Author: Patricia

Ex wrote back this afternoon at 4:28pm and said, “Pat cried to me on the phone about 5 years ago telling me about him. How else would I know that he was in jail for selling drugs. Who cares who I am friends with or who I know.”

She also said, “Go ahead and tell whom ever and send whomever whatever emails you think are appropriate. You will always and continue to make yourself look stupid with your antics. I am sure any man, woman or child who has spent time with your wife knows her well enough to know her knows what she does and how she does it.”

What do I do and how do I do it, pray tell, Lady…. LOL HOLY MOSES….

At 4:31pm she whips off another email to Keith telling him, “Why would you waste your time on this? You and your wife need a hobby besides finding out about me. Do you want to know what brand tampon I use too. How about how often I use the bathroom. Your methods of searching out information on me and my friends is of no use in court or for that matter any other place. I guess it is time for me to do searching on my own. I don’t really have the time so I will look into hiring a private detective to look into you and your friends….Yes you have seen C he was at your house several times since 1995.”

Well, C has not been at our house for about 3 years. LOL nice try though.

That’s the subject line in Keith’s response to his ex. AJR is my daughter’s bio dad/sperm donor.

At 12:35 the ex writes, ” Be careful of what you ask for you just might get it.”

(sounds like a threat.) She continues, “I have nothing to hide if you want to know the truth you should have asked me along time ago, not your drug buddy C.G. (initials used). You have led a less than perfect life and your religion should have taught you to forgive. You have done some bad things and if you want to continue hassling me I see no reason why we should not dig up your past as well.”

In this email to the ex at 7:04pm, Keith writes, “(ex wifes name), My wife has never spoken to you on the phone about her ex. She very rarely if ever talks to you at all. This email and the other one you sent, will also be forwarded to her ex and just so you know, so will the rest of the emails you write and discuss him, disparage him, slander him and continue the libelous road you are on, and eventually, all the recorded conversations we have that took place between you and her will also be sent to him or his attorney if he retains one, for further proof, that she has never spoke to you about him.

You seem to think that you can say anything you want about ANYONE you want and get away with it. Well, like I said, you have stepped over the line by dragging someone into your web of lies, that has NOTHING, NOT ONE THING to do with (son) or (daughter). The difference between her ex and Solis, is just that, while her ex has not been in the picture in nearly 9 years, Solis has been and that is even per your e-mail.

It is now up to “the father of sara” to decide what HE wants to do, and how HE wants to handle it. Whether he contacts me or my wife at all about his plans is unknown at this point but I will continue to allow her to print these emails and send them to him. Keith”

At 7:07pm Keith wrote his ex another email telling her, “All my information came from making trips to San Diego Courts, court papers and talking to people on the phone. don’t know where C. is, haven’t known for many years now.”

SO, Keith’s ex decided to bring up Anthony in one of her emails, on 3/5. https://mspisceangal2020.com/2002/03/05/subject-matter-re-eye-doctor/ . I wrote Anthony on 3/6 and sent him a printed copy of what she wrote, and Keith’s response.

Keith told his ex, “Another clear example of talking about something you know nothing about. But, to give you a heads up, your original email will be printed and sent to the ” the father of sara” along with a note that we are 100% supportive of which ever rode he decides to take this. I believe you have stepped over the line with this, and it will be his decision what he wants to do about it. He is not EVER mentioned in any emails or letters by me. YOU are the one that has mentioned him in yours, and you know nothing about him or his life and neither do we.”

I told Anthony that we would be supportive of him should he decide to anything about this (civil suit for slander, libel or whatever).

I told him I had no idea why Keith’s ex decided to bring him into the mix. I told Anthony that I had told Keith that while he and I have no relationship, I would stand up for him as he is the biological father of my daughter and Keith agreed. I found Keith’s ex’s comments so untrue and very disturbing, in my opinion totally unnecessary and hurtful. It makes me wonder, if she would say this to Keith, who else has she said this to.

I let Anthony know that if he talks to a paralegal or an attorney, and they want to talk to Keith and I, please give them our numbers.

I sent this letter Del Con. Anthony received it today.

That’s what the subject matter is yet this is what she wrote today to Keith at 11:48am:

” I guess I should also check on Pats previous man, you know the father of sara, the one who dealt drugs out of the country and was arrested and thrown in jail for drug charges and child abuse.

If you really want the kids to know I have nothing to hide except to protect your appearance to them. I was broke and you were living with another woman and not supporting us. I took in roommates to help cover the cost of living. not my fault that Danny was accused of drug dealing when they searched my house it was clean as was his house and all of his friends houses.. no drugs were ever in my home and no drug dealing were going on. however, I am still friends with all those people and feel not threat. my kids have met and know danny quite well. why are you so jealous and angry about my life. it is my life you. At least I pay to support my kids.”

Say WHAT?!?

Keith received an email from the ex this morning at 7:14am. She said in part, “Why don’t you practice on your wife and tell her to leave me alone and to be nice to your kids so that they will want to visit.”

He told her in his email to her at 8:30am that I have nothing to do with this but of course, he she goes again, putting me in the mix, just like she does the kids.

In a letter I wrote to Anthony, dated 2/7, I reminded him of the child support provisions from July 31, 1995 about paying his share of these expenses.

I also added that this letter is the last letter I will send him regarding this outstanding balance, that his cooperation would be greatly appreciated. It’s a new year which means new deductible will have to be met and new out of pocket expenses will be incurred, that it would be beneficial to him and our daughter to get the balance, (long overdue balance) to zero.

I didn’t put this letter in the mail until 2/11 and he received it at his home today, 2/12.

We go to Court on March 25, CCW. I am required to attend. I will be there, I didn’t follow through a few years back, but it’s been 7 years. It’s about time.

This lady, MAN, she can tell Keith that I can “butt out” and she can say that she doesn’t want me writing or calling the kids, or be around her kids, but she thinks she can talk about me and mention me EVERY GD time she writes Keith. What is her DEAL?

January 27th, today, she writes Keith and says that she “has not caused friction between him and the kids,” that HE “has managed over the the course of 12 years to do this” with his actions, “your wife’s actions and just plain not listening to who or what your children are.”

SHE wouldn’t let him talk to his kids about anything, SHE was their mouth piece, already putting it in their heads that he wouldn’t listen to them so SHE had to speak for them. When she DID allow them to speak to him, they would parrot what she said, mostly their daughter would, and when it came to just talking with them about what was going on, Nothing was going on and nothing was new. He’d hear from his EX at times what was happening, of course bringing up the prices of things they are involved with, and if he would ask the kids about something she said, she would accuse him of invading their privacy, or being nosey, or whatever. INSANE!

They are reviewing my order for an increase in support. They ask me to fill out the attached Financial Statement (simplified) and return it within 2 weeks if I am interested.

Well, of COURSE I will. It’s been since July 1995.

I also enclosed a letter stating that Anthony is court ordered to pay one half of all uncovered medical expenses as part of Child Support. I stated he paid $110.01 towards past due expenses, but still carrying a balance of $274.64 as of 12/31/01.

I requested that the Court impose an amount due from Anthony, to have this balance paid in full and to continue that amount every month thereafter as it appears that Anthony will not reimburse these expenses willingly.

I returned the financial Statement and letter on Jan. 18th. CSSD received it today.

Earlier today, I sent her. via USPS, a Winnie the Pooh and Piglet card on 1-3-02. Piglet and Winnie were hugging each other and it said, “thoughts of someone nice are the smiliest kind of thoughts.”

I wrote:

” Dear L-

Happy New Year!! I just wanted to take this time to thank you for the presents you sent to Thomas, Sarah and I this Christmas.

Your kindness and thoughtfullness mean a great deal to us.

I hope you have a great year full of great times, lots of laughter and tons of love!!

Take care and we love you lots!!

P~ and kids.

In this same card, I wrote a note to the Ex and stepson. I wrote,

” J & N,

Thank you very much for your part in helping L get my kids and I Christmas presents. Your kindness is greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,

P~”