~This Is My World~

The ex called after 9pm tonight and last night. Keith sent her an email about this…setting boundaries.

He wrote, “(ex’s full legal name), First of all, DO NOT call my house past 830pm AGAIN, unless it is an emergency. It is the second night in a row that you have done this. Last night you called from your cell phone, two times between 914 and 915 and neither time did you leave a message. Tonight you called (from your cell phone) my home 3 times between 923pm and 925pm. Your harassing phone calls are not wanted. Have a little consideration for other family member in my home that are sleeping, like the minor children that live here.

I will be at El Cajon Police Dept. like we agreed and like you told me on June 23rd when you called. I will be there on July 13th at 12pm. If (daughter) is not there, like you threatened in one of your 3 phone calls to me tonight, between 923pm and 925pm, then that is on YOU and your mother since she is the one dropping her off.

If (daughter) is not there, then I will let those people that need to know that I was denied visitation again and that you constantly and continuously interfere with my visitations.

Keith”

he cc’d his ex mother in law as well

Of course I am to blame for the reason Keith’s daughter doesn’t want to come visit. His ex sure projects a lot, but that’s a known given, so we just consider the source.

She emailed this morning and told Keith, amongst other things, that his daughter “At this point I am afraid for my daughters care in your home. As proven by at least two visits to your home that she was mistreated by your wife and you. She left on her own after you upset her and she does not have to stay with you or me for the matter if she is upset… she makes her decision to visit based on your actions and the way she is treated at your home and by your wife…the rest of your family would be in agreement to this and charges can be filed against your wife…Why doesn’t your wife and you get another hobby and quit wasting your time and my time on researching and filing and complaining. Can’t you do anything better with your life.”

Charges filed against me? for what? LOL…Funny how she constantly threatens to file charges and yet…never has. She knows she has no case. She knows we/I have a case against her and I don’t think she wants to go down that road.

What does ” the rest of” Keith’s family have to do with this? Just like HER family has nothing to do with anything, neither does his.

By the way, the reason for her email is because his ex told Keith that her mother would be the one to drop off their daughter. Because of all the harassment Keith has received, and now it’s coming from her mother, he said he would make the exchange at the El Cajon PD. His ex had told him that PD is HIS chosen place, not her daughters, so she will let her daughter “chose the place” that this was not up to Keith at all. She told him “If you keep this up you are going to upset (daughter.)”

Keith responded with an email citing Penal Code’s 277, 278.5 and 784.5 He told her at the end of the email “I told you, and I WILL tell you again, I am not playing your game. If you want visitation changed to suit you, then it is up to YOU to change it, not me. I am only looking to ENFORCE what I already have, and don’t get. YOU are the one that told me on June 16th, 2002, that you would be contacting your attorney after you moved to change visitation. You did not. There is still a court order in full force and effect regarding visitation. YOU are the one in contempt of that order, beginning the summer of 2001, (when (daughter) left early, because you enticed her with the fair), and continued Christmas 2001 (denied), Spring 2002 (denied) Summer 2002 (denied). It is all documented. My attorney has been made aware and the El Cajon police dept has been made aware too. That is it, and that is all. Keith CC: her attorney”

Their daughter was not a part of these emails, so Keith told his ex, “Lets get one thing STRAIGHT right here and right now. IF THIS is all upsetting (daughter), maybe you, (ex wife’s name) should quit talking to her about it. I know I am not talking to her about it, which is what you do all the time, and is a VERY big reason why she has the attitude she does concerning me. The Truth of what I am saying will come out. It always does. Keith”

Definitions:

Penal Code 277 https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=PEN&sectionNum=277.

Penal Code 278.5 https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=278.5.&lawCode=PEN

Penal Code 784.5 https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=PEN&sectionNum=784.5.

The kids grandma called at 4:58pm. She hung up then called back at 5:02pm and left a message, asking Keith to call her back.

The kids Grandma accused Keith of calling her yesterday, from her mobile home park. He told her no way, he doesn’t even know where she lives, that he called her from the payphone of her local PD and she can call and speak to the Sgt. he spoke to at the time.

She was just insistent that he called from her mobile home park, that she had called the operator to check the number that showed up on her phone and it was traced back to her M.H. park. Keith told her unless someone ELSE called from there, but it wasn’t him and he wouldn’t lie to her, he has no reason to lie to her.

Just crazy. I don’t know if she believed him or if she believes he called from the gate at her park, but whatever. I was with him and I KNOW where we were when he called.

Asinine….

Seems she’s kinda well known in her town. She was quoted in her local paper regarding Identity theft, and talked about what the biggest safety precaution to take would be.

I’m not sure what what Keith read, but he sent her quote to her and said, “And you yelled at me about this very thing and your town paper couldn’t get it right! HA HA HA! I gotta thank them for the laugh.!”

this morning at 0716am, She responded, “this has NOTHING to do with our children and is an invasion of my privacy. I will be getting a restraining order against members of your family from being near me or my children.”

HUH? what does one have to do with the other? She was quoted in a public paper. How is that an invasion of her privacy? A restraining order for what? LMAO

Oh well, lookie here, the ex sent an email to Keith, and cc’d her mom and her mom’s husband and her daughter. WOW….

Aside from that, this woman is just rotten. this email she wrote, she told Keith that their daughter changed her mind to visit from 7/13-7/27, and she wanted to stay with him during this time.

She said if she had to, she, the ex, will get a restraining order against ME from being within any distance of her daughter and her. What a goddamn wingnut this lady is.

She goes on to spew more, then tells Keith, “Reach down grab hold and talk to me on the phone or don’t bother at all….Back off or you will loose her just like (son)”

She’s always had a problem with word loose and lose. SMH….

J called Keith at 8:37 pm, from her mom’s number.

P- Hello?

J- Keith there?

Keith got on the phone and of course they argued.

J- You have lost your children because of your attitude!

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9:10 pm- J called after receiving a text from Keith

Keith- Hello?

J- what’s going on?

K- what do you mean what’s going on?

J- what’s going on with text message on my phone?

They argued more.

K- you need some real mental help, you know that?

J- Yeah and it will come in 2 years when she’s 18! J hung up..

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9:12 pm Keith called her back.

9:22 pm- J called Keith back from her mother’s phone, just RAGING, and now she got her daughter involved and got her daughter all upset. They first agreed he would get the kids from 6-29 to 7-13. J changed it to 7-13 to 7-27. Keith told J he was going to drive down on the 29th to pick up his daughter. If she wasn’t there, he would file a police report ad contempt charges at the local PD, and have her thrown in jail.

J told her daughter this information. When L spoke to Keith, he said she was very upset and crying.

J got back on the phone because her daughter just handed the phone to her, and J said to Keith, “You happy? Don’t ever threaten to throw me in jail again!” Keith did remind her of the summer of 1995 when she called the cops on him and almost had HIM thrown in jail because she LIED to them. https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/filing-a-false-police-report.html

https://apps.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9A.84.040#:~:text=False%20reporting%20in%20the%20first%20degree%20is%20a,as%20a%20proximate%20result%20of%20an%20emergency%20response.

This woman is SOMETHING else… GOOD LORD.

J called Keith at 10:14 am.

P- Hello?

J- Is Keith there?

P- Nope

J- Well, I’m taking (SD) to the doctors and she hung up.

I called (SD)’s phone number and got the voicemail. Then I called J’s phone and she hung up on me. I called J again.

J- Hello?

P- Is she ok?

J- OBVIOUSLY NOT if I am taking her to the doctor!

P- What’s the matter with her?

J- I don’t think it matters to you- I’ll talk to Keith when he wants to call me back.

P- You’re a bitch! I hung up.

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6:45 ex called again.

P- hello?

J- Is Keith there?

P- handing the phone to Keith, “It’s J” I tell him

She has issues. She’s pissed that he sent a letter to her, addressed to her and all the last names she’s ever had. She’s pissed that she called this morning and it is now 7 pm and he has not called back. She hates our insurance, calling them a joke, bit quality care, it’s OK, it hasn’t changed in 15 years and it’s just a mass produced medical. She paid $35 out of pocket, $25 for rx and $10 just to go in. She said (SD) has a sore throat, just wanted Keith to know, and that it’s probably similar to what J has had the last 3 weeks. Keith ask where his daughter was and J said she was in the back seat of the car. They argued, and J said of ME, “Let me tell you a few other things, I don’t have to tell anything- I don’t have to tell her SHIT!” She asked if he was ready to “settle up” with visitation, and Keith just laughed and told her how he felt, settle up? Nothing to settle up, she tells him when he can see the kids and how long, etc. He just waits for her to let him know. She said she will have to get to her mom’s and look at a calendar.

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8:35pm- J called back and left a message.

J- Richard, this is J, calling you back about the um, visitation. bye.

8:50 pm- Keith called J back. She has to call him back.

9:25pm- J called Keith. He can have the kids from the 13th to the 27th, pick up and drop off in San Diego.

J called Keith this morning at 9:34am.

K- Hello?

J- Hi, it’s J, if you would like to speak to either of us, just call us. Please do not text us anymore

K- you ordering me?

J- No, kids always have their phones, unless battery dies, it’s just better that way.

Yeah right. Wonder why he can’t text his kids, and is forced to call on their landline phone. Let’s see, is it because she is recording the conversations? If that’s the case, SHE would be breaking the law because WA state is a two party consent and she NEVER sent him a formal letter telling him of her intent, like HE did after the July 1995 fiasco.

• Washington’s wiretapping law is a “two-party consent” law . Washington makes it a crime to intercept or record a private telephone call, in-person conversation, or electronic communication unless all parties to the communication consent. See Wash. Rev. Code § 9.73.030 (1) .

http://www.dmlp.org/legal-guide/washington/washington-recording-law

Yep, she called him an idiot in her email to him earlier at 2122. She said, “you are truly an idiot.”

She told him that calling her medical provider is in fact, “against privacy laws.” LOL…not when it concerns HIS KIDS.

THEN she writes, ‘Impersonating me as their mother by Patricia (my last name) is a felony, accessing airplane records also a felony, invasion of privacy medical and professionally also a felony. Court will definitely work on my side. It will be your word against mine as to why you have refused to pay for your kids and refused visitations several times over the years due to your lack of money, homes, and stability. bring it on, see you in court sweetie. just do what you are supposed to do and quit fighting with me.”

GEEZUS, all these felonious actions, and yet, she has NEVER brought it to her attorney, or if she did, they didn’t bring it up. Gee, wonder why? Because she’s full of shit? Yep, that must be it.

(email sent to m y family, my best friend, my stepdaughter and her grandmother at 1:51pm)

“Hello everyone,

Well, today was Thomas’s last appt for awhile. He has to go back to his ENT doctor in 3 months, and back to his *GI doctor* in 6 weeks.

*GI Doctor* said the diagnosis for Thomas is “e********s.” I have attached the link (I hope it works) for you to look at instead of me writing it. (its better this way! LOL)

He did write Thomas a prescription…we need to continue this “cocktail” for at least a year if not longer… We give it to him once a day. The doctor said we CAN go the radically route and put Thomas in the hospital…but he recommends this trying this way first. He said we can give him 1-2% milk.

*GI Doctor* said even though we may feel like it, we are not the only parents in the world who have a child with this problem, that he actually sees about 70 patients a year with it…that was comforting.

So…that is about all for now. Talk to you soon!

Hasta Luego!

P~”