarely, if ever, answer his emails anymore.

She cannot let that grip she has on those kids, loose. What is she afraid of?